Aries Man in Love

By on May 2, 2014

He’s an adventurous man. In fact, he will go to bed early and wake up before the sun rises just to get a head start on things. He’s determined and dedicated and always looking to get ahead, but only if there is certainly a reward on the other end. The Aries man doesn’t want to waste his time in the slightest. His early-to-rise attitude leaves him getting everything he wants to accomplished quickly, leaving plenty of room for crazy for. He is the kind of guy who will jump from a rooftop into a pool, the guy who will do the wildest stunt you could ever imagine. But don’t try to talk him out of it. He knows what he wants and his argumentative and driven attitude will only lead to him unleashing his fiery on you and returning to what he set out to do.


The Type of Woman Aries Needs

Arian men are known to be flirtatious. They will flirt with, well, just about anyone. If you want to actually attract and keep an Aries man, there is a few certain qualities you need to have.

First and foremost you need to challenge the Aries man. He doesn’t want a woman who falls for his good looks and charm within moments. He would much rather play the chasing game. However, at the same time he doesn’t want a lady who acts like she doesn’t care. He wants the innocent, beautiful woman who will make him work for it and really sweep her off of her feet.

Secondly he needs a lady who can accompany him on all of his wild adventures. And when we say wild, we really mean it. Arians are always seeking a thrill in life- even if it means they could end up seriously injured. It’s all about having a grand, wild time, and someone who is tame and not willing to try new things is definitely out.

Last but not least, Arians need a woman who is stable, secure, and independent- just like he is. He needs a lady who will give him plenty of space and freedom, never tying down his thrill-seeking personality.


Aries in a Relationship

If there is one thing that’s for sure about an Aries man, it’s there love to flirt. They love women- all types of women- and they love to charm them with their adventurous attitudes and suave compliments. They’ll go from one woman to the next within minutes and it won’t even phase them. That being said, Arians are typically not in relationships for very long. Their adventurous attitudes tend to get bored with a girl quickly, and they aren’t afraid to end the relationship so they can go find someone else to entice them. That doesn’t mean that all Aries men are only interested in short-term relationships or open relationships. This just means that you really need to captivate an Aries man and keep things interesting at all times.

If you are able to snag an Arian (and keep his attention long enough for a real commitment), you can expect a very wild time that is full of thrills. He will love taking you on all his exotic adventures and seeing you smile. Keep in mind that underneath his rugged and tough exterior, Aries is really a sensitive guy who wants to keep his woman happy and make compromises when a problem arises. Just like everyone else, Arians want to have a happy relationship- they just want theirs with plenty of free space and tons of excitement.

Aries in Bed

There is probably no better partner in bed than an Aries man. The Arian is like a bull in the bedroom: plenty of passion and a strong, manly attitude that makes him a powerhouse in the bedroom. He is very demanding and loves to do erotic and kinky things in the bedroom. There’s really nothing too erotic for an Aries man and he is always willing to try new things- especially if it means taking his lover to new heights in the bedroom. If you find yourself between the sheets with an Arian man, you can expect one thing: a seriously crazy and enticing night that will leave you breathless.


Negative Side of an Aries Man

Arian men have a tendency to think that they are right- all the time- and everyone else’s opinion is unnecessary. They don’t want to hear it, and if you do try to talk them out of something or change their opinion, you’ll most likely get an ear full of Arian fiery. This arrogant, know-it-all attitude is probably the biggest negative trait of the Arian man, and definitely a turn off for a multitude of women.

They won’t budge for anything. When they have an idea, they set their mind to it, and nobody will stop them. Much like their extreme arrogance, Arian men are also incredibly stubborn. Don’t even try to change their minds, it’s near impossible. And of course, this makes them a bit difficult to deal with, let alone be in a relationship with.

Arian men are constantly seeking a thrill and new adventure. They get bored incredibly easily and seem to always be jumping from idea to idea, thrill to thrill, even woman to woman. This impulsive attitude may be OK when you’re out trying to find a thrill, but impulsiveness in relationships and other serious aspects of life can be a huge problem.


Aries and Gemini: This is probably the perfect match for an Aries. The two of you tend to get bored with life easily, and therefore will have plenty of exciting and fun times together- in and out of the bedroom.

Aries and Sagittarius: The two of you are both seeking adventure and love to have a great time. You’re spontaneous and active, and few other signs would be able to keep up with your high-paced lifestyles. You will enjoy being around each other and have some amazing times together.

Aries and Leo: You’re both alike enough yet different enough to keep things interesting. Learn to deal with your differences and you’ll have a fiery, passionate romance that is likely to last.


Aries Man in a Nutshell

He’s the ‘bad boy’. The stubborn, arrogant, charming, flirty, and totally adventurous guy that you see in the movies. His charm will gravitate you towards him, but don’t let yourself into his arms that easily. He’s a man that loves the chase and loves to sweep a woman off of her feet. He wants to be the big man and will do anything to prove it. While he tends to jump from relationship to relationship like it’s nothing, there is a sensitive side to an Aries man that can fall in love immediately- that is, if he finds the perfect woman for him. Just remember: Aries men don’t like to be tied down and they crave adventure and new thrills constantly. Keep the relationship full of excitement and give Aries man plenty of independence and you’ll have no problem turning this wild bull of a man into a committed husband that wants to make his love happy.


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    July 13, 2018 at 10:26 am


    I’m a libra(18) with Gemini rising and moon sign libra to scorpio(at the cusp). He is an Aries (20) with Leo rising and moon sign pisces to aries(at the cusp). We were friends for almost 1and a half years and whenever I used to meet him there was this spark I felt between us. I don’t know how but we started to develop feelings for each other. he used to pull me in at one moment and then pushed me away by saying he isn’t good for me. I’m really sensitive when it comes to love. And this push and pull things literally used to destroy me. Everyone used to say find someone who is willing to be with you but I’m glad I didn’t listen to them and I just proposed him. He said I don’t know like literally but then I was like okay no problem but let’s have dinner cause I booked all this and when I turned my head to the table he grabbed my hand and pulled me tightly in his arms and said I love you too. He even went on his knees and proposed home again and I said yes and then he called his bestfriend and told him we were in a relationship. But I thought the way he said I don’t know maybe he wasn’t sure and didn’t want to hurt me. So we didnt feel like we were in a relationship. It was when it was his birthday on 6th April just after two months I proposed him. And we kissed. I could see an immense change in him. He started to take care of me. I actually could feel yes he’s my boyfriend. And since then he actually said yes I’m his girlfriend. Earlier he never said that. He calls me everyday. Now my problem is. I’m really in love with him. I wanted to test him a bit. It was like is he all about physical attraction or something more? He always used to say that he loves having sex and that sex connects him more to his girl. I said I don’t want to have sex cause I feel the guy will use me and leave me. And I refused. To my surprise he just explained why being physical to him was important and said it’s totally fine if I’m not ready and he still loves me. Positive part is he does really care about me. And I know he really loves me. But sometimes his anger becomes my major problem. He is so blunt that if I say something like , you can’t even write like me( I like to write) he said you can’t even do 10% of work what I do. Do you understand he just takes everything on his ego. But then yes he called me the very next morning saying he was sorry. I want to connect to him on a deeper emotional level. Once I said if I share something with you then you should to share your problems cause that’s how relationship work and creates a emotional bond. He was sooo pissed at me that he said look don’t tell me this emotional stuff and then he said this is why I used to push you from the start cause I know these relationship problems. I welcome you if you have any problem I can sort it out but I like to keep my problems till myself. And don’t tell me to share it. And he literally said let’s break it off so that you can live peacefully and my anger won’t hurt you anymore. I said look if you want to break it off then do it. But I won’t. He said it’ll be better for us. I said okay then do it. He went quiet and I said let’s talk tomorrow cause you’re really angry and I don’t wanna fight. He said no I want to fight so that I’m gonna hate you. But then I was like I’m keeping the phone. He was like no. And then everything went back to normal. He didn’t break it nor did I. And he slept l saying goodnight. Sometimes I feel is he really emotional about me or not? Cause the way he reacted. And tbvh I really see a future with him. And I asked him have you ever saw your future with someone he said no I never got any intrest and one day he clearly said that marriage isn’t possible. He also said that love makes him weak. Also I’m going out for studies. He never wanted a long distance but now he says he wants it. That he’s left with no choice😂 but I’m scared what if he leaves me like we get into a fight one day and then he breaks it off. And never comes back. That I won’t be able to fulfil his needs. His craze for adventures and stuff. Though he said he’s going out for studies in this November too but not confirm that it’ll be in my city or not. How to make him emotionally attached and how to make it possible for him to see future with me. And lastly how to work on this long distance relationship with an Aries. It’ll be a great help if you reply. Thank you

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      July 13, 2018 at 11:05 am

      Also he sometimes says that yes we will work out and that he’ll come back to me every time even when I’m long distance and some nice things about me that makes me feel that he does admire me. But then sometimes he says he isn’t itni future or sort of that thing that is not that positive. By reading articles after articles on Aries I got to understand that maybe he himself doesn’t know that he really feels for me in a more serious way and that yes he does have emotions related to me. And if he wasn’t emotional towards me then why would he get jealous when someone gives or comments a red heart on my pic or why does he stares in my eyes and says damn man you’re over nice like over goooood or toooood gooood or sweet “ hope you get it and could help me

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        July 13, 2018 at 3:11 pm

        He is jealous of you. This means that he cares for you. Matched with the behaviors that he exhibited in your other comment, he likely wanted to control your social influences. Decide what is appropriate and viable in this relationship, and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Rashi!

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      July 13, 2018 at 3:05 pm

      Your are well educated on the meanings of our signs, so allow that wisdom to influence your actions. Additionally, you are aware that people are individuals and sometimes to not act rigidly according to the stars. He displays egotistical behavior, and you may want to determine what type of person you want to nourish a relationship with you. He has shared his thoughts and feelings with you, so give him an opportunity to reach out to you in the future. Have a great day, Rashi!

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    Dark child

    June 26, 2018 at 2:47 am

    Am a Pisces girl in love with an Aries guy. We met when we were both single and not inlove with anybody else. We had both given up on love but that changed when we met. I love him so much and i feel he loves me too coz he always shows care. But after 1st 2 weeks of meeting he stopped admiting that he loves me, all he started saying was he is meant to be alone, so i should not love him. So he never says “i love you too” to me, he even looks for ways to make me hate him. He never calls or even want us to see yet when i stubbornly go over for us to spend time he tells me he is so happy with me but says no we cant love yet he stopped being flirty with other girls ever since he met me yet he pushes me away. Its complicated sorry. He tells me every time never you come back to my house, we should never see each other again (emotional pisces i am ofcourse heartbreaking af for me), but the second i text him am not ok he is all caring again. He even tells me he is a sadist, he dont fuckin care about anyone or himself and not even me. So a short while we good the next minute he says go away forever. Gush and i love him deeply forever. Now i dont know how to deal with this if to give him space while missing him always and be content that he has love and care for me OR to be stubborn and keep going to him and we spend happy times and he keeps pushing me away. My biggest fear is he should not stop loving me

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      June 26, 2018 at 3:23 pm

      He has acknowledged that he enjoys causing you harm. He has shown that he is willing to abuse and neglect you. Abstain from reaching out to him. Allow your emotional connection with him to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Determine what you want for your future without him. Establish your future relationships on kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Child!

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    June 25, 2018 at 10:48 pm

    I am an arian woman. i was in relationship with arian man for two years. we both were madly in love but his family did not give their consent to our marriage. i was really angry at him and his family and in anger i told him to go to hell, he is pathetic and he can marry anyone he wants. but i never stopped loving him and told my family that i will never marry.
    now i came to know that he got married and is super happy with his wife. he did not even tell me that he was getting married.
    i just wish i will forget him and move on. but i dont know how and when i will move on. i wish it will all be over soon.

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      June 26, 2018 at 3:14 pm

      You decided that you were no longer happy in the relationship. You then shared your thoughts and feelings with him. He is now married. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Learn from this lesson and determine what you want for your future without him. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, and you will find that positive people and energy will enter into your life. Have a great day, Shikha!

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    May 18, 2018 at 10:35 pm

    I’m a married woman and in a relationship with an Aries 17 years my junior. He had a crush on me 2 years back but didn’t do anything as he found out I was married.

    Last year though he saw me again and realised that he liked me a lot and started pursuing me. He is adjusting everything to stay in the relationship. His motive is to make me happy and he begged me not o ever leave him.

    He said that I am in everything and loves me for every reason. He expresses his love to me daily for the past 2 months.

    He requested me to never doubt his love and he is all mine. He even promised to have sex only with me.

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      May 19, 2018 at 12:48 pm

      You are married, so you should not attempt to nourish a relationship with him. You do not want to develop a relationship with the kind of person who would be willing to harm your partner for his own personal gain. Speak with your partner about this other person’s actions. Spend additional time with your partner, as this will cause your relationship to strengthen. Have a great day, Aquarius!

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    A P

    May 4, 2018 at 9:26 pm

    Currently seeing an Arian, met him via online dating. After couple of request I agreed to meet him. I wasn’t at all interested in him but things are changing now because I’m starting to feel some liking for him. We met just once for dinner but he’s asked me out again (many times after our first meeting) and I keep ignoring them. Two days after our first meeting I jokingly said I liked him, he seems happy and replied that he is glad to know about it and says that he liked me too. I kind of like him now but I am a type of girl who has a bad mood swings and sometimes I don’t even realised that my feeling has changed within a day’s time. So, I haven’t encourage him to pursue me much. We talk almost daily via WhatsApp and in month and a half he’ll be flying back to another country where he works…it’s scary to think if I happen to have strong feelings for him and to not have him near me. I am looking for a long-term relationship and not quite sure what he wants. I will not be going for the physical unless I am sure that he values me as a person and see me as a long-term partner. I am typical Gemini and I wouldn’t agree about Gemini being a flirt and changing partners. At my age (30+) I need a Man who’s mature not the Arian describe above…I need some advise on the relationship factor from an expert.
    Thank You 🙂

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      May 4, 2018 at 9:45 pm

      This relationship likely has a time limit. It is possible that you can nourish this relationship so that it becomes long term. You may want to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. He may want a fling or he may want a romantic relationship. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, AP!

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    Marie W

    May 4, 2018 at 9:26 am

    I am a Cancer women late 40s dating a 31 yr old Aries man. My God what is up with them. He has liked me for a year and I never knew it until 2 mo ago. He was so flirty, texting me daily, always coming over to see me to spend timeand we went out on a date and he just stared into my eyes constantly. We did sleep with each other 1 1/2 wks after talking. He started ghosting and I got upset and told him I don’t like it. Long story short he got better with it but then did it again so I ended it. He said he was mad at me for breaking it off twice with him so I was being punished that’s why he wouldn’t txt me all the time. We had another disagreement about it and he just says thats what i do to everyone(ghost). He does work a lot 7 days a week. He told me in a long txt we have a sexual connection that could never be matched. We still are chatting every other day and still intimate and he wanted to go shopping and hang out with me all day and night which to me is so random because of his past behavior. He did tell me when I broke it off he never talked to any girls. We know those Aries love women. I’ve met his roommate and he said he is so attracted to me he can’t control it and I get in his head…whatever that means. He is all over the place I feel emotionally but I feel he likes me. I catch him staring at me everytime i am in his company. He is funny and we laugh alot. What the heck do I do. Run,stick it out or scratch my head because I am so confused

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      Marie W

      May 4, 2018 at 9:31 am

      Correction: His roommate is not attracted to me..HE the Aries is and that i get in his head.

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      May 4, 2018 at 9:26 pm

      He is interested in nourishing a romantic relationship with you. Your actions may have caused him to feel insecure and confused. His feelings may have changed, so you may want to speak with him. Spend additional time with him, as this may help to strengthen your relationship. You may find that you will need to adjust to his lifestyle. Have a great day, Marie!

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    April 30, 2018 at 7:36 am

    Wow, great article. I am a scorpio female (33) with an aries male (55) we have been together 13 years and have 2 daughters together. He was divorces for a couple years when we first met. We met at a gas station where I was a cashier. I enjoyed when he would come in every day after work and he would comment on the group of guys that would loiter around the gas station and called them my fan club. I would make them earn their keep and they did most of the clean up for me and I let then hang around in return. He woukd flirt with me and asked if he could be “President” of my fan club and would bring me his home made meals so I wouldn’t be eating a bunch of fast food or junk food. When we started seeing each other it went very fast and he gave me the key to his house within a matter of weeks and was the first to say I love you. He lost his decent job a week after I started seeing him and it was the beginning of a downward spiral for him. I hung around though because I knew it wasnt who he really was. We have had alot of ups and downs throughout the years and have struggled with money issues, drug abuse, fights. Etc. We are doing better now financially etc. He got out of the career black hole we was in and is doing better than ever in that regard. I stay at home with our 2 girls. We moved to a big city a few years ago for this good job. The thing that worries me though is that I wonder if I am just replaceable to him and that he wants to upgrade to someone with a career outside the home. He says he doesn’t think like that but then I think that he would be the kind of person to seek sexual (just sex) on the side. This is completely unacceptable to me. He is kind of flirty by nature and it has caused many intense rows between us. We never officially married either. He proposed about 10 years ago at my request but I started school back up and put it on the backburner. Now it seriously bothers me. He says he will marry me whenever but when we fight he said he would never marry me and it hurts alot. He is the one who said he wanted kids with me too so what gives. I am insecure and in emotional pain and he doesn’t even see how his anger makes is 1000% worse. He says he just wants a normal peaceful house but I am not willing to give that if I have any inkling that my total loyalty is not reciprocated. Please help. Any suggestions? Thank you so much

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      May 1, 2018 at 9:02 pm

      He has chosen to not treat you with the respect that you deserve as his partner. You have shared your thoughts and feelings with him and he has chosen to ignore you. He has shared that he is not going to marry you. It is clear that this relationship is not what you need for your emotional health. Strengthen your relationships with your family and your friends. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Steph!

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    March 16, 2018 at 1:51 am

    I am gemmeni woman with aries husband.he hides all matters from me , don’t talk to me ,every time remains in Anger,no interest in sex,even he not stare at me. But on the other side very happy with his friends,go to adventures with them ,but at home shows that he is sick and ill.. plz help I couldn’t understand anything.

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      March 17, 2018 at 9:39 pm

      It is possible that he is confused or uncertain about his feelings. He may have found that his feelings have changed. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Hina!

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    March 4, 2018 at 9:26 am

    i’m currently dating an aries man. i’m a libra woman. and we’ve been going out long enough (almost 10 months) for me to actually want to take our relationship to another level. but he seems to be hesitant or scared to step into that zone. how do i ease him or reassure him that he shouldn’t be worried or scared about making our relationship more serious?

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      March 5, 2018 at 1:53 pm

      The two of you have a long history. He may be uncertain or confused about his feelings. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Helga!

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    February 16, 2018 at 3:30 am

    Hi, I’ve met an Aries/Piscean cusp man who’s 5.5 years younger than me (we’re in our 30’s). I’m a Scorpio and Western (Christian background although not really practicing) and he’s a Middle Eastern Muslim (also not really practicing) although we both feel tied to our faith backgrounds due to family. We’re both living in London and he very modern and western in thoughts eg with dress, he drinks, likes I have a lot of friends – males included, has spent many years living in the West etc. still I’m sceptical about getting involved with him. He is extremely affectionate, constantly touching me, staring deeply into my eyes even during normal conversation, compliments me often and shadows me at work, to the point he’ll follow me to get a glass of water if sees me going to get one. Hates txting but has started as I’ve said I like the contact. In fact anything I’ve asked of him to see whether we’d be culturally compatible he has done or sorted out for me instantly. He says he just wants to make me happy and share a life with me. We’ve worked together for approx 4 months and chatted the whole time in friendly banter but I’m only part time so we don’t see each other daily and have only caught up twice one on one for drinks in the last week or so but he’s already talking marriage and children. He asked me to be his girlfriend the first night we went out, to which I said no and it’s not even a possibility for now till we get to know one another better. He has said he’ll give me time and won’t pressure me into anything and will take things slow and one day at a time. I guess I’m unsure as to whether his super keenness and sudden love towards me in quite a serious way is due to his star sign or if it’s a cultural thing (which for me is alarm bells ringing) as I’ve been very clear that I would never adopt religious or old fashioned cultural values into my own life which he constantly confirms he wouldn’t push anything onto me and would never try to change me as no one in life can force anyone to do something they don’t want to do. We’ve not slept together but the two times we’ve met we’ve been very risqué even though in public (dark stairwells, toilets etc). It says our star signs are not compatible but he is really keen to make me his?

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      February 17, 2018 at 10:02 pm

      It is important to understand that human decision and human action is often more powerful than the stars. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Take action in the appropriate direction. Compatible starts signs are often incompatible, and incompatible signs are often compatible. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Confused!

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      May 18, 2018 at 6:02 am

      if his name is Omar Rachi,because this story rings a bell, RUN RUN RUN!!!! if not, just check your perfect modern Middle Eastern Arian isnt married…

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        May 19, 2018 at 12:32 pm

        Thank you for sharing your insights and thoughts. We always appreciate when our community members support each other. Have a great day, Baby!

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    February 2, 2018 at 11:16 am

    So I am a Virgo woman and he’s an Aries. He’s actually two years younger than me when we met he was completely smitten and he still is but the thing is we met once when I visited his country and now we are in a long distance relationship. I’m worried to give it my all since we live far away from each other. But I do plan on moving to his country soon.

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      February 2, 2018 at 5:21 pm

      It is possible that he is interested in a developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Claire!

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    January 28, 2018 at 4:26 am

    I am an aquariun women and an aries man showed his intrest and pursue me for 2-3 months. I broke up wit a leo. I told aries man about it. He was so loving and caring. We had an intimate relationship. I supported him in his endeavors. But after one year he found a job in another city. He is flirtacious n have relationship with other women n i caught him red handed. He promised not to do again but again guilty of infidelity. Every time I abondoned him but he came to me again and again. I dont know its love or just a sexual or financial need???

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      January 29, 2018 at 6:14 pm

      He has chosen to cheat on you. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Decide what actions you believe are appropriate. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Samreen!

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    January 10, 2018 at 6:17 am

    Im crushing on an aries man but it seems like he has no interest (i guess?). He hangs out with a lot of girls and flirts with a lot of them. We text sometimes but it all comes to an end at some point.

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      January 10, 2018 at 6:20 am

      i think he isn’t over with his first ex too…….. i think he knows that i am interested in him…. what should I do..

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        January 10, 2018 at 1:41 pm

        He is unable or unwilling to establish a relationship with you at this time. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he ignores you, then allow your thoughts of him to fade. Have a great day, Krystal!

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      January 10, 2018 at 1:41 pm

      He is unable or unwilling to establish a relationship with you at this time. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he ignores you, then allow your thoughts of him to fade. Have a great day, Krystal!

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    September 11, 2017 at 1:48 am

    Hello, I have been knowing an aries man since 2008 and we lost contacted until we meet again in last July 2017. So glad to keep contact again as he was also still curious asking whether that I am still single or not as he sounds so happy knowing that I am still single as he also told me if he also has not married yet. We communicated as well again as long ago until suddenly he seems so drowning in his busy life the more about his job *I know that it makes him like a workaholic and we both live in different country. He confessed me if he flirted me when we live in the same country and feel like so matching as we both are fire elements as I am a Sagittarius. Last he told me he is not ignoring me just need to set his priorities correctly. Please tell what I should do now as I think I have the feeling is growing than the last I met him long ago? Even surprising me enough when he told me before at early time we met when he said, ‘I even still keep your picture from last we met in 2009 to wait for you to come back to me.’ Oh God…!! I even never thought about it before, and it was really flattering me a lot that time! But now I’m confused what to do as I think I start loving him again but now not that easy for us to keep in touch as we are far…

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      September 11, 2017 at 10:10 pm

      He is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is clear that he is attracted to you. He may want to establish a relationship with you, but he may be unable to because of distance. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Mia!

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    September 9, 2017 at 9:19 pm

    I seeing a arie dude I’m a leo woman I’m 46 and he is 32 I’m always calling him and text him but he will pick up or text me back just don’t know if he is interested in me he get mad a every thing I say some things don’t like to call because I don’t want to say the wrong time help me

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      September 9, 2017 at 11:02 pm

      It would be beneficial for you to take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to nourish this relationship, then speak directly and honestly with him. You may find that spending additional time with him will benefit your relationship. Perhaps his actions are unacceptable to you and you want to address that. Have a great day, Marie!

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    August 20, 2017 at 11:26 pm

    I am dating a aries man that is 8 years younger than me! Im turning 29 hes 21. We use to work together a few yeard back and he is sooooo mature omg. I love the way he pursued me even after we lost contact. Im a libra woman. He makes me feel so energized. The vibe is amazing, we talk all night in person about everything, he brings me out of my shell and routine, I center him and support him to regain focus on what’s important. My dilemma is I cant believe i feel this way over a guy this young! Im not sure if i can keep up with a aries adventurous ways. I love being spontaneous but im just scared he will get bored. We havent had sex yet. I last had sex 8 months ago and dont want to unless i know it will last. He always talks about building with me, how we blend well and how he admires how i smile even though I’ve been threw so much. I give him space even though i dont want to lol i act nonchalant but he always reaches out. Are aries and libra compatible?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 21, 2017 at 8:40 pm

      It sounds as though the two of you have developed a strong relationship together. It is clear that the two of you are compatible. Remember to always share your thoughts and feelings with your partner. It is important for you to be direct and honest at all times. This will help your relationship. Have a great day, Vickie!

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    July 20, 2017 at 12:23 pm

    I’m in love with an Aries man. This is 2nd time approaching me for some form of relationship. The 1st was 4yrs ago but I was engaged and most recently 4 months ago. He said he liked me when he first saw me but couldn’t talk to me at that time because he was married still. He was married 28 years but separated the last 4 of the marriage and waiting for his wife to say come home. She didn’t so he filed for divorce. He is a very handsome and flirtatious guy now. From my viewpoint it seems he wants validation of every woman. We work in the same building. We live almost a n hour and a half apart. He lives in Virginia and I live in Maryland. We work in DC. He has asked me out on 3 occasions and 2 of which I was very sick. He asked me to accompany him to a doctors appointment and for his birthday. The 3rd was just to eat something. I couldn’t make it. From our talks and corresponding I’ve come to have deep feelings for him. I have a problem with his need for every womans attention and thinking he can be their rescuer. He makes time to see me at work and call and text his every move when we are apart with pics to accompany. He told me that he would stop talking to me if I didn’t stop talking about him and his time for everyone else. That upset me because i feel my concerns are valid. If he was choosing me as he said then I shouldn’t be made to feel like I’m not enough or that distance is an important factor. As handsome of a man that he is and great of a man that he has been for his ex wife and 3 sons I am the equivalent as a woman.He told me that if I had acknowledged him four years ago he would have a ring on it by now or even married. I have been avoiding him since his comment. But I really do love him. We only have the basic physical contact thus far. I just allow him to contact me. I’m not sure what to do or say to him at this point.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 20, 2017 at 7:05 pm

      Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Decide whether or not you want to be in a relationship with him for the long term. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he understands, then develop a relationship with him further. If he does not understand or treats you disrespectfully, then there is no reason to continue the relationship. Have a great day, Sari!

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    July 1, 2017 at 7:34 pm

    I’m currently crushing on an Aries guy, and I’m a Capricorn. We used to talk for a bit, but since he knew I like him, he only speaks with me when necessary. I’m starting to think that he’s got no interest, as he is literally my opposite, he usually hangs out with my best friend, who is Cancer, and sometimes gives off flirty gestures to her, but she always denies it. But then at one point, his friends kept telling me to sit next to me, but he denies it immediately, and sits next to them instead, and my friend once borrowed his ruler and she noticed that he has written my name on it, and whenever I get the chance to talk to him, he’s usually in a bad mood and whenever I speak to him when he’s in that kind of mood(which is very rarely), he always smiles and when we stop our small talk, he goes back to his bad mood.

    My best friend always tries to tell him how I currently feel about him, and when he found out that I would give up on him, he’d say ‘Thank you!’ since he’s just across the room, and runs away, but later comes back to my friend to ask if I don’t like him anymore, and when she responds ‘Yes’, he smiles and walks away. My friend once ran up to me and said that he wanted to ask me out, and then he later came in saying it was a joke, but my friend and his friends said that it wasn’t, and he’s trying to tell them that it was, but they deny that, and whenever some others say that he and my best friend are a couple, someone else would have said that he’s “dating” me.

    Whenever someone says that he likes me, he’d instantly deny it, and they’d tease him for it.
    I honestly feel like they’re just joking around and make me feel embarrassed when I agree to it, and he likes my friend instead, since he hangs out more with her.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 2, 2017 at 6:41 pm

      It is certainly possible that he has feelings for you. This is likely because he is uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Explain to him that if he wants to be with you, then he should say so. This will give him the opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Samantha!

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    March 12, 2017 at 5:03 am

    Im crushing an aries man in my office whom i known for 8 months but already have a gf. He’s so flirt. I see him always approachibg women in the office, but think just friendly gesture. He stare at me and blink eyes when i catches his. he makes excuses to touch my hand. We joke around when we talk and I want to know if its just friendly talk or he’s already flirting. I like him but how can i show him I want him to pursue me

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 12, 2017 at 2:23 pm

      If he already has a girlfriend, then do not pursue a relationship with him. If his relationship naturally ends, then you should speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Since he is in a relationship, you should explain to him that you do not want him to be flirting or touching you. Have a great day, Kaye!

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    July 12, 2016 at 2:23 pm

    Help please…i am a Taurus woman (I am seperated with a sag man after 14 yrs) grew apart. In the meantime for past 5 yrs I have been dealing with a Aries man who is 10 yrs my senior, owns his own buisness, ( I am a rep who has to deal with him once a month maybe) when I first went in I could remember the instant stare from him and I just thought awkward…well later in months seen him at a restraunt and I was with my ex and he stopped talking to someone and was staring at me… I ignored it. Then I didn’t see him for a year forward recently I have his account and he would stare at me but then one day he was in front of people and I walked in and he said ” my girlfriend” I had dead expression and kept walking by… He seen that look and said sorry… Things changed .. Hot n cold.sarcasticand treated me like he was mad? Why? . Then one day brushing of my hand tried to grab my finger and I quickly jerked back… He stopped talking to me for 2 month when I came in .. Then he would just stare when he had chance and was nice again.. But now when I go in I just play it cool and deal with someone else… I sort of ignore him but pretend I don’t see him…This story sounds more creepy but I just found out he has a gf of 4 yrs.. Ha! Just trying figure it out… Curious if I should deal with a single Aries man… Never known any…but nothing will happen on my part.. Just think I will disappear on him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 12, 2016 at 10:48 pm

      It is clear that you do not want a relationship with him and that he acts in a disrespectful manner to you. There is no reason for you to continue speaking with him or entertaining his inappropriate advances. Speak with him directly him about your desire for him to no longer touch you. Be clear that it is disrespectful and you demand that it stops. Continue to be clear and direct with him in the future and look inward to determine what you want for your future.

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