10 Signs the Two of You Are Meant To Be

By on March 3, 2016

So you have been with this guy for awhile and everything is going fairly well, but you’re starting to ask the difficult question: are you and him soul mates? Are you meant to be? We’re going to help you answer this prying question with 10 possible signs the two of you are meant to be together!


  1. You’re Comfortable with Him

Being comfortable with someone is so important in a long-lasting relationship. I mean, if you have to hide certain details or personality traits from him, how long can you really keep up the façade? Being absolutely comfortable with your partner- and having him accept you for who you are- is crucial when developing a relationship that’s built to last.

  1. You Tell Him Everything

Of course, it’s not just about how you act around him; do you feel like you could TELL him everything too? If he knows everything about you- even your deepest darkest secrets- it could be a definite sign the two of you are meant to be. (And hopefully he feels just as comfortable sharing everything with you too!) But it’s not just about sharing intimate details and secrets; you should be able to tell him how you’re feeling about something even if it means it may end up in a disagreement.

  1. You Imagine a Future With Him

You dream about the day where you and him will have your very own place, waking up making coffee and cooking pancakes on the stove. It fills you with so much happiness and pleasure to think about the many trips, conversations, adventures, and so much more you will share with him in the future. If, in your eyes, he is a definite part of your future and you imagine about it regularly, it’s a good sign he will be around for awhile.

  1. You Respect Him

Respect is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. If you respect him to the fullest, then you’re probably meant to be with him.


  1. You Trust Him

The second most important part of a relationship is TRUST. If you have absolutely no doubt in your mind about this man and trust him completely, he’s certainly someone you want to stay with. Someone you don’t every worry about, you don’t have to check his phone, and you don’t wonder if he will be loyal to you when he goes out with his guy pals- that’s a man that should be with you in the future.

  1. You Can Work Through Any Issues

You know what they say- the strongest relationships last through the biggest disagreements and work through the most treacherous arguments. Does this sound like you and your man? Can you work through any issues you may have? If it’s been proven time and time again that your relationship can withstand the worst of the worst, you’re probably meant to be together- after all, there’s probably very LITTLE that would actually lead you two to separate since you have such a powerful history of sticking together through the problems.

  1. You Don’t Even Think About Dating Others

The saying goes you’re not in love until you stop thinking about cheating; is this true? Possibly. Is it true for you in your situation? If you’re truly meant to be with someone, you won’t think about dating someone else. You won’t question your relationship with whom you’re currently with, and the thought of being with someone other than them is just downright terrible. He is the only one for you. You don’t want anyone else; you don’t even THINK about it.


  1. You Have Fun Together

Okay, seriously- what relationship is going to work for the long haul if you don’t even have any fun together? When you’re with the one that’s meant for you, you’ll never get bored of them. You could be sitting in a dark room with nothing but you and him, and the two of you will still find plenty to talk about and tons to laugh about. If the two of you have tons of fun together, practically all the time, and they constantly put the biggest smile on your face (even when you don’t want to), it could be a sure sign that you have found the person you are meant to be with.

  1. You Introduce Him to Friends and Family

You don’t want to introduce just anyone to your friends and family members- especially not someone you’re going to be with for a very long time. If you feel like he is the one for you and the two of you are meant to be together, then you probably have the urge and desire to introduce him to your friends and family. And you know what? If h feels the same way about you he will be happy and proud to meet the people so close to you. So this is a BIG indication when it comes to determining whether or not the two of you are meant to be together, ladies!

  1. It Just Feels Right

There are certain things that others just won’t understand or comprehend; love is certainly one of these things. In the end, it just may feel ‘right’ to you. You may feel like there is simply no one out there better than him and the relationship is close to perfect. You can’t really explain it to anyone and even if you tried they wouldn’t understand it. And that’s OKAY. You’re in love and you think he is the one for you, and that’s enough. Nobody else NEEDS to understand it. It’s a beautiful thing!


After reading through these 10 signs, do you feel like you and your partner are meant to be together? Do you have anything to add to this list? We’d love to hear from you!


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    March 13, 2018 at 9:38 am

    Hi. Me and my boyfriend are dating for almost 4 months now after being friends for almost 6 years. We do not live together but we spend every day over a weekend together. We share and get involved with each other’s interests. He’s very chivalrous towards me (opens the door for me, let me enter a door before him, carries my bag for me, does little things for me like getting me a drink or something to eat when going to the kitchen and so on). Even introduced me to his family 2 weeks after we started dating.
    He has said he loves me a few times already, to which I’ve affirmed and we’re not shy about showibg PDA.
    However, my actual question comes as to what I should make of him mentioning to me that we’re life partners. Does this mean he may be/is considering proposing in future or just merely being in a relationship with no prospects of a proposal?

    • web admin

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      March 13, 2018 at 3:30 pm

      It is clear that he feels a strong emotional connection with you. Your conversations have been signs that he is interested in maintaining a permanent relationship with you. It is likely that you want to do the same. Spend additional time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Christine!

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    November 12, 2016 at 5:50 am

    Hi, I must say what I’ve read just about describes h9w and what I’m experiencing on a regular basis relating to my close friend of the last 3 yrs.

    Just to give you some idea we both do the same sport and were members of the same club when we initially met about 7 years ago, but belong to different club at this stage. The last year or so we’d come together once a week for this. He would come pick me up, help me load my bag in the car, later on carry my bag for me without me having to ask, together with his, he would sometimes rub my back for no apparent reason, would pull out a chair for me next to where he’s seated, during conversation we would make eye contact, when parting ways we would hug, sometimes coupled with a back rub. He has once send me morning text starting with “morning beautiful…” and on two other occasions used the phrases “my dear” and “my girl”. Has introduced me to his brother 2 yrs ago and have spend some time with his best friend (guy) on 3 occasions since last year August.

    About 3 months ago I had 3 different people on 3 consecutive days either telling or mentioning to me something to the extent of my friend proposing before the end of the year, one of them being my dad surprisingly asking me about what if he wants to propose… At this stage I’m out of town and we’re far apart but we make telephonic contact once a week where we have a very long discussion.

    Just one last think what can it possibly mean if my close friend tells me that “maybe I’ll find the man of my dreams”, and that in the weeks aforegoing and on the day of my departure going out of town?

    Thanks for a great article!

    • web admin

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      November 13, 2016 at 10:48 am

      It is certainly clear that the two of you have a strong interest in each other. Continue to be a good friend to him. Spend additional time with him and share your thoughts and ideas. In time, speak to him directly and honestly about your feelings. He is certain to do the same. You can take this time as a chance to look inward and determine what kind of future that you want for yourself. Remain positive as you move forward. Best of luck, Cassandra!

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        June 19, 2017 at 11:48 pm

        Just a follow-up on my initial comment and your response to my comment.
        Since my return I have noticed my male friend becoming more gentlemanlike in his actions towards me i.e. he would let me go before him through a checkout point, would jump at the opportunity to get me a chair should there not be one available for me, sometimes pays for my stuff as well when we go shopping together or pay for lunch/dinner. I also recently noticed some of the women at the club mentioning to him that they notice he carries my bag for me, to which he only responded by saying that’s just being a gentleman and that he was brought up that way. I however do appreciate the fact that he is carrying my bag for me as that bag can get very heavy sometimes!
        Even got himself a bicycle recently for the two of us to get together.
        However very recently (like a few days ago) I mentioned to him that my parents have invited him to join me and my parents on a planned vacation for next year. His response was that he would enjoy that.
        For some or other reason I just can’t seem to come to a different inference that something may be cooking but that I’m just not 100 % sure as he does not talk to me about what he is really feeling and so on. Your thoughts on this would be much appreciated.

        • web admin

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          June 20, 2017 at 5:39 pm

          It is almost certain that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. If you are interested in him and want to move your relationship further, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. It is highly likely that he will want to develop a relationship wit you as well. The chances are high that he will want to go on a date as partners. Have a great day, Cassandra!

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    November 8, 2016 at 6:05 pm

    Ok, I’m talking to a boy right now and everything is going great right now. We get on the phone with each other everyday for hours, and tell each other everything. Of course, I have respect for him, I told my friends about him, we work through issues, I trust him, we have fun together, I imagine a future with him almost everyday and I am comfortable around him. But I told him that I talk to somebody already and he just makes me feel so different and makes my world way much better. Umm is we meant for each other?

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 9, 2016 at 12:46 pm

      It is certain that the closeness that the two of you have is an indication of his potential feelings for you. Continue to share your thoughts and ideas with him. If you want to attempt to meet up with him and spend time with him, then that may strengthen your relationship as well. If you want to take the next step in your relationship, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Enjoy life and best of luck, Destiny!

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