40 Good And Cute Questions To Ask A Guy You Like

By on September 20, 2013






When getting to know the guy you are interested it, it’s important to have strong, cute and interesting questions to ask him to help the bond between the two of you develop. Asking all the right questions will help you get to know your crush and even help you decide if he is really someone you want to take the next step with. Here are 40 good and cute questions that you can ask the guy you like:

 

Question #1.) What makes you smile?

smiling

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this to a guy you like let’s him know that you are curious as to what makes him happy. The answer will let you know how to make him smile in the future and helps you get to know him much better.

 

Question #2.) What’s your favorite movie?

movie

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The answer to this question will help you both to discover if you have common interests when it comes to movies and the more you have in common the better!

 

Question #3.) If there is any place in the world that you could go, where would it be and why?

world

Advertisement


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another one of those ‘getting to know him’ type of questions. Maybe you both dream about the same places, who knows?

 

Question #4.) What is your favorite sport to watch/play?

sports

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A lot of guys absolutely love talking about sports and this will get conversation flowing. Hopefully, you can retain some of that knowledge and maybe even get yourself invited over to watch the game! Asking this question also lets your crush know you are interested in his likes and dislikes and want to get to know him better.

 

Question #5.) If we were dating, how would you celebrate our first one year anniversary?

anniversary

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this benefits you in a way that the answer will tell you if he would do something you like. Answers to questions like these can help you figure out what type of romantic he is and if he cares enough to tell you!

 

Question #6.) What’s your family like?

family

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: He’ll love the fact that you are taking the initiative to get to know the people he loves.

Advertisement


 

Question #7.) What about yourself do you find the most pride in?

talent

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Whether the answer is about his looks, talents or personality, you are engaging him in conversation that implies you want to get to know him and what he takes pride in. Pride is a huge trait in most any guy and definitely something to be aware of.

 

Question #8.) Have you ever cried at a movie?

sad

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Honestly, the answer to this question is usually a no, but if he does answer yes then maybe he has a really cute sensitive spot!

 

Question #9.) What’s your favorite car?

fav car

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another subject that most guys enjoy discussing. If he’s a car lover, he will adore you for asking and he will enjoy telling you all about what he likes.

 

Question #10.) What is your favorite food?

fav food

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The more and more you get to know him, the better a relationship will grow!

 

Question #11.) What do you notice first when you first meet a girl?

first

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This answer will also give you good insight to what kind of guy your crush is.

 

Question #12.) What is the craziest thing that you have ever done in your life?

craziest

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Not only will this give you a glimpse of his past, but it will also let you know how far this guys boundaries are and if you can keep up with them or if you want more excitement than what he is willing to do.

 

Question #13.) What is your favorite romantic activity?

picnic

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:  A guy has a different view on what is romantic than a girl does. So, be careful about how you take your crushes answer. If he answers, “We would play video games all day and drink Mountain Dew” and that’s not your favorite idea of romance, maybe he’s not a right fit for you. On the other hand, if he at least puts a little bit of effort in and says, “We could have a picnic at the park” or “I would take you shopping” then maybe he is a keeper after all!

 

Question #14.) What was the scariest moment in your life?

scariest

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: It’s nice to get to know a guy, what he’s afraid of and why.

 

Question #15.) Who was your first crush?

crush

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This question is just a small ice-breakers and may have him blushing or you laughing, but it is a cute question to ask.

 

Question #16.) Who is your biggest hero?

batman

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question to the guy you are interested in will help you get to know who he looks up to and who he aspires to be like. It is just another ‘get to know him’ type of question that can really warm you up to each other.

 

Question #17.) Would you like to hang out with me more often?

hanging

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This lets your crush know you are interested in him and seeing him more often. It is even cuter if he says yes!

 

Question #18.) What is your definition of intimate?

intimate

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question and receiving its answer will give you an idea of how your crush perceives intimacy and romance. The answer can be quite heartwarming and adorable!

 

Question #19.) Would you cuddle with me?

cuddle

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Oh! The cuteness! Unless he says no, of course, then it is not so cute… But, if he says yes, it is definitely an adorable question to ask.

 

Question #20.) What are your favorite hobbies?

hobbie

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe when he answers you will discover that you both have a lot of common interests and can even do some of those hobbies together. This will help you to get to know him much better and discover what he truly loves doing.

 

Question #21.) What’s your favorite restaurant?

#1

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Who knows, maybe you’ll both sharing a passionate love for sushi rolls. Also asking him this may just get you the info you need to set up his idea of the perfect date in the future.

 

Question #22.) What would you do if you won the lottery?

22

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get a look inside of your man’s financial priorities by asking him this question. Does he have a greedy heart or a kind one? Will he spend his money wisely or be completely reckless? 

 

Question #23.) Most embarrassing look?

3

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get a few giggles out of your crush by getting him to open up and reminisce about his most embarrassing looks when he was younger. Maybe he didn’t rock that mullet his mom gave him when he was 5, you’ll never know unless you ask!

 

Question #24.) What’s your favorite way to spend a rainy day?

4

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Scope out how he would entertain you cooped up inside when there is bad whether. This goes for snowstorms or any bad weather that you may want to curl up inside all day for. 

 

Question #25.) What is your favorite video game?

5

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Just like with sports, most of the time, men get pretty pumped up about video games. Be careful, he may go on and on and on…

 

Question #26.) Are you superstitious?

6

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get the creativity flowing as you discuss what gives you the heebie jeebies!

 

Question #27.) Are you religious?7

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is an important question to ask someone you may want to pursuit a relationship with. It’s best if both of you come to a mutual understanding of views to make any sort of relationship work. He may appreciate you diving into this question, so you two can really see if you click on all the right levels. 

 

Question #28.) Favorite time of the year?

8

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: You two can bond over whether you love laying on the beach in the summer or drinking hot cocoa in the winter.

 

Question #29.) Name a few things on your bucket list?

9

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe he will share a few of the same ideas and together you both can dream up how you’ll strike them off of your lists!

 

Question #30.) What is your favorite band/musician?

10

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Who doesn’t love discussing their favorite music? This question is sure to open up the door to a lot of great conversation between you and your beau.

 

Question #31.) What makes you nervous?

11

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The best way to get to know someone is finding out what makes them comfortable as well as what makes them uncomfortable. Figuring out a prospective partner’s weaknesses is just as important as finding out what their biggest strengths are.

 

Question #32.) What was your first kiss like?

12

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Because who doesn’t adore the story of a first kiss? 

 

Question #33.) What do you want to do for a career?

13

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Watch the guy you like as he opens up about his dreams for the future. Get to know him on a more personal level and find out what he strives to be.

 

Question #34.) Can you dance?

14

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This may seem like a silly question, but if you are a lady who loves to dance, it may be a must that your guy can dance with you. If you’re not a huge dancer, then it’ll be good to know if he will expect you to have moves or not.

 

Question #35.) What is your biggest pet peeve?

15

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This may decide whether you want to continue to see this guy or not by telling you if you both are turned off by the same things. Maybe you both hate cigarette smoke or neither of you can stand broccoli! It’ll also help you avoid doing things that may really get under his skin and vice versa. 

 

Question #36.) Who is your celebrity crush?

16

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: As strange or pointless as this question may seem, the answer will give you an idea of what kind of women he finds attractive.

 

Question #37.) Do you like to read?

17

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The two of you can get cozy discussing which books you like or dislike.

 

Question #38.) Favorite job you’ve had or would like to have?

18

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The way he talks about work can help you map out his work ethic and what motivates him. 

 

Question #39.) Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

19

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Ask him this question to see if he matches you in your lifestyle. It may get him to open up about how he likes to spend his time. Hopefully you both love spending time the same way!

 

Question #40.) What qualities do you want in a girlfriend?

20

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Find out what drives him crazy! It’s a good idea to feel out what he is really searching for in a potential partner. His answer will give you the clues you need to discover if you are the right woman for him! 





600 Comments

  1. August

    February 21, 2017 at 5:39 am

    I need advice. My boyfriend is still really quiet towards me, but then mostly just physically close to me. I want to build a strong friendship with him. But I don’t know how? Like I don’t really understand why he says he “already” loves me, when we barely know each other.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 21, 2017 at 11:32 am

      He may feel very close to you. Continue to spend time with him. Learn about his thoughts and feelings. Share your thoughts and feelings with him as well. Try to go out with him on a walk through nature or out to a meal. This will help the two of you to become closer. Best of luck, August!

  2. Kip

    February 20, 2017 at 2:30 am

    Sorry i posted it twice

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 20, 2017 at 11:03 am

      Take this time to determine what you think will help you become more confident. If you believe that you would feel more confident if you get in better shape, then get in better shape. Take this time to determine the best route that you want to take. Removing processed foods, sugars and excess meat from your diet will help. Develop a healthy exercise regimen at this time. Best of luck, Kip!

  3. Kip

    February 20, 2017 at 2:29 am

    I met this girl on the internet and we’ve had a really good online relationship, we talk for like 2 hours everyday so I guess you can say things are getting pretty serious. I’m saving up money so she can fly over and stay with me for a while. I just kind of worried that she won’t like me because im kind of scrawny and not very muscular. Could u plz give me some tips about online relationships and how to b confident around her.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 20, 2017 at 11:03 am

      Take this time to determine what you think will help you become more confident. If you believe that you would feel more confident if you get in better shape, then get in better shape. Take this time to determine the best route that you want to take. Removing processed foods, sugars and excess meat from your diet will help. Develop a healthy exercise regimen at this time. Best of luck, Kip!

  4. Kip

    February 19, 2017 at 8:56 pm

    So I met this girl on the internet and we’ve had a really good internet relationship and we talk for like 2 hours everyday, so it’s getting pretty serious. I’ve been saving up so she can come to stay with me for awhile coz we’ve never seen each other in person. But I don’t know if she will like me when she meets me coz I’m kind of scrawny and not vet muscular so what should I do to looks confident around her?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 20, 2017 at 10:53 am

      Take this time to determine what you think will help you become more confident. If you believe that you would feel more confident if you get in better shape, then get in better shape. Take this time to determine the best route that you want to take. Removing processed foods, sugars and excess meat from your diet will help. Develop a healthy exercise regimen at this time. Best of luck, Kip!

  5. Iris

    February 19, 2017 at 7:50 am

    I’m in a situation. My ex is going out with my bestfriend but he keeps telling me he wants me to wait until he breaks up with her, so he can get back together with me. He tells me he still kinda loves me. I know this is playing, and its behind my bestfriends back! but since I do have feelings for him, I don’t know wether to confront him, tell my bestfriend or just wait, like he asked. Please help!!

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 20, 2017 at 1:53 am

      This is playing. This is also behind your best friend’s back. This is wrong and you know it. Distance yourself from him and support your friend’s relationship. There is no reason to attempt to damage their relationship. Acting of of selfish interest will only bring harm to you and to your future relationship. Good day, Iris.

  6. Gail

    February 8, 2017 at 12:55 pm

    There’s this boy i really like. And he likes me back. But Idk what to text him, I’ve never had a boyfriend before and he’s my first crush that liked me back.

    • Gail

      February 8, 2017 at 1:01 pm

      And we joke around in class, but I’m still trying to text him more.

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 8, 2017 at 2:41 pm

        Text him as often as you want. Nothing will serve you better than being with him in person. Ask him to meet you somewhere. Best of luck, Gail!

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 8, 2017 at 2:40 pm

      Speak with him about your thoughts and ideas. There is no reason to take no action. Try to spend time with him. Even go out with him on a nature walk or out to a meal. Best of luck, Gail!

  7. Jen

    February 7, 2017 at 4:38 pm

    I used to like this guy, like 9 years back,(and he also liked me back)and we started talking because of another problem of our friend. I feel like I’m starting to have feelings for him again, but I don’t want to make it awkward, because it was awkward alone to bring up the past. If I end up having feelings for him for sure, how do I bring it up & not make it as awkward as it already is?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 8, 2017 at 11:24 am

      There is no reason to bring up the past. You two know how you felt about each other at that time. Live in the here and now. Try to meet up with him. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings about the world that we live in. You may find that your relationship will be best served if you go out with him for a meal or on a nature walk. Best of luck, Jen!

  8. Bailey

    February 6, 2017 at 5:50 pm

    i’ve had a really bad past with boys including sexual harassment and cheating. which has made my parents highly over protective. i’ve never really talked to my parents about dating other than having a boyfriend in 6th grade and them telling me i’m too young. but i’m really into this guy and he’s into me. today he asked me out and i don’t know how to break the news to my parents or how they will respond to us dating.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 8, 2017 at 10:54 am

      You would be best served by speaking with your parents. Perhaps you may want to tell your parents that you want them to meet a boy that you care about and that you think cares about you. They may accept or they may tell you to just be friends. However, the best option for your relationship is to get approval from your parents. They may want to meet his parents as well. If they ask to meet them, then agree and your relationship will likely be accepted. Best of luck, Bailey!

  9. Janeane

    February 4, 2017 at 8:13 pm

    I need help. My ex hung out with me on our school sk8 night and he ignored me after we broke up until sk8 night. He has been talking to me a little bit more in class since then. Does this mean anything? He seems to be being really nice to me all of a sudden. Hanging out with him was fun and made me get feelings for him again. But since he’s my ex it makes it hard. What do I do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 5, 2017 at 10:33 am

      He may be interested in you again, or he may have just moved on. If he has healed again completely, it would be easier for him to be friends and act naturally around you. There is no way to know yet if he is interested in you again or just feels comfortable being friends. If you are interested in him, keep talking to him and see what happens. Best of luck, Janeane!

  10. Cassy

    February 3, 2017 at 3:16 pm

    There’s a boy I really like. I think we could be more but how do I know if he likes me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 5, 2017 at 9:26 am

      We actually have an article on Her Interest called, “How to Tell If a Guy Likes You.” It goes through many of the signs to look for to see if a guy is interested like touching you or trying to be close, being shy around you and making excuses to talk to you. If you think that he could like you, then ask him to hang out or ask him on a date–he may just be too shy to make a move yet. Good luck, Cassy!

  11. Amber

    February 1, 2017 at 9:50 pm

    ok so i have a crush in this guy and were in middle school and i really really really like him but he dated one of my best friends and he told me that he still had feelings for her and that he doesnt like her that much but a little bit and i told him i liked him already but he told me he only likes me as a friend but i feel like I’m in love with him but i don’t think he feels the same about me what should i do to make him notice or like me for then just a friend and we do talk every single day and he invites me to ice palace a lot but i feel like he doesnt have that much feelings what should i do i really really do like him ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 2, 2017 at 2:01 pm

      You may want to speak with your friend about you dating her ex. You are at a time when friendships and relationships may become difficult to manage. You may find that entering in a relationship with him will cause you social harm. It would be best for you to be clear and honest with your friend about your thoughts. Best of luck, Amber!

    • Iris

      February 19, 2017 at 7:57 am

      Amber, I know all crushes are not sunshine and rainbows and yes it hurts that someone does not like you back, I understand.
      so I have come up with a few tips to help you.
      1. speak with your friend about dating her ex, there is nothing worse than having a backstabbing friend.
      2. if he invites you round to places, take advantage of that, flirt with him, get closer to him all girls are good at that and he will find it cute.
      3. If you talk to him a lot, and if you haven’t already, text him more! that way you can talk about private things and no one else will hear.
      4. also remember, if he just rlly dosent want to be with you, don’t get clingy, theres nothing worse than a clingy girl!

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 20, 2017 at 1:55 am

        Thank you for your experience and insights. We always appreciate such thoughtful and positive comments. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and ideas in the future. Have a great day, Iris!

  12. ashley

    February 1, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    Im starting to like this guy, and he is one of my friends older brothers, and Im not sure if he feels the same way. We have been texting for a couple days now and i think i may really like him, How do I know if he feels the same way or not?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 2, 2017 at 1:58 pm

      Continue to talk with him. You may be best served by trying to spend time with him. You may find that he might be concerned about you being his friend’s sister. This is a common concern for people. You may want to speak with your brother about this potential concern. Best of luck, Ashley!

  13. Meels

    January 23, 2017 at 10:19 pm

    Hello,
    I know he likes me, he has told me so multiple time, he even asked me out once, and I like him too. But my friends (we are all SUPER close, and take what we say to each other to heart) dont think I should go out with him. I am hesitating admitting my feelings to him and dating him and I am not sure if it is just because of my friends or if I not ready to be in another relationship (my last one ended almost a month ago, but it was a messy break up). Any advice?!!
    -thanks!

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 24, 2017 at 8:30 am

      Only you can decide if you are ready for another relationship or not. If you are ready to date again, then you have to decide if your friends’ reasons for not liking him are valid. Do they just dislike him generally or do they have a specific reason for thinking it would be bad to date him? Listen to their reasons, but then make up your own mind. And if you are just not ready to date, tell him that you need a few weeks to finish healing before you can be with him. Otherwise, he may think that you rejected him.

    • Lily

      January 29, 2017 at 1:20 am

      Just be yourself and listen to your heart

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 29, 2017 at 12:44 pm

        Thank you for sharing your uplifting words. It is always great to see when our community supports each other. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and ideas in the future. Have a great day, Lily!

  14. Chante

    January 23, 2017 at 1:09 pm

    I like a guy but he is a few years older than me and my parents don’t really approve and I haven’t really felt that he likes me back

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 24, 2017 at 8:15 am

      If you do not think he likes you back and your parents do not approve of him, then it would be best to just focus on a different crush. Trying to go after him will only make your parents upset, and it does not seem like it would be effective at making him like you. If he shows signs of interest, you can always reevaluate how you act toward him in the future. Good luck, Chante!

  15. shadia

    January 13, 2017 at 9:08 am

    I’ve had acrush on this guy from like 2013.wen I finally decided to talk to him I realized that we’ve been to same schools like right from pre school till highschool ..buh he was like 3 years ahead ..so now he left the country n is studying in the UK ..where most of he’s family is ..and my most of my family too is ..
    This makes me think that maybe we were actually meant to be. cause now am also planning to head there for further studies ..
    We’ve been casually talking and he asked me out which I also still think is casual ..and what I’ve always wanted is a relationship with him buh really dunno what’s up to ..cause when I text him he replies just what I want to hear though he May take long ..
    So I was wondering whether it’s ok to send him something while he’s there

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 13, 2017 at 10:27 am

      Continue speaking with him as much as you desire. There is no reason to lose his friendship. If you want to try to establish a relationship with him, then explain to him that you are thinking of continuing study in the UK. Speak with your family about your ideas of studying in the UK as well. This will give you a better understanding of what is and what is not possible for your relationship and the future of your life. Keep in mind that your educational future should not be second to your potential love life. Best of luck, Shadia!

  16. Izzy

    January 12, 2017 at 9:26 pm

    How do u get ur crush to date u even tho he has a gf but yet he talks to me more what does that mean

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 13, 2017 at 10:14 am

      If your crush is in a relationship with someone else, then you do not make action toward him. You can speak with him and remain his friend, but you should not attempt to damage their relationship. This will cause his current partner to suffer. This will cause you and him to take negative actions that will lead to troubles in the future. There are many reasons not to try to get someone to cheat or to leave someone else. Take this time to look inward and determine how you can take positive and selfless action in the future. Have a great day, Izzy.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *