10 Ways to Make Him Crazy About You

By on January 27, 2014

Nothing is better than being in a relationship where the guy is head over heels in love. If you want to make a guy crazy about you, it only takes a little bit of patience. The following steps will make it easy for him to fall completely in love with you.

Wear Perfume or A Specific Scent

In the past, researchers have performed studies that have shown that scent is one of the most powerful memories. Even when we cannot remember where we smelled a scent, we recall smelling it in the past. It may sound superficial, but picking a specific scent can make guys fall head over heels for you. Choose a flirty perfume and dab a little on the wrists. Before long, he will associate that smell with being around you.


Be Involved With His Friends and Family

If your friends hated the guy, it would make you question your relationship. The same thing goes for your date. Guys are loyal to their close friends and family. Learn how to get along with his friends and ask genuine questions about his family. If you honestly care about his close connections, he will be crazy about you.

Enjoy Your Life

It may not seem relevant, but enjoying your life is attractive. No one wants to spend time with a downer. If you are constantly depressed, it will only drive him away. Someone who is confident and loves their life is attractive. Learn how to enjoy your life and your guy will fall head over heels for you.


Be Independent

Men tend to be turned off by girls with low self-esteem or a clingy nature. Be independent and show that you can get by on your own. Your independence is attractive and a surefire way to keep his interest.

Stay Beautiful

What is on the inside may matter most, but your personality was not the first thing he noticed. Even though we like to think that looks do not matter, the truth is that they matter greatly. In long-term relationships and marriages, it is easy to let your looks slip. Whatever you did to attract him originally, you should keep doing. Whether it was curly hair or a natural look, that style is what attracted him to you.


Parasites Not Welcome

When we fall in love, it is far too easy to become wrapped up and excessively clingy. You may want to spend all of your time with him, but constantly sticking to him will only push him away. A little absence will make the heart grow fonder. When he needs space, let him have it. By knowing when to be close and when to stay away, you will make him go crazy for you.


Jealousy is one of the worst things anyone can do in a relationship. Some ladies try to flirt with other guys or spend all their time with friends in an effort to make their love interest jealous. In some relationships, this may work. For most relationships, a delicate balance of together time and friend time will serve best. You want to give him enough time to miss you and not so much time that it makes him jealous. If you have already made it official and are going out, flirting with others should be stringently avoided.

Don’t Be Afraid to Be Unique

No two people are exactly the same and there is no reason you should try to be. You have unique qualities and you should let them shine. These attributes set you apart and are attractive to your significant other. Don’t be afraid to let your individualism and unusual traits out.

Learn to Listen

If you want to catch your crush, you have to listen. Everyone likes to feel like someone cares and wants to pay attention to them. The best way to show that you care is to listen to what he says. Guys like it when the girl they care about cares about them too. Instead of always talking about your own passions and interests, let him speak his mind. He may not always be as vocal with his feelings, but he will open up eventually.


Be Yourself

You have to be yourself. If you are pretending to have different qualities or attributes, your guy will be falling for a lady that is not you. Over a few weeks or months, he will discover that what he is dating is a fraud. Likewise, a guy who is not interested in who you are at the start is not a person that you will end up spending your life with. You need to find a guy who likes you for who you are. Make sure to be yourself and he will be crazy for you.

Stick to these ten tips and you are sure to make your crush fall head over heels. Be yourself and be involved in his life. If he thinks you care about his life, he will love you for it.


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    Stacey Cawthorne

    May 16, 2019 at 10:32 am

    I really like a guy that I’ve been out with a few times. We’ve had fun together, he’s talked to me about some personal things going on in his life, he was very complimentary,we flirted and finally after the 4th time we spent time together we slept together. Now he won’t make any effort to spend time with me and he barely talks to me. He doesn’t initiate contact first with me anymore. I don’t message him often and when he responds I keep it brief. I have not told him how I feel about this. It’s awkward to because we are colleagues. I genuinely like the guy and was looking forward to making it more official. Now, I don’t know what to do for the best? I don’t feel ready to move on. Help!

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      web admin

      May 16, 2019 at 6:42 pm

      The two of you spent time together, and his behaviors have changed. This may mean that he is uncertain about what he wants for the future of this relationship. Since you are colleagues, you will like see him in the future. Make a decision about what you want for your future, and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Stacy!

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      sarah birungi

      November 17, 2019 at 10:59 am

      This also happened to me once,but wat u have to do is to do wat ur hat is telling u to do ,my dia always follow yo heart coz u leave once in life go on n tell him wat u feel about him

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        web admin

        February 5, 2020 at 3:35 pm

        That sounds like good advice. I’m sure Stacey will appreciate getting the added feedback. Thanks for commenting!

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    October 21, 2016 at 10:41 am

    Hi i like a guy…we even talk…spend the time Together whenever we meet …but im not sure wheater he likes m or not…But im crazy about him…

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      web admin

      October 21, 2016 at 6:34 pm

      Perhaps it would be wise of you to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Confusion in a relationship can stem from a misunderstanding about the desires and thoughts of the partner. If nothing else, the conversation will bring the too of you closer. It may be break him out of his confusion or shyness. Enjoy and see where your conversation takes you!

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    October 8, 2016 at 4:36 am

    Hi. So I like this guy and I’m not really sure if he likes me or not. We Ve known each other for about a year but only talk when we’re in class which he is in with me for 2 sessione a week. Anyways THIS year i feed like we tali more and more , whenever I come into the class he will always say my name and say hi in a teasing way and look at me from top to bottom. He talks to me a lot but sometimes he ignores me completely like the start of the year. Basically he ignored me for half of the year then all of a sudden he starts talking to me. I’m not really sure if he does like me. One of my friends in my class say we flirt with eachother a lot but my other friend in that class says he’s. A player. But he does talk to other girls as well which are more popular than me . He is quite a charm when talking to people. So I’m just wondering if he likes me or if he’s just using me or just doesn’t like me in that way thanks.

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      web admin

      October 8, 2016 at 12:41 pm

      If he goes out of his way to talk to you, then it sounds like he could like you. He may not have realized how attractive you are to him at the start of the year, which could be the reason why it took so long for him to make a move and start talking. If other people think that he is flirting with you, then they may be right. As for talking to other girls, it could just be a friendly nature or he could be interested in them as well. There is nothing that stops someone from being attracted to more than one person when they are single, so he could like you and them. Make a move and see what happens! Good luck, Devika!

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    Silverstrike :3

    August 27, 2016 at 10:04 am

    Pls help!!!!!!!!!!!! My boyfriend and I are in a kinda awkward relationship cause we both. don’t. know. how. to. FLIRT!!! He has my email, my moms phone number (Cause I don’t have a phone yet, and I should have one cause I’m almost a teen!), and my ROBLOX name:3 We both like some of the same things like Minecraft, cats, we both have a dog(He has three), ROBLOX, pizza with ranch, and so on! Another problem is that all the boys make fun of us and tease us. He’s really nice and loyal to me, ex: I had signed up for track but didn’t soooo, one day(First day of track) I was running around the field when I saw him, I thought to myself -Wait, how did he get here? It’s to late to sign up!- Apparently he had snuck out of PE to come with me, even though it was to late to sign up they let him stay on the team so now we’re together for the rest of the year!! 😀 But I still need advice cause we BOTH DONT KNOW HOW TO FLIRT and cause the boys make fun of us…

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      web admin

      August 28, 2016 at 7:46 am

      Don’t worry about the boys making fun of you or not being able to flirt! Your boyfriend obviously likes you since he is dating you and goes out of his way to sneak onto the track and see you. Flirting takes time to learn, and it is not a necessary part of the relationship. As long as you guys like each other and like your relationship, just enjoy it and don’t worry what everyone else thinks. If you still want to learn how to flirt, we have some articles on the topic on Her Interest that you can check out. Best of luck, Silverstrike :3!

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    November 18, 2015 at 1:08 am

    I have a crush and I don’t know how to talk to him. Like he’s the type of guy that knows he’s cute and I just don’t want to be another girl that likes him, I actually want him to like me back or at least be friends. All my friends say just go talk to him I can’t just go talk to him, yea sure he’s seen me around but he doesn’t know me personally and I know some of guy friends but they just know I have a crush and promised that they wouldn’t day anything till I was ready..gosh idk what to do….ugh help please!!

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      web admin

      November 20, 2015 at 6:21 pm

      Other than just going to talk to him, there isn’t much else that you could do to get him to fall for you. You could always try to “accidentally” bump into him or drop your things or run into him as he is leaving a class. It might be a cliche approach, but it would give you an excuse to talk to him that seems more natural than just walking up to him. You could also try talking to him in groups or a party if you guys share any of the same friends. For you to get him to be interested in you, you will have to get to know him a bit, so you will need to talk to him at some point. Good luck, Abbie!

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      December 4, 2015 at 4:56 am

      From a guy’s point of view (don’t know how I found this site but I did) you should really talk to him unless you already did by this point. I’m the type that keeps my feelings to myself especially when it comes to a girl I like. When it comes to liking a girl, for me she can’t be just any girl so I usually get strong feelings for this girl. There is a good chance that he might actually like you back. I’m sure you’re a pretty girl and I bet he really does notice you because there are guys that won’t show it. I never showed it and I wish I did. He might be really nervous and wants to talk to you too. 2 years ago I really liked this girl. I went on for months not saying anything to her, I tried but it was hard (I get really nervous talking to girls I like). I tried 2 times actually working up the courage to walk up to her and talking to her. Both times she said she had to go (these were after class and she took the bus) but always in a very polite way. I think she kinda knew what I was tryin to say. NOW HERE IS THE REAL ADVISE: I wrote a letter on a sheet of loose leaf a whole page long about her. I’m not into the mushy lovey stuff but I wrote things like how her “laugh is music that doesn’t need instruments to be played” and how her “eyes shine like two sparkling diamonds” and even said her “smile brings warmth to the coldest of people” stuff like that (I’m sure it went like that maybe not word for word) she read it sometime after school I guess but she read it. I went up to her and asked her about the letter. She said she read it and I’m assuming that she might have thought it was nice (she never said if she did or not) she ended up not liking me the way liked her but I finally knew the truth if she liked me or not which is what was really bugging me. Try the letter thing and tell him how you feel but too much might freak him out, get to know him a bit too, you can just tell him you like him and how you think he’s cute or something in the letter, I told my cousin to do it with a different girl and he did which helped him a lot. Give it a try, trust me you don’t want to not say anything and never know, it will really suck. Good luck and I hope it all works out the way you want it to and thanks for reading all this if you did, good luck!

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        web admin

        December 5, 2015 at 9:35 pm

        That sounds like such a romantic letter–it is too bad that she was not interested because you certainly seem like quite a catch! Your advise about a letter may be a good idea. An overly mushy letter could freak him out, but I do not see why she could not just tell him her feelings. You are right in saying that it is a relief to finally find out if someone likes you or not–at least she would not have to spend forever wondering. Anyways, thanks for the advise–I am sure that Abbie appreciates it!

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      jimmy bimmy

      December 5, 2015 at 12:16 pm

      if you have some close guys friends have them befriend your crush have them gradually intreaduce ysou so then your one of the guy

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        web admin

        December 6, 2015 at 2:02 am

        That sounds like a great idea, Jimmy. Plus, it would make it a lot easier for her to talk to him and get to know him better. Thanks for commenting!

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