20 Good Questions to Ask Your Crush

By on September 14, 2014

Want to find out a little more about that special someone you’re crushing on? What better way to dig deeper than the surface than by the use of questions. We’ve pulled together 20 great questions to ask your crush- from basic questions to find out his interests to more prying questions that will let you know if he’s really the one for you.

6f381433364a71dc7e4a130a5c1d68c0 1. Are you seeing anyone?

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This should undoubtedly be one of your first- if not the very first- question you ask your crush. Why? Because you don’t want to spend too much time getting to know someone who is already in a committed relationship.

2. What’s your favorite movie?

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This is a totally laid back question you should absolutely ask for two reasons. One, you might find out the two of you have a common interest in movies. Secondly, you’ll find out a little more about his personality. Does he like comedies? He might have a relaxed, comical personality. Does he like action? He might be a bit on the dramatic side.

3. What’s your favorite genre of music?

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Another easy going question that will get the same results as question number 2.

4. What’s the longest relationship you’ve ever been in?

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With this question you will find out whether or not he’s interested in long term or short term relationships- and trust me, that’s something you’ll need to know for the future.

5. What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?

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Make your conversation relaxed and silly with this funny question- which is guaranteed to bring on the laughter. Don’t forget to keep the conversation rolling with a few embarrassing moments of your own!

6. Where do you see yourself in the future?

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Who doesn’t love to talk about the future? It’s the topic that just keeps giving. You might find out he will be attending law school and is dead set on becoming a popular, widely known lawyer, or he might just want to see the world with the woman he loves. There’s really no question what his answer will be!

7. How would you describe the perfect woman?

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Why wouldn’t you want to ask this? I mean, after all, if he describes a woman who is the complete opposite of you, it might mean you should stop your crush while it’s ahead. On the other hand, if his perfect lady describes you to a tee, you might have just met your soul mate.

8. What is one thing you believe in?

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Just a fun question because there’s so many different answers he could come up with. Maybe he will use this opportunity to talk about his religion, or maybe he will choose to talk about reincarnation. Who knows what he believes in? But it’s definitely something you should find out ahead of time.

9. How would your friends describe you in three words?

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Definitely a fun question. I wonder how his friends will describe him? Funny? Cocky? Confident? Silly? Whatever the answers may be, you will definitely learn a lot about him.

10. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?

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Another fun and laid back question that I’m sure he will love answering. If he an adventurous man who wants to travel to the largest mountain in the world, or would he rather enjoy a drink on the beach?

11. What’s your fondest memory of your past?

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Dive into his past history a little bit and indulge in a nice, calm story that may warm your heart.

12. If you could date one celebrity, who would it be?

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If he says someone who looks just like you, it might be a signal he likes you!

13. If you could go to dinner with one person from history, who would you choose?

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Another awesome question that will tell you more about his personality. Would he choose Albert Einstein for his wisdom or Michael Jackson for his music?

14. What’s the funnest thing you’ve ever done?

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Because everyone loves to relive the funnest moments of their past!

15. What is one of your worst habits?

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Not something we always WANT to answer, but it’s definitely something you should know ahead of time instead of finding out later on in the relationship.

16. Why did your last relationship end?

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This one is a BIT personal, but it’s definitely something you need to find out at one point or another.

17. Who is someone you look up to?

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This question is important because it will really give you a grasp on the type of man he is.

18. What is the wildest thing you’ve ever done?

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You should always know just HOW wild the person you’re crushing on is. Trust me- it’s important!

19. If you could have one wish come true right now, what would you wish for?

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Always an interesting question. Just make sure to tell him he can’t wish for more wishes- that’s just downright cheating!

 20. What are you doing Friday night?

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Yeah, I totally just went there. Ask him out!

 

See? Asking your crush questions doesn’t have to be anything daunting. These are just a few examples of totally fun, cool, and laid back questions that will get you the answers you crave without being overly prying. If you’re still in need of more questions, check out “20 Flirty Questions to Ask Your Crush” blog post!

 

What do you think is a good question to ask your crush?

24 Comments

  1. Ella spicer

    October 11, 2018 at 9:20 am

    Me and this guy already know each other well and we both know we’re getting together I just need the conversation to go in that direction so it comes up without me asking how do I do that ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 12, 2018 at 7:51 pm

      There are many options for you to take. You can always speak directly with him. Spend additional time with him in person. Doing so will strengthen your relationship and give you numerous opportunities to share your thoughts and feelings with him. Ensure that you give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Ella!

  2. Jackson

    September 14, 2018 at 5:29 am

    There’s this girl I like but she said she takes me as a friend to another one of my friends. Do you think I still might have a chance to get together with her?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 14, 2018 at 8:55 pm

      She has shared her thoughts and feelings with her friend, though her feelings may be expressed differently were you to speak with her in person. You may find that your relationship with be strengthened if you spend additional time with her. Ensure that your behaviors are respectful and understanding. Have a great day, Jackson!

    • Allysa

      October 7, 2018 at 5:12 pm

      At this moment she thinks of you as a friend but you should let her know how you feel as it will make her see you in a different way. It could cause different feelings to occure for her and could give her something to think about.

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 7, 2018 at 8:41 pm

        Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. Please share more of your experiences and insights in the future. Have a great day, Allysa!

    • Ella

      October 11, 2018 at 9:22 am

      Yeah you totally do sometimes they are just as unsure you need to break the touch barrier with hugs and things like that when texting work in some xxxx at the end slowly act less and less like a friend and she will catch on

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 12, 2018 at 7:52 pm

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. We always appreciate when members of out community share their insights and experiences. Please share more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, Ella!

  3. Nichole

    August 20, 2018 at 11:33 pm

    What if my friend has a crush and her crush has a girlfriend? What will my friend will do about that situation?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 21, 2018 at 11:10 pm

      Your friend has a personality that you know best. There are many possible actions that someone can take. Speak with your friend about her thoughts and feelings. Perhaps support her actions with your positive energy. Ensure that she acts with kindness and compassion. If her crush has a girlfriend, then she should not attempt to damage their relationship. Have a great day, Nichole!

  4. Nichole

    August 20, 2018 at 11:18 pm

    My friend said his ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend then she ask me how will she move on faster?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2018 at 11:26 pm

      You have a crush on this person. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. You may strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Nichole!

  5. Nichole

    August 20, 2018 at 10:59 pm

    I mean how will he know that I have a crush on him easier? What will I do with this situation?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2018 at 11:25 pm

      You have a crush on this person. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. You may strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Nichole!

  6. Nichole

    August 20, 2018 at 10:56 pm

    How will my crush know that i have a cush on him easier? What will I do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2018 at 11:25 pm

      You have a crush on this person. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. You may strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Nichole!

  7. angela

    May 28, 2017 at 3:50 am

    i have a crush but he is famous in my school so my friend give me his number. I decided to text him and he said whos this? i said secret friend? so he accept me to be his secret friend HAHAH what will iask him first? to impress him i dont want my crush get weird in me pleasee help mee

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 28, 2017 at 11:21 am

      I think it is too late for that. You are texting him as his secret friend. Sooner or later, he will find out who you are and probably think that it is weird. You could rectify this situation right away by just telling hims something along the lines of, “Jk. This is Angela. How’s it going?” Afterward, you can then use questions like the ones in the article to get to know him better. Good luck, Angela!

  8. Anon

    December 28, 2015 at 8:56 pm

    So this boy likes me and we’re going to play 20 questions I like him too I’m 13 so I don’t want to sound to grown up can you help pleaseeeeee

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 3, 2016 at 1:53 am

      I think that some of these questions still work, and you can always modify them a bit. Ask him about his favorite movies, hobbies, books or other information. We also have an article on Her Interest that include “Would You Rather” questions that are kind of fun and would mostly be appropriate for your age group. You could check that article out and write down some of the more amusing or interesting questions.

    • Brian

      March 3, 2016 at 1:22 am

      Ithink the best question rigth now is ; What attrects him the most in the girl? and what kind of the girl does he like

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 3, 2016 at 7:45 am

        That sounds like good advice, Brain. Thank you for commenting! 🙂

  9. Anon

    November 22, 2015 at 4:16 pm

    If ever you run out of things to say it doesn’t matter what kind of questions you ask. If I run out of things to say I ask “what’s your favorite vegetable” or ” would I look better with breast implants” (I’m a guy) the point is your questions can be as silly/ stupid as you want

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 22, 2015 at 6:40 pm

      That is excellent advice. I think that most people forget that their crush is just as nervous and uncertain about what to say, so they could really say anything to keep the conversation going. Thanks for commenting, Anon–I am sure some of our other readers will appreciate getting your advice.

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