50 Flirty Quotes for Him

By on August 12, 2014

A little flirting never hurt anyone. If you are interested in a guy, you should get out there and show it! For ladies who are already taken, flirting can be a powerful way to show someone you love that you care about them. Your boyfriend or crush will never be able to know how you truly feel unless you tell him. Use some of these flirty quotes and messages to step up your game. You can send a text message with one of the quotes or write it in an e-mail. If you are especially creative, an old-fashioned love letter can be an especially touching way to show your boyfriend how much he means to you. Although there are a number of different quotes listed, look through them all to find the one that is right for you. Each relationship is different, so the style of flirting used will have to vary from person to person.

1.Roses are red, violets are blue and sugar may be sweet, but it is nothing compared to you.

For a refreshing twist on the tried-and-true poem, this version helps to liven up your boyfriends day.

2.Happy birthday! What would your one wish be if you can have everything?

Instead of sending your boyfriend a basic birthday wish, send this slightly flirty version. Add a winking face at the end of it, so that he will feel free to send you his deepest wishes for you.

3.Texting is not real flirting, but until we are together, I will have to make do.

With the rise of technology, some of the real ways of interacting have fallen in disuse. Use this text message to be forward and let your crush know that you want to get down with him in the real world.


4.Come on over. I have all your favorites ready. Chips, burgers and me!

If the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, this message is sure to be well-received. Keep it classy with cute flirting messages like this. If your boyfriend is interested in a different food or beer, you can always change the message up.

5.You’ve been on my mind all day. I think you’ll like what you see later tonight.

Add a winking face after this and he will know that something is up. A message like this essentially serves as a type of written foreplay. You can be certain that thoughts about you will fill his mind from the second that he reads this until he receives his surprise.


6.You were AMAZING yesterday.

Every guy wants to hear that he is the best. Boost his ego and let him know that you enjoyed spending the night with him.

7.Looking forward to tomorrow since you get more and more beautiful every day.

Something sweet can help to brighten his day and show that you are interested in him.

8.We just arrived at the bar/vacation spot/work. Ugh, I wish I was back there with you.

If you have to be separated from him, you should show that you miss him. Even a simple message like this shows him that you still care.

9.What to do….black panties or pink? Care to help?

Every man loves a chance to help with lingerie selection. If you don’t need his immediate input, ask him to visit a lingerie store with you—he will be on his best behavior all week.


10.Good luck tonight! I am sure that you will be amazing and look good doing it!

Whether he is about to be in a game or has a presentation at work, a message for good luck is always well-received. Let him know how much you care by giving him a confidence boost in advance.

11.Did the sun come out or did I just feel you smiling at me?

For a slightly corny, but cute flirt, try using this message.

12.This XXXXX is killing me. Be my hero and come save me.

Fill in the blank with whatever you are working on; homework, work or errands. Cute, silly messages like this give him a chance to be the hero and help him realize how much you wish that you were there with him.


13.Good morning, gorgeous. Hope your day is as wonderful as you are!

Sometimes, flirting does not have to be over the top or direct. It can be a basic compliment or a caring hello to your boyfriend.

14.Soooo….my friend would like to know if you think that I am hot.

It may be an obvious ruse, but it is a way to ask if your crush is interested without directly having to say it.

15.Hey you!

Add a smiley or a winking face and this becomes an easy way to start a conversation. Plus, a winking face always adds a level of flirtation to any message.

16.Would you rather do XXXX than hang out with me?

If your crush is bored with doing homework or office paperwork, the time is now to ask him if he wants to come over. You’ll immediately find out if he is interested when he shows up at your doorstep.

17.You are in my 2AM thoughts.

If you are still awake at 2 AM, chances are that your crush is on your mind. Also, if you crush is still awake to receive this message, there is a strong possibility that he is also thinking about you.

18.You look good in that XXXX.

Was he wearing a cute shirt today? New jeans? If he looks good, let him know it. Nothing provides a confidence boost like finding out that you look great. Plus, this flirty message can give him a sign that you are interested.

19.Message me your picture so Santa can have my wish list.

It may be direct, but this flirty text certainly works to get the point across.

20.Grr…I have an issue. I just cannot stop thinking about you.

Besides being funny, this message lets him know that he is always on your mind. Overall, this cute message is sure to please.

21.Bored at home…are you up for some fun?

Depending on your relationship, this could be a suggestion for getting to know each other better or a day lounging in bed. Whatever it is, you are sure not to be bored for long.

22.Let’s commit the perfect crime: I will steal your heart if you will steal mine.

Besides being slightly lyrical, this message is forward and flirty. Stop beating around the bush and let him know how you feel.


23.How you doin’?

Remember the 90s show, Friends? Joey was known for picking up ladies with this line and guess what? It works well in reverse. If you want to get your crush to notice you, a simple “How you doin’?” is all that you need.

24.Where have you been all of my life?

Played and replayed in movies, this classic line never gets old. It can brighten the day of your boyfriend or inspire your crush to ask you out.

25.We should make like fabric softener and snuggle.

Cute? Yes. Possibly over the top? Never. This message is truly one of a kind and remains one of the cutest ways to get your boyfriends attention.

26.Oh dear, I am terribly bored. Let’s have an adventure together.

If he says yes to this message, that means you have hours to catch his eye and flirt with him in person. Sometimes, the most effective flirty quotes are the most basic ones.

27.If nothing lasts forever, I was wondering if you would be my nothing?

It may be a little corny, but this flirty quote is one way to get your point across instantly.


28.XXXX is definitely your color!

Fill in the blank with whatever color he is wearing. It is a great way to compliment the color he is wearing and also how he looks in it.

29.Oh, I just got out of the shower.

Are you stuck in the friend zone? If you want him thinking about your body, the easiest way is to use this flirty message. When he asks you what you are up to, just tell him that you are just getting out of the shower. More than likely, his mind will instantly turn to thoughts of you—and him—in the shower.

30.Every night, I go home sad because I cannot wait until I see you again. 🙂

If you have already started dating, this is a cute way to let him know that you care about him. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but it can also be a source of sadness. A little nudge like this will let him know that you want to see him again soon.


31.When we are apart, all I can think about is you.

Once the relationship has started, this is a surefire way to let him know that you are thinking about him. Like the previous quote, it is a great way to let him know how you feel.

32.You light up my world.

It may be more touchy-feely than the average flirty quote, but it works for ladies who want to express their true feelings to their current boyfriend.

33.My life may be confusing for so many areas, but the only thing I know for sure is that I am truly happy when I am with you.

This message may be too heartfelt for a standard crush, but it works perfectly for a boyfriend that you are beginning to develop deep feelings for.


34.Send me a pic.

Add a winking face to this and he will know the type of picture that you are interested in. A few shots of the abs or more will assure you of his interest in you.

35.Hey, gorgeous. I wanted to see how you are doing since we have not talked for a while.

If you have not heard from your crush for an extended period of time, you need to get reacquainted. Start by asking about what he is up to and let the conversation flow smoothly from there. Never take a lack of messages for a sign that he does not like you. He may be nervous, engrossed in finals week or busy at work. Give him the benefit of the doubt by sending him a hello. Just make sure to keep it to a minimum—repeatedly messaging him when he doesn’t answer will only come across as clingy.

36.Hope you have sweet dreams tonight…and I hope I am in them.

Instead of just wishing him sweet dreams, let him know that you want to be a part of his dreams. Since are thoughts before bed often intermingle with our dreams, there is an excellent chance to ensure that he is dreaming about you.

37.Grr…I was so busy when I left this morning that I didn’t realize I was commando.

If you want to get him to think about you in “that” way, this is one of the easiest ways to do so. You can be sure that he will spend the rest of the day daydreaming about what you look like underneath your cloths.

38.My old school outfit/cheer leading outfit/Catholic school clothes are apparently still in my closet….and they still fit.

It seems like every guy secretly fantasies about one of these outfits on his girl. If you want him thinking about you for the entire day, this message will work just as well as the previous one. Be warned—this has the habit of beginning some G rated messages.


39.Today was terrible. Any thoughts on how to unwind?

This is one of the easiest ways to tell if he is interested. If he does not like you, his response may include something like taking a walk or a stereotypical “friend” activity. When your crush is interested, this open-ended question may bring up new ideas like a massage, bath or dinner together. Send him this message and see where the response takes you!


40.If we were together right now, what would we be doing?

Give him this open-ended question and let his thoughts unfold. You may be in different locations in a moment, but you are certainly going to be near each other again.

41.Aw, I like the sound of that!

If you are not sure what to say to a message he sends you, respond with something like this. Instead of expanding in your answer, keep your response short so that the ball stays in his court.

42.You should save your energy at work today, I think you will need it for later.

This simple, flirty message will keep him thinking about you all day long. Until he meets you later, he will have no clue if this means a special date or a spicy encounter. Try not to elaborate too much. By not knowing what the evening holds, it will keep his curiosity peaked and his intensity up.

43.Tell me more.

Add a winking or a smiley face and use this as your response. If you are not sure what his messages mean, getting him to open up is the best way for you to find clarity without embarrassing yourself.

44.Come see me tonight. I can promise you that you won’t regret coming over.

If you want him to be at your doorstep in moments, this is the easiest way to do it. An open-ended invite like this is sure to get you a response.


45.We should rearrange the alphabet so that U and I can be together.

It may be corny, but this tried and true message is sure to succeed. If you want to get the ball rolling and catch his eye, this is the way to do it. You will never know for sure if your crush likes you unless you take the chance.

46.I’m in bed, bored. Want to join?

If you want your message to be clear and to the point, this is the way to do it. When he asks you what you are up to, a response like this is sure to draw his attention. This is a great way to get a cuddle buddy—or more—for a lazy Saturday morning or movie night.

47.Get over here…Now.

The urgency of this message will get your point across: you need your boyfriend with you immediately. Sexual undertones will ensure that he is at your house immediately. If you are not ready for this relationship to go to the next level, pick a different flirty quote to send.

48.Have you been working out?

Everyone loves to hear if they are looking more athletic or trim. Your boyfriend or crush is sure to appreciate the compliment. The fact that you noticed how he looked could be a hint for your crush to take things a step further.

49.Those jeans look amazing.

Straightforward and to the point, this is another way to let him know that you are thinking about him.

50.Sweet dreams, gorgeous.

A flirty message does not have to be difficult. Sometimes, the most basic messages are the ones that work the best.

Depending on the status of your relationship, you may want to use different messages. The more risque selections are ideal if you are already in a relationship, while cute quotes are sure to attract the attention of your crush. By sending your boyfriend a flirty quote, you can let him know how you feel and that your are interested.

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