Sagittarius Man in Love

By on May 3, 2014


“In seeking wisdom, the first step is silence, the second listening, the third remembering, the fourth practicing, the fifth – teaching others”. This was a quote once said by Ibn Gabriol, and the saying couldn’t be truer to the personality and life of a Sagittarius man. He is always seeking an adventure, no matter where it takes him. He takes the time to listen contently to other peoples’ wisdom so he may apply it to his own life, and isn’t afraid to ask questions. He is a lover of all things wisdom and is always seeking answers in life, whether it comes to relationships, religion, mythology, or some other interesting aspect of life. This genuine curiosity and adventurous attitude creates an enthralling man that is both highly intellectual and charming, something that every man looks for in a friend and what every woman wants in a man.


The Type of Woman Sagittarius Needs

The Sagittarius man needs a special type of woman. He doesn’t want the ordinary- in fact, he wants everything but. He needs a strong, secure, and confident lady who won’t mind giving him the independence he needs on a regular basis. A lady who can handle herself in all situations and doesn’t require a good deal of time. Needless to say, a needy and demanding woman would never work with a Sagittarius man.

He also craves an intellectually stimulating gal- someone he can sit down with and have an in depth conversation about life for hours on end. The regular hum and drum conversation about celebrities and music artists simply isn’t enough to keep this type of man engaged for long, if at all.

Aside from beauty, confidence, and a very intelligent mind, this man is also seeking a woman who is a lover of travel. Obviously he will want to take his lover on all of his exciting trips around the world, so anyone who isn’t endearing of a good adventure won’t last with this adventurous man. She should be ready for simple trips to the beach as well as fascinating journeys to other countries for exploration and adventure.

0b695bc58be7eea30ffcc9e36e828b8eSagittarius in a Relationship

There are two sides of a Sagittarius man. For one, he can be the incredibly flirty and charming man that every woman loves. On the other hand, he can be a very shy and internal man who hides his feelings a great deal. And with this type of zodiac sign, you really never know what to expect. And while most women see this as a flaky trait, it’s really just the Sagittarius trying to show off both aspects of love, from the enticing and sensual side to the beautiful romantic side, and he wants to show his partner both sides.

The Sagittarius man is a fun one to date. He is always coming up with new and exciting things to do and places to go. His constant need for adventure and travel means he will gladly take his woman to other realms in a heartbeat, and therefore having a woman with a lust for travel is an essential trait. You can expect the Sagittarius boyfriend to want to take you on an exploration to a nearby park one day, and the next day have a journey to Italy to discover the county’s immense history.


Aside from excitement day after day, a woman involved with a Sagittarius man can also expect to learn a lot. As this type of man is always seeking out new and enticing information, he will want to relay his new found knowledge onto his lover. Of course, he is always interested in learning new things as well, and is therefore a remarkable listener who will actually want to hear about new things you did that day or something interesting you noticed about the earth. daf45ebaa6a45d0e338762388e3de2c5

Sagittarius in Bed

As we’ve said multiple times already, the Sagittarius is a lover of adventure. And this love for excitement and adventure continues into the bedroom. What does this mean for you? A seriously wild time that has virtually no bounds. The Sagittarius man loves to create an adventurous and passionate night in the bedroom and doesn’t want to do the same thing twice.

It may come as a surprise, but a Sagittarius man actually loves when the lady is the first person to make the move. This shows him that she is a daring individual who may be able to keep up with him between the sheets. However, once the initial move is made, this man isn’t shy to take over and ravish his woman.


Negative Side of a Sagittarius Man

Sagittarius men tend to be a bit on the careless side. You wouldn’t think that a man so involved in philosophy and knowledge could be so careless, but that’s just one of the downsides of a Sagittarius. This type of carelessness is obviously a problem in day to day life, especially when it comes to a relationship in which the woman doesn’t feel cared enough for. (That’s why having an independent woman who isn’t needy is crucial).

Adventure is a must in this man’s life. And when we meet it’s a must, we mean it’s something that he needs to be doing constantly or he will get bored. This restless attitude and constant need for adventure makes the Sagittarius man out to be a bit inconsistent, and nobody likes an inconsistent individual.


Sagittarius and Aries: The two of you are both thrill-seeking, adventurous, fun individuals who are constantly seeking new and exciting activities to engage in. The two of you will be able to keep up with each others active lifestyle and enjoy every moment of it. It’s a match made in Heaven!


Sagittarius and Aquarius: You are a very active individual, constantly seeking knowledge while the Aquarius is a forward-thinking individual who can be on your level. The two of you will engage perfectly not only in conversation but other aspects of life as well. Plenty of fun to be had in your relationship,

Sagittarius and Leo: You both love to explore and have a great time, but you will have to accept each others differences for the relationship to stay strong.


Sagittarius Man in a Nutshell

This type of man just wants to have a good time, and no trip to the bar with his guy pals is going to satisfy his crave for adventure. He always wants to learn and investigate the deeper things in life, which leads to him enthralling trips to enchanting places where he can learn. He loves to be taught and to teach what he’s learned about life to others, therefore making him a charming and intellectual man who can certainly keep you engaged in conversation for quite some time. He needs a smart woman who can keep up with his intellectual level while also being an avid travel lover, just like him. If he can find this special lady, he will definitely take her on all of his amazing excavations and have her by his side through the journey of life. Not to mention he will keep her on her toes (perhaps even literally) when it comes to playing in the bedroom!



  1. Tanya

    April 16, 2017 at 11:53 pm

    I am a Sag female. I have spent my life looking for the right guy…the one that truly understands who I am and what I need. The one I can mesh with, and be truly compatible. Been with water signs, air signs and earth signs….nope. Water signs are too possessive, negative and ultimately bring you down. Air signs…fun at first, but can be all over the place, and not that much depth of feeling. Earth signs too heavy handed. Finally met my match with a Sag male. We have an incredible understanding of our mutual need for freedom, expression of thought, honesty, loyalty, physicality, intelligence, sharing of knowledge and experience, spiritual and sexual connection etc. etc. It’s not just traveling or running around outside like so many say…. he and I love talking for hours at a time…it’s been like that since the beginning. There is just something about this “understanding” of what we are about that makes this a totally different experience. And, ladies…if your Sag. male or female leaves or just fades away it’s because we just arn’t feeling you and where you are coming from. In fact, one could say that there should be NO questions about where you stand with a Sag as we are either all in or out the door.

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 17, 2017 at 10:42 am

      Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. It is certain that your experiences will help other people in similar situations. It is great advice to always be clear and honest about where you are coming from. This can help people of every sign in their relationships. Feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future, Tanya!

  2. Jupiter

    February 24, 2017 at 6:02 am

    I’m a sag man. And its hard. Do not understand what is freedom. Or what really is or will feel like to love a woman wholeheartedly. And we are attracted to intelligent women especially those who are confident and knows what she wants. I also like reading facts about us men born under the governance of Jupiter. Might say it is true that we are guided by luck but as you see, when it comes to women, it can really be our downfall and as much and necessary as possible only love just one woman and that is loyal. One you can trust and one that initiates the move. Yes, its true. We do like it. There is more I could write about us.But we do differ as well when it comes to other aspects. Please write more. Looking forward. has been helpful.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 24, 2017 at 12:17 pm

      Thank you for sharing your insights. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Jupiter!

  3. I want him back

    February 23, 2017 at 1:46 am

    I had a fight with my sagittarius man on valentine’s day because he didn’t have time to for me nor did he call me once that day. We fought over texts but then he didn’t reply to my last text and since that day he hasn’t texted or called me at all. I’ve invested a lot in this relationship and I’m not able to study or concentrate on anything. I keep seeing him online on fb and whatsapp but he doesn’t even think of me. His silent treatment is the worst form of mental abuse. I just want him to realize his mistake and come back to me. I cry everyday.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 23, 2017 at 12:09 pm

      If your relationship has ended and he is not contacting you, then you are not experiencing mental abuse. It is best to not diminish the seriousness of real mental abuse. The relationship is over. Allow yourself to move on. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Want!

  4. HurtBy Sag

    February 15, 2017 at 8:50 am

    I met a Sag man back near the end of November. I’m a Taurus woman by the way. He lives out of state. I fell head over heels for this man. We talked on the phone everyday and FaceTime but in the back of my mind it wasn’t enough. He finally came to visit me and things were good. We continued to talk more and more everyday and never missed a beat! We talked about kids and marriage almost everything. The conversations are what I enjoyed the most. To show my appreciation and how much I cared for him, I bought him a gift to show him. I hear so much how their supposed to be romantic but had yet to see it. He knows my likes as well as I know his but he has yet tried to show me anything. He always talked about us going on trips or him sending for me and I have yet to see these things. I am a action person and I have shown him what I can do. Anytime I talk to him I make sure he is ok, eat… everything. But the pass week made me think is this man genuine about the things he say? Does he even care about me as much as I care for him?? I told him how upset I was about him being a little self centered and selfish but he doesn’t seem to think he is. I really feel in love with a mask bc I don’t know what is going on. I sent him a long text expressing how I feel and all he responds back is “this is not true.” I don’t know what to do bc I’m tired of starting over and just want him to be more caring and show me action like I matter. I’ve removed him from my social media page and not responding him bc I’m so hurt and upset. Do Sag man realize what they have and try to fix it or will they move on??

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 15, 2017 at 9:59 am

      If you have removed him and have begun ignoring him, then you have made the decision for him. You are not allowing hi to share his feelings, so there is no reason for him to accept your feelings. Take this time to look inward and understand how emotions and relationships are influenced. Do not concern yourself with his realizations. Instead, you should focus on yours. Good luck, Hurt!

      • HurtBy Sag

        February 15, 2017 at 11:17 am

        He hasn’t said anything else to me since he responded saying it wasn’t true. I removed him off my page bc he was posting things that were hurtful. I posted things to help him read between the lines on how I wanted to be treated. I really do care about him and I am hurting knowing that it’s like he doesn’t care. He isn’t trying to state his side bc if he was he would of said it when he sent that 4 worded text. I guess it’s safe to say I just need to move on bc he’s never coming back.

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 15, 2017 at 6:35 pm

          You should allow him to fade from your thoughts. Move on and enjoy your life without him. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future without him. You deserve someone who will care for you and for your feelings. You can do better. Best of luck, Hurt!

  5. Mallyn

    January 8, 2017 at 5:56 pm

    It has been over a year with this Sagittarius and I’m still mad at him. I saw him one final time (though I hope its not the last time) and he was so back and forth, so wishy-washy and that I don’t know if he turned me down or not. I honestly don’t remember what we talked about that last time but it left me stunned for quite a while, so he must have said something important or something that devastated me. Didn’t hear from him for a year then he was criticizing a post I left on my facebook page. I told him off (which seems to be the way our conversations go-he says something stupid, I tell him off, he goes away hurt) which is what I think happened on that cold Midwinter night back in 2015. Turns out, after speaking with a mutual close friend that he WAS trying to come onto me that night but he’s so damn awkward that I took it the wrong way (also grabbing a woman’s breast is NOT a good way to let her know you like her). My friends explained to me that he’s extremely terrible with women and destroys his own chances and talks himself out of situations. Such a Sagittarius thing to do. Anyways, I can’t stop thinking about him. Maybe it’s because I’m still angry, maybe it’s because my feelings for him went deeper than I thought, maybe it’s the terrible feeling of fear that he’s moved on, but I just cannot get him out of my head and it’s driving me insane. It will be two years this October.

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 9, 2017 at 10:00 am

      After two years, it is unlikely that the relationship will be rekindled. You deserve to have another chance at love and finding the right person. While you may reconnect with him someday, it is important for your own happiness that you focus on moving on and finding someone that you really connect with. It sounds like part of the problem before was just a misunderstanding (and his terrible flirting skills), but it has been too long for there to really be a chance with him again. Hopefully, you will find someone that you like just as much and can move on romantically before long. Good luck, Mallyn!

  6. SagLover

    August 29, 2016 at 8:33 am

    I’ve been seeing a Sag male for five months. I’m a Cancer female. He came on strong. We slept together on the second date. He tried to do it on the first date and I declined. He calls me everyday, literally. For two months, I stayed overnight at his house back to back because he asked me to. We’re in our late 30s. He cooks for me and always serves me.

    We’ve had basic arguments about him not sharing his feelings and being emotionally distant/secretive. He said that his ex hurt him really bad yet he likes me a whole lot. I’ve left because of not having a clear definition of what we are and suspicions of him talking to another girl by phone. He always comes after me.

    My concern is, am I wasting my time? I’m pretty chill, calm, and cool around. I don’t nag him nor pressure him. I’m not used to dating anyone this long without being exclusive. When I told him I wasn’t ready for marriage in order to make him feel at ease, he came even closer. Of course I want commitment on a larger scale. I’m just afraid of being in a holding pattern or strung along later on down the road.

    So, would you advise that I continue to go with the flow or look for love elsewhere?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 30, 2016 at 11:53 am

      If you are having feelings that demand for you to leave a relationship, then do so. Speak with him about your concerns about him talking to other women. He may be speaking with his ex, a family member, or a stranger. It is most important to determine who he is speaking to before you react to it. If you find that he is attempting to establish a relationship with someone else, then perhaps he is not ready for a relationship with you. However, if you find that he is not seeking a new relationship and he treats you very well, then you can continue your relationship as you please.

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