20 Signs A Guy Likes You: Decoding His Body Language

By on September 15, 2013
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When it comes to guys… well, let’s just say it can be pretty darn hard to figure out if he’s into a woman or not! At times, men and boys can definitely be hard to read. Their body language is different than ours and it can be troublesome to decode what they are really feeling. After doing some research, it turns out that guys aren’t really that hard to get when it comes to the signals they are sending out… If you know what to look for that is! Here are some tells to look for when it comes to decoding a guy’s body language and what he is really saying. Does he like you or not? Read the following tips to find out:

Sign # 1.) A guy who is interested in you may start touching, twirling or running his hands through his hair while smiling. This could be due to the fact that it’s a habit he has when he gets nervous around a lady, but is still showing strong intrigue. Be careful for head-scratching, tugging or a frown while he’s doing these hair-touching mannerisms, though. Those are two signs that he may be frustrated, confused or bored!

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Sign #2.) A man who is licking his lips around you may be secretly signaling that he finds you delectable. Maybe he’s trying to tell you something… Wink, wink. Or, it could mean that lip-licking is another nervous habit he possesses. Sometimes, when people get nervous, their mouths go dry and cause them to lick their lips to keep them hydrated.

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Sign #3.) A guy will usually unknowingly display his interest to a woman by directing his entire upper body (chest, head, shoulders) to his crush. He does this to show you that he is interested in only you. He is subtly positioning himself so that others know his attention is directed at one person and he isn’t open for anyone else to talk to steal the conversation at this point.

Sign #4.) You may find a guy is into you by looking to see if he is making consistent eye contact with you for long periods of time (more than 5 seconds!) to connect with you and show you that he is really intent on listening to what you have to say. He’s also focused on trying to get to know more of your body language, too. (Or, he may even just think you have beautiful eyes and can’t look away!)

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Sign #5.) Really want to find out if someone’s into you? Well, when a guy is attracted and intrigued by a girl, he will raise his eyebrows. This is a tell-tale sign that he’s interested in someone and if he’s talking to you, then you are the one he’s raising them for. Keep your eyes peeled, though, as this gesture is usually a pretty quick and subtle one.

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Sign #6.) Primal instincts will kick into a man when he is crushing on a woman. Because of those instincts he will, most likely without realizing it, spread his feet slightly apart and direct his hips and pelvis towards his person of interest. It’s just biological!

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Sign #7.) The gesturing of hands is a significant thing to look for when chatting with a guy. If this certain someone digs you, he will use his hands a lot. Guys tend to use their hands to go along with their conversation a ton more when they are talking to a girl they really like. The reason they do this is to make sure you are understanding what they are saying on the same level they do and they are trying very hard to hold your attention to them. Sometimes, though, different people talk differently and not all guys will use large arm and hand gestures.

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Sign #8.) To help you figure out if a man is really interested, make sure you are paying close attention to where he is placing both of his hands at all times. It’s more common that when a guy likes a girl, he will place his fingers through his belt loops or hook a finger on his waistband. He may also place his hands on his lap a lot or put them in his pockets. They do this to draw attention to their pelvic area…  I bet you can guess why? Don’t get the wrong idea! Some guys don’t come to a quick realization that they are doing such things with their hands. Once again, primal instinct sets in and forces their body to try to direct their person of interests attention to that area of their body.

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Sign #9.)  A guy who leans in while talking or listening to you is definitely interested in what you are doing and saying. This is a sign that tells you there is no doubt in him liking you. Men, for the most part, don’t like to direct their bodies towards just one person, especially if they aren’t interested. Leaning in is a sign that a man wants to be as close to you as possible.

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Sign #10.) Does a guy have no problem placing his arm around your shoulder? Does he take no modesty in touching your arm or knee? Have you had a guy tuck a strand of hair behind your ear or push your hair out of your face? A man who touches you a lot, is only showing that he doesn’t want there to be boundaries between the two of you and wants to get as close to you as possible.

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58 Comments

  1. lizzie

    July 27, 2015 at 12:36 pm

    well i’ve been crushing on this guy for 4 years everything was perfect he flirts only with me and stuff like that but one day someone said that she (someone who hates me because she thinks that i stole her “since 3 years old so called best friend)and that girl actually doesn’t treat me like their friends and he kind of helped me then i just walked out of class after i finish all the work we needed to do with my best friend.so then he stopped talking to me but he always protects me when other girls say mean things about me but still..he never talks to me.and like i see him every single day my bff knows i have a crush on him and she says that she really thinks that he likes me.he always looks at me but when he sees my talking to some girls he usually comes and flirt with them. but again when i’m finished with everything i needed to do in class he finishes them too and my friends are all still not done yet .so he usually picks out a book and sits next to me or in front of me at the same table . like i don’t know i just can’t get over him!!!

    • lizzie

      July 27, 2015 at 12:40 pm

      umm.. i’m not a teenager yet?.. we’re the same age..

      • web admin

        July 28, 2015 at 6:32 am

        Okay–no worries because the advice is essentially the same. :)

    • web admin

      July 28, 2015 at 6:31 am

      I am really not sure if he likes you or not. His behavior could be because he is afraid of actually talking to you because he likes you. Or, he could not like you and he just helps you because he is a nice guy. If you tried talking to him more often, you may be able to figure out how he actually feels. I know that talking to him is intimidating, but you may just have to get it over with.

      • lizzie

        July 28, 2015 at 12:14 pm

        thanks :)

        • web admin

          July 28, 2015 at 8:53 pm

          You’re welcome!

  2. Curious

    July 22, 2015 at 3:22 am

    There’s this guy who works for the same company I work for part-time. He and I have flirted with each other in the past (so I know he was at one point interested) but we never actually went out (he was going on vacation at the time & I was super busy working 3 jobs yada yada – we decided to ‘try again’ when he came back). Anyway, I ended up turning him down, in a casual way, citing that the age difference might not work (he’s 23, I’m 28). He didn’t seem offended, but we did stop snapchatting (I’m too old for that nonsense anyway!). It’s now been a few months and I realized I turned him down b/c I was worried about opening myself up in that way and I’m ready to give love a second chance but I’m worried I blew it. He and I still interact the same way when we see each other in person (he’ll stand in my personal space, tease me etc) but he teases all the girls in our department and they’re closer to his age, so I feel… “wrong” for reaching out again. Plus, he’s not as eager to respond to my texts as he once was (nothing inappropriate, just conversation starters).

    Should I ask him to go grab a casual drink after work & try to make a move to show I’m interested after all or should I just leave the poor guy alone and consider it a life-lesson learned?

    • web admin

      July 23, 2015 at 5:46 am

      Age is not always a factor. Especially a five year age difference–that is really not so much. What matters is that you guys have a very similar life experience. Both of you are currently in the workforce, and you are doing similar things. If he still happens to be interested in you, then you should try dating each other. I think that you should go ahead and ask him to grab a casual drink. Hopefully, that will give both of you a chance to reconnect, and you a chance to demonstrate that you are interested in him again after all. If he says no or does not seem particularly flirty during your drink, then you may have missed your chance. Good luck, Curious!

  3. bbb

    July 4, 2015 at 3:10 pm

    Thank you for the tips! I’m currently attending a training for a new job, it’s in a classroom setting with 30 people in it. There’s this guy who keeps looking at me, he sits in front and I sit at the back, I would usually see him looking my way or pretending to look at someone near me but then would still look at me. He would also sometimes arrange his seat that it would face me. He only spoke to me twice though, asked for the time or something else. Yesterday, he sat beside me, he was very close and our knees are touching.. but he;s not making any moves.. I like him and I can feel in my guts that he likes me back, I hope he would just talk to me more..

    • web admin

      July 4, 2015 at 7:06 pm

      He is probably to afraid of making any more serious moves. Already, he has shown you through his body language and the way that he acts that he is interested in you. Right now, it seems like he is working up to a more serious flirtation. If you want things to move along a bit faster, ask him for his number or add him to your Facebook page. If this sounds frightening to you, then you can always tell him that you just want his number in case you have to deal with work-related questions. Then, you can start texting him every once in a while to see how he is doing–hopefully, he will take the hint and start texting you back (or ask you out!).

  4. Marie

    July 4, 2015 at 2:35 am

    This guy at school always stares and freezes up when I’m around. He would be talking to his friends and once he sees me he stops talking and looks at me when I look at him he then looks away, he has no problem talking to other girls but looks nervous when I’m around or I went to my locker and he was there his locker was on another floor and when I looked at him he stood there looking at me until his friend who was looking for him called him to get to class. Does he like me?

    • web admin

      July 4, 2015 at 6:42 pm

      I do not know if he likes you yet. It would be hard to really like or be interested in someone if you have never really talked to them. However, I think that it is safe to say that he is attracted to you. If you want to be with him and think he is cute, why don’t you try talking to him sometime? You will never find out if he likes you or not if you guys continue to just gaze at each other from far away. Talking to him can be intimidating, but it will help you to move things along much faster.

  5. Jozzy

    June 27, 2015 at 9:29 pm

    Thank you very much for the tips you’ve given me. I really appreciate it.

    • web admin

      June 28, 2015 at 6:17 pm

      You are welcome–I hope that it all works out for you!

  6. Jozzy

    June 26, 2015 at 10:42 pm

    We normally get chance where we can talk to but we just look at each other of which he can’t stop looking, then go our separate ways. His friends are cool and I have no problem with them. Am 18 so I’m allowed to date. Just that I haven’t dated a guy before.

    • web admin

      June 27, 2015 at 3:07 am

      Hmm..have you ever seen him somewhere else where he is alone? If you like him, then find a time when he is alone so you can start to talk to him. It sounds like he could be interested in you–and you are right, he may have avoided talking to you because he did not want to be awkward and nervous in front of his friends. It may be up to you to make a move in this relationship–good luck, Jazzy!

  7. Holly

    June 25, 2015 at 7:24 pm

    Hi! There’s this guy who’s a fellow camp counselor and on the first day, when he saw me, his face lit up in a big smile and he waved and walked over to talk. He kept stuttering and asked me how I was three times. I had to go but it was the first time we’ve seen each other in a while. The next day, he walks around the table where I’m working with a few kids and circles us a few times. I turn around later to catch him looking at me and I smile and mouth hello, but he doesn’t smile or say hi back. The next day I walked up and said hello and he looked me in the eye and we chatted for a few minutes. Later he walks around me again but leaves a lot of space between where I am and where he was. One of my friends said he was looking in my direction with a dazed look but idk if he was looking at me or the door……I’m considering asking for his number since he hasn’t initiated conversation since the first day and I think he might be shy but if someone could give their opinion I would really appreciate it. Tomorrow is the last day of the camp, so as soon as possible please!

    • web admin

      June 26, 2015 at 6:48 pm

      I think you should go for it and ask for his number. He sounds like he is interested and asking for his number is a fairly safe thing to do. Unlike asking him out, you do not really have to worry about a rejection. Since he does seem shy (or at least incredibly awkward around you–which is a sign that he likes you), texting back and forth with you seems like the best way for you guys to begin talking. Once you have drawn him out of his shell a bit, you may be able to start dating him. Let me know how everything works out and good luck!

  8. Jozzy

    June 25, 2015 at 6:09 pm

    We have never talked before. Yes he knows my name.

    • web admin

      June 26, 2015 at 6:44 pm

      If he has never talked to you before, it is doubtful that he is seriously interested. He may think you are cute, and he may want to get to know you better. Why have you not talked to him yet? Are you worried about the friends that he hangs out with, or are you not allowed to date yet?

  9. Jozzy

    June 24, 2015 at 3:58 am

    Huh, it’s kind of complicated though. There are these motorbike riders, who usually come to my erea. I normally sit in the balcony of our house, where it’s view is the street and some parts of the town. At first, I didn’t notice them, but I realized one day, they have been appearing in places, I’m not suppose to see them. Have never spoke with them before. They all have this gaze, which I sometimes get nerve of. They normally park their motorbikes then will just walk up and down when I’m sitting in the balcony. There’s a particular guy among them who usually showcase his stylish riding when passing our house. He sometimes, take the lead in doing that orbe the last . On our school trip to the mountains, was surprised to see him and his friends waiting at where we parked our bus. He said, she is coming “, then they took off before our bus. They followed me till I got home. There are three gates to our house of which two of them expose me to them when I want to go out. For them not to see me, I usually take the Last gate but still they will know where I will be. I usually like cool place just to listen to music, and I can’t believe they know all my sitting place. And for that guy who usually rides with styles, I usually see him often wherever I go more than his friends. As if he’s spying on me. Please help! It’s frustrating.

    • web admin

      June 24, 2015 at 4:55 pm

      So it seems like you have a crush on him, but I cannot tell if he has a crush on you. It could have been a coincidence that he showed up at those times or that he followed your bus back. Have you guys ever talked to each? What does he think of you? Does he know you by name yet?

  10. b

    June 22, 2015 at 7:22 am

    So, there’s this guy i really really like that moved to my school this year. He catches my bus in the morning and sometimes in the afternoon and hes the year above me…would he even like someone a year younger? Anyway, we dont really talk that much, but he always stares at me pretty much every time he sees me xD and one time not very long ago he kept on talking to his friend and flickering is eyes between me and his friend?? and another time when he was talking to me, a few weeks ago, and my (guy) friend who he is also rally good friends with came over and he (my crush) kept on asking him if he liked me and pestering him about it and saying yes you do.Please help me, i can’t stop thinking about him, i really, really like him! But hes REALLY cute and popular, basically every girl in his year likes him, so why would he go out with me? I’m really shy btw, so its hard for me to talk to him…
    Thankyou !

    • web admin

      June 23, 2015 at 5:20 pm

      I think the age difference should not be a major issue. One year is not a terribly long amount of time. As for being shy or popular, that is not always a problem. People like who they like, and popularity is not always a factor in who you fall for.

      As for how he feels, it is impossible to be sure. He could be interested in you, but he could also look at you and talk about you because his friend may be interested. It seems like either your crush or his friend likes you, but it is difficult to know from your comment which guy is actually interested in you.

  11. Lindsay

    June 20, 2015 at 9:28 pm

    I don’t know if this guy likes me or not, But once I talked to him and he was all nervous but when he’s with other girls he talks to them so much. Once in my class we were watching a movie he would always come sit front of me and then playfully brush his leg up till my knee and then he kept continue doing this till then. I once giggled infront him and he kept staring. (I kind of regret this since I feel like I was being crazy infront of him :( )

    And in Science he was staring at me and then he came straight towards me and asked me if I liked drawing and talked about what I was going to become when I grow up, I told him and he was really nervous and just walked away.

    Then he started to come where I was going, And once I was walking in the hall and when I turned around to go upstairs to my next class I saw him talking to his friend and was literally behind me, I kinda freaked out inside.

    Then in P.E I accidentally stepped on his foot, I told him sorry and he didn’t say anything but stare at me almost with his mouth open, (And I found it cute XD) he kept staring like that then i went to sit somewhere else (Since the line was so squished)

    I used to get so nervous around him because he once told me to he needed paper and he used talk asked me for pencils (1 time though) And he used to sit next to me like he was in front and i’m in behind.

    Also I always see him talking to girls :/ It kinda bothers me because he acts like he’s interested in them but I say nothing at all..

    Does he like me or he doesn’t like me at all? Or should I ditch him and find some other guy….?

    • web admin

      June 20, 2015 at 9:46 pm

      It is always harder to talk to someone you like than just a random girl. He may flirt with the other girls or be slightly interested, but he sounds like he has a major crush on you. You are the person that he seems unable to talk to or act normally around, so he probably likes you. If you or him could get up the nerve to ask each other out, you could end up having a boyfriend. :) At the very least, ask him if he wants to hang out sometime after school. If he says no, then you can play it off like you just wanted to be friends and hang out. And if he says yes, hang out with him and see where things go. The more that you are around him, the easier it will be to actually have a conversation together.

      • Lindsay

        June 21, 2015 at 12:43 am

        But here’s the problem..

        My Friend’s friend likes him and her friend knows the guy better. I only know him for a bit and she knows him ALOT. But I like the guy too but I never told her about it because she might be pissed and treat me like shit, And she’s really nice towards me.

        So what do I do? :(

        • web admin

          June 21, 2015 at 1:57 am

          Hmm..you do have a problem. Although they may know him better, it does not mean that he likes them more than he likes you. I still think that his behavior still makes it seem like he likes you more and has a serious crush on you. As for your friends, you definitely have an issue. If you hit on him too much, they may dislike you. If he asks you out, they will certainly be jealous.

          Normally, I would tell you to talk to the girls right before you date him as a heads up so that they do not get angry with you. Since it is just a friend of a friend and a friend of a friend of a friend (phew!), I think that it would probably be alright to jsut go ahead and date him if you want to.

  12. flowerpower

    June 11, 2015 at 8:43 pm

    Okay so i like this guy, and idk i told him way in the neging of the year i liked him and we just stayed froends, now its towerd the end of the year and hes confusing me. He consintly touches me, like if im sitting in frount of him he would grab my waist, or stroke his pen down my back. Then i see him talking to other girls. He licks his lips alot when he talks to me. Mostly he likes to toich my legs. Once he even sat on my lap and refused to get off because he said “i took his seat, it was my seat. So does he like me or jist friendly playong around? Thanks

    • web admin

      June 12, 2015 at 9:02 pm

      It could be just playing around, but it really sounds like he likes you. I am surprised that he has not started dating you before this time. He obviously knew that he liked you, so there was no risk of rejection in asking you out. Have you tried asking him out recently? Or, you could have one of your friends ask him if he likes you or who he has a crush on. I think having a friend ask may work best because his behavior really is rather confusing.

  13. Irease

    June 9, 2015 at 6:47 am

    So my crush came down for a visit and when he hugged me it was around my waist and his hand stopped at the small of my back. And then we kind of talked a little longer than normal after Church. And once while we were praying his finger kind of rubbed my hand… Idk could I be making this up that he maybe interested in me.

    • web admin

      June 9, 2015 at 5:09 pm

      I think that he likes you. Although the fingers brushing your hand could have been in your imagination, he deliberately put his hand at the small of your back. From the sound of it, he really likes you. Are you allowed to date yet? Would you be able to go somewhere with him for a date? If so, ask him out! There is no reason that you have to wait for him to make the first move! Good luck, Irease!

  14. samantha

    June 7, 2015 at 2:48 pm

    I forgot to mention we share a class together were we always have to get up to present and he would look at everyone else presenting but when its my turn he would look at anywhere but me. He flirts with a lot of girls like pretty much the entire classroom except me. He also has a close girl friend in the class and she suddenly started giving me stank looks. When I first met her she was nice now she just has this attitude towards me. I remember I came late to class once and his friend was holding the door and my crush asked him something and his friends like “behind you” and he took one quick look at me and practically ran inside. this guy is unbelievable. I think he likes me but all the signs just seem to show he’s just scared out of his wits.

    • web admin

      June 8, 2015 at 10:35 pm

      Hmm…that does make it sound like he likes you. His friend girl sounds like a piece of work though–it may be a good thing that she does not like you; you would not want to be friends with that type of girl. As for your crush, it seems more and more likely that he could be interested in you. Get to know him better and try talking to him. If he is too shy around you to start a conversation, it is up to you to do it.

  15. samantha

    June 7, 2015 at 2:02 pm

    So I have a crush on this guy and he is totally out of my league so I think. I’m really nerdy when it comes to school and this is something I get a lot from even my peers. I’m an introvert and don’t usually open up to somebody until they come to me first. The guy I like is no lie the one dude every girl likes and the girls don’t deny it. he’s confident, funny, good looking, and dresses to impress. I usually either read, study, or talk to my friends in class. I never really bothered noticing him until we made eye contact. it felt like forever until I broke it off and was blushing. After that I noticed him more often and got crazy goose bumps. The thing is after that he always made sure to never make eye contact with me. I was stuck between if he liked me or not. Whenever I decided I was over him he would automatically make eye contact with me again and he blushes like crazy too. I don’t know what he thinks of me.

    • web admin

      June 8, 2015 at 10:30 pm

      It is possible. Although every girl talks and flirts with him, it does not mean that he is interested. There is an excellent chance that he is too shy to talk to his actual crush, which would explain why he just makes eye contact with you from time to time. Have you guys ever had a conversation together? You should try talking to him. Making eye contact is a sign of interest, but it is not enough to just assume that he likes you or not. Try to talk to him sometime and get to know him better–it will give you a better idea of how interested he is in you. Good luck, Samantha!

  16. Jessica

    June 2, 2015 at 1:58 pm

    What does it mean when a guy stares at me and holds his stare? He also checks out my body when he thinks I’m not looking. At work, he parks his car next to mine. During our few convos, he asks questions about my life like, what I am doing I school, where I work, even how tall I am. But he insists that he doesn’t want to date anyone then I came to find out he dated another girl. I’m confused, why didn’t he ask me out?

    • web admin

      June 2, 2015 at 8:45 pm

      That seems really odd. Was he dating the other girl while he was flirting with you, or did he start dating her afterward? There is a chance that he just thought that you were out of his reach. Think about: During your first crush, you were probably convinced that they were so intelligent, attractive and funny that they could never possibly like you. When you like someone a lot, it makes it seem like it would be completely impossible for the person to ever like you back. Although he could have had other reasons, he may have just assumed that you would say no. He also may have been asked out by the girl first–and it is not uncommon to flirt with or have a crush on two girls at once. There are a number of reasons why he did not ask you out before, and it probably is not your fault. I am not sure why he said that he did not date, but he could have just changed his mind later on. Is he still dating the other girl?

  17. Suzy

    May 26, 2015 at 5:32 pm

    Hi I might be reading to much into this but this guy started at our work 5months ago and he work in a different building I work in the canteen he comes over every day we get to chat every now and then but when he was there into a few weeks he aked me some personal stuff but never gave it a second thought so I for got about it then he has stroked my arm a few times I just thought he’s being friendly he has also asked what would I prefer to be called knowing my name he always says hello and calls me by my name when he comes in and now only last week he has started to say thank you I will see you tomorr he is never like this with all the other ladies that work with me does he really like me or would he be attracted to me he is a lovey guy .

    • web admin

      May 26, 2015 at 11:09 pm

      That really does sound like he could like you. Especially considering the fact that eating at the same canteen everyday gets boring–he comes back again and again because he knows that you will be there. Normally, people just let someone serve food or ring them up on the cash register. He has gone out of his way to get to know you and be friendly. If you like him, you can start to flirt with him. Ask him what he does on the weekend or for a hobby. Whatever his response is, sound really interested in his answer. By doing this, you make it easy for him to respond with “If you want, you can come with me”. From there, it will be easy to build on weekend hangouts to an actual date.

  18. Yema

    May 24, 2015 at 5:25 pm

    Oh, um, hey.
    I’m here to ask if this guy (the same age as me) likes me. He’s my best friend and I know that guys that you are close to tends to put your arm over your shoulder, punch you softly on the shoulder and etc. but I just wanted to know.
    Um..well, first, is that when we sit together, I always find our legs entangled but he doesn’t seem to mind it and even took a habit of it that when a guy sat next to him instead of me, he mistakened the guy as me.
    Second, when I was buying food, I didn’t exactly knew he was there until he pulled on my ponytail that my rubber band fell off but he was enjoying himself. After that, we kind played a little and were squished because of the crowd. I slightly leaned in to catch the attention of the employee but I felt him lean in behind me too that his face was on my side but then again, he didn’t mind.
    Third, my gal friends and I were fixing each other’s hair. Since I was an anime lover, I decided that I wanted one of my favorite character’s hairstyle so I asked my friend about it and it wasn’t that bad. Though when he saw me, he instanly said that it didn’t suit me, that I look more good with my hair down. I didn’t know what happened because I was panicking but I lied and said that I didn’t requested to do this to my hair and was forced to by my friends. He asked who but since I was still panicking and I didn’t want my friends to get in trouble or something, I said you know who with a roll of the eyes but I didn’t expect what happened next. He stood up from his seat and stood in front of me then pulled out the pins in my hair. Since I have side bangs, it fell on my eyes which he pulled back and put it behind my ear, after that, he smoothed out my hair and gave me a thumbs up as I turned around while blushing.
    Fourth, when we fight, we always make up and pretend like nothing ever happened and when someone insults me or even made me sad, he would be there to stand up for me. Sometimes, when he gets a crush, he would ask me if the girl was alright and I, of course, always said yes but I couldn’t really see the expression he has sometimes since I would feel heartbroken.
    Lastly, it was the day of his birthday and I promised him his favorite cake, Red velvet. Though it took me 3 days after because of lack of ingredients so it was a belated happy birthday gift which changed into cupcakes. I don’t what exactly happened but it went in pure bliss. When he saw my cupcakes, he stared at it for a couple of seconds before turning red, placing it suddenly where it was at and hugged me. It was kind of a back hug and since I was sitting down, his chin was on my head. He kept saying THANK YOU and didn’t let go until I said you welcome. He was smiling after that and I couldn’t help but smile back too.

    I don’t know if this is enough proof but this is all I got. Can you tell me?

    • Yema

      May 24, 2015 at 5:30 pm

      Sorry but I forgot to put this on the first reason.

      He mistakened the guy as me. Then next, he called me and told me about it then he laughed but the way he explained it made me blush

      “Remember that our legs always get entangled? Well, Jacob sat here and our legs were slightly entangled but when I turned to talk to you, I realised it was another person!”

      It was like he mind at all that our legs get entangled all the time.

      • web admin

        May 25, 2015 at 5:10 pm

        I just got this and read it. He really, really sounds like he is into you. Even better, it sounds like he is extremely comfortable with being around you. You guys have been friends for a long time and are obviously very comfortable around each other. What has stopped you from dating in the past? Has he ever brought up the subject of dating? If you have any other questions, Yema, you can comment here or on any article on Her Interest and I will get it. If you need help asking him out or making a move, there are some articles on Her Interest that may be able to help you.

    • web admin

      May 25, 2015 at 5:06 pm

      It really does sound like he likes you. He likes to tease you by pulling your hair, and he makes excuses to bring his body closer to yours. Additionally, he notices your hair, has a preference for how you wear it and pulled it down. Short of just asking you out, there are few things he could do to show how much he likes you.

      The only thing that I would be worried about is your friendship. Since you seem to be really close friends, you may worry that a) these signs happened because he is your friend; not a crush, and b) dating could ruin your friendship. Personally, I think that friends make for the best relationships. Plus, he has probably held off on asking you out because he is worried that it could ruin your friendship. If you want to date him, perhaps you could get a friend to help you. You could also try just talking to him about how he feels. It seems like you have a close relationship, so a serious talk would be less awkward with him than with a normal crush. What do you plan on doing, Yema?

  19. Optimist

    May 16, 2015 at 2:36 pm

    I really need help. I like a guy that is five years older than me. And I don’t know if he likes me too. He shows most of the things here. He rubs his cheeks, hugs me, smile at me every time, I caught him staring at me ( and he also caught me staring at him XD lol), he’s very nice to me. I’ve met him about four months ago. We tease each other in a kind way. I dream of him A LOT. I dreamed of him and I kissed just a few days ago. And before I met him, I dreamed of marrying a guy,and it looked just like him! And when I met him, I fell in love. I really like him (and love). He is like about 11 inches taller than me. I hope he likes me more than a friend. And that picture of Ross Lynch and Laura Marano looks very cute with each other. Do they like each other? The boy I like so nice, tall, he’s averge,I’ve never seen his abs but I know he has them. We make eye contacts many times. And I’ve never see him hugged other girls expect me (he hugs like older women ages (30-up) Im like the only young girl he hugs so that’s also why I think he likes me. And sometimes when I am somewhere, he just pops out of nowhere and I caught him glancing a few times at me when he was talking to other people. I admit sometimes he is very ugly (I look way more worse than him im telling you), but sometimes he looks very cute(unlike me, I’m ugly) !
    Do you thin our relationship will ever happen? I see him like two times or three times a week.

    • Optimist

      May 24, 2015 at 1:29 pm

      Oh yea hey! It’s me again. I just wanted to to you that he hugged me 3 times now, so u can help me better if he likes me or not. I got to talk to his grandmother and mom already. Now it’s only the dad. :) PKEASE answer back quickly. I’ve been waiting for like 3 weeks now.

      • Optimist

        May 24, 2015 at 1:32 pm

        I also got 16/20 questions that he does to me.

    • web admin

      May 25, 2015 at 2:22 pm

      Somehow this message was missed earlier–sorry for the late reply, Optimist! It definitely sounds like he is interested. He seems to be doing all of the normal flirting behaviors that someone does when they have a crush. How often do you guys talk? Is it possible for you to ask him out? I would go with your gut feeling. If you feel like he likes you, then he probably does. The only reason you doubt yourself is because you want him to like you so much. When we fall for someone, it suddenly seems impossible that they could ever like us back. Good luck, Optimist, and let me know how it all turns out!

      • Optimist

        July 18, 2015 at 4:18 am

        Oh hi again, well it’s okay if u missed it. Well u see , when I trying to talk to someone, he comes and join the conversation and talk with the person that i was talking to but never talks to me. Only like hi and stuff. But a few days ago we had a conversation. That because is tatted first, lol. While we talked, our eye contact was more than five seconds. I didn’tknow what to do when our eyes met. I was asking myself, should I take my eyes off of his eyes? But look at his eyes, they’re also so beautiful and I always wanted to stare into his eyes. So then after that, I just thought il stare into his eyes and he did too. But I frogot who looked away first. And whenever he sees me, his face turned redder than before. Or sometime his own skin color turns red and it’s just so cute! XD lol. So now, I’ve known him for six months, almost 7 and from the first time we met, it’s like he liked me since then by the way he and. An older woman introduced me to him so neither of us said anything for five seconds of silence so I said Hi! :) and he said hi. And lol, I didn’t know his voice woul be deep. So he scared me a bit there . And I will not be telling him cause I’m actually very young you know.

        • web admin

          July 18, 2015 at 4:32 pm

          If you are too young to date, then you will have to wait until you are older, Optimist. Don’t worry–there are plenty of things to do, study and enjoy until you are ready to have a relationship. Take your time and enjoy life!

          • Optimit

            July 18, 2015 at 6:40 pm

            Yes I might be too young but then I wat to know ya know? I’m actually not like any other younger girls, I take my education very serious but at the same time I like him. And there is a possible chance we can be together in the future because same religion group. We see each other like very Sunday and Wednesday.

            • web admin

              July 19, 2015 at 8:55 pm

              Understandable–and it does sound like he could like you. Go ahead and become friends with him, until you are old enough to date. Then, you will have a solid foundation that you could build a relationship on. Good luck, Optimit!

          • Optimist

            July 19, 2015 at 2:22 am

            Yes I admit I’m too young too date. And I’m not looking forward to date right now. I take my education very seriously. I’m not like the rest. And yes I am gonna wait till I grow older to date. But you see, I just want to know if he likes me back or not.

            • web admin

              July 19, 2015 at 8:38 pm

              It certainly sounds like he could like you. :)

              • Optimist

                July 24, 2015 at 3:15 am

                Sorry I commented twice on those previous messages. I Thought the first one didn’t send. And yea, my crush and I are already friends. We talk. But it’s very hard to start a converstaion cause if I don’t, he’ll never will. He would only say a quick hi. And it’s very hard to say ” How are you?” But I asked him anyways, and it’s like I’m gonna faint cause it’s so hard to understand his words cause then he speaks too fast while touching his hair XD this article helps me a lot but then I still need help. I want to “know” if he likes me or not. And like when he’s jealous, what does he do?

              • Optimist

                July 24, 2015 at 3:17 am

                Sorry I commented twice on those previous messages. I Thought the first one didn’t send. And yea, my crush and I are already friends. We talk. But it’s very hard to start a converstaion cause if I don’t, he’ll never will. He would only say a quick hi. And like when he’s jealous, what does he do?

  20. Brett Henderson

    December 27, 2014 at 10:09 am

    Great Article. I was pleased to learn something new in Sign#11.
    I thought I would add a key attraction gesture men use. I was surprised it was not listed in these 20 signs.

    Sign #21) Foot pointing: Foot pointing shows interest! If your crush has both of his feet pointing toward you during conversation, you have his full attention. If he then shifts one or both of his feet toward something else, his attention has gone elsewhere. To be clear, his interest may be in the conversation you are having with him, or he may just be interested in you, AKA, attraction. If your crush constantly has his feet pointing in your direction (even when not speaking with him), he is attracted to you!

    • web admin

      April 17, 2015 at 4:46 am

      That is a very interesting point. I remember hearing about that before, but it was a long time ago. Obviously, the writer must not have come across it in her research. Next time, that point will have to be included.

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