40 Good And Cute Questions To Ask A Guy You Like

By on September 20, 2013

When getting to know the guy you are interested it, it’s important to have strong, cute and interesting questions to ask him to help the bond between the two of you develop. Asking all the right questions will help you get to know your crush and even help you decide if he is really someone you want to take the next step with. Here are 40 good and cute questions that you can ask the guy you like:


Question #1.) What makes you smile?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this to a guy you like let’s him know that you are curious as to what makes him happy. The answer will let you know how to make him smile in the future and helps you get to know him much better.


Question #2.) What’s your favorite movie?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The answer to this question will help you both to discover if you have common interests when it comes to movies and the more you have in common the better!


Question #3.) If there is any place in the world that you could go, where would it be and why?



Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another one of those ‘getting to know him’ type of questions. Maybe you both dream about the same places, who knows?


Question #4.) What is your favorite sport to watch/play?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A lot of guys absolutely love talking about sports and this will get conversation flowing. Hopefully, you can retain some of that knowledge and maybe even get yourself invited over to watch the game! Asking this question also lets your crush know you are interested in his likes and dislikes and want to get to know him better.


Question #5.) If we were dating, how would you celebrate our first one year anniversary?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this benefits you in a way that the answer will tell you if he would do something you like. Answers to questions like these can help you figure out what type of romantic he is and if he cares enough to tell you!


Question #6.) What’s your family like?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: He’ll love the fact that you are taking the initiative to get to know the people he loves.



Question #7.) What about yourself do you find the most pride in?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Whether the answer is about his looks, talents or personality, you are engaging him in conversation that implies you want to get to know him and what he takes pride in. Pride is a huge trait in most any guy and definitely something to be aware of.


Question #8.) Have you ever cried at a movie?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Honestly, the answer to this question is usually a no, but if he does answer yes then maybe he has a really cute sensitive spot!


Question #9.) What’s your favorite car?

fav car

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another subject that most guys enjoy discussing. If he’s a car lover, he will adore you for asking and he will enjoy telling you all about what he likes.


Question #10.) What is your favorite food?

fav food

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The more and more you get to know him, the better a relationship will grow!



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Question #11.) What do you notice first when you first meet a girl?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This answer will also give you good insight to what kind of guy your crush is.


Question #12.) What is the craziest thing that you have ever done in your life?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Not only will this give you a glimpse of his past, but it will also let you know how far this guys boundaries are and if you can keep up with them or if you want more excitement than what he is willing to do.


Question #13.) What is your favorite romantic activity?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:  A guy has a different view on what is romantic than a girl does. So, be careful about how you take your crushes answer. If he answers, “We would play video games all day and drink Mountain Dew” and that’s not your favorite idea of romance, maybe he’s not a right fit for you. On the other hand, if he at least puts a little bit of effort in and says, “We could have a picnic at the park” or “I would take you shopping” then maybe he is a keeper after all!


Question #14.) What was the scariest moment in your life?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: It’s nice to get to know a guy, what he’s afraid of and why.


Question #15.) Who was your first crush?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This question is just a small ice-breakers and may have him blushing or you laughing, but it is a cute question to ask.


Question #16.) Who is your biggest hero?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question to the guy you are interested in will help you get to know who he looks up to and who he aspires to be like. It is just another ‘get to know him’ type of question that can really warm you up to each other.


Question #17.) Would you like to hang out with me more often?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This lets your crush know you are interested in him and seeing him more often. It is even cuter if he says yes!


Question #18.) What is your definition of intimate?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question and receiving its answer will give you an idea of how your crush perceives intimacy and romance. The answer can be quite heartwarming and adorable!


Question #19.) Would you cuddle with me?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Oh! The cuteness! Unless he says no, of course, then it is not so cute… But, if he says yes, it is definitely an adorable question to ask.


Question #20.) What are your favorite hobbies?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe when he answers you will discover that you both have a lot of common interests and can even do some of those hobbies together. This will help you to get to know him much better and discover what he truly loves doing.


Question #21.) What’s your favorite restaurant?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Who knows, maybe you’ll both sharing a passionate love for sushi rolls. Also asking him this may just get you the info you need to set up his idea of the perfect date in the future.


Question #22.) What would you do if you won the lottery?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get a look inside of your man’s financial priorities by asking him this question. Does he have a greedy heart or a kind one? Will he spend his money wisely or be completely reckless? 


Question #23.) Most embarrassing look?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get a few giggles out of your crush by getting him to open up and reminisce about his most embarrassing looks when he was younger. Maybe he didn’t rock that mullet his mom gave him when he was 5, you’ll never know unless you ask!


Question #24.) What’s your favorite way to spend a rainy day?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Scope out how he would entertain you cooped up inside when there is bad whether. This goes for snowstorms or any bad weather that you may want to curl up inside all day for. 


Question #25.) What is your favorite video game?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Just like with sports, most of the time, men get pretty pumped up about video games. Be careful, he may go on and on and on…


Question #26.) Are you superstitious?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get the creativity flowing as you discuss what gives you the heebie jeebies!


Question #27.) Are you religious?7

Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is an important question to ask someone you may want to pursuit a relationship with. It’s best if both of you come to a mutual understanding of views to make any sort of relationship work. He may appreciate you diving into this question, so you two can really see if you click on all the right levels. 


Question #28.) Favorite time of the year?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: You two can bond over whether you love laying on the beach in the summer or drinking hot cocoa in the winter.


Question #29.) Name a few things on your bucket list?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe he will share a few of the same ideas and together you both can dream up how you’ll strike them off of your lists!


Question #30.) What is your favorite band/musician?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Who doesn’t love discussing their favorite music? This question is sure to open up the door to a lot of great conversation between you and your beau.


Question #31.) What makes you nervous?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The best way to get to know someone is finding out what makes them comfortable as well as what makes them uncomfortable. Figuring out a prospective partner’s weaknesses is just as important as finding out what their biggest strengths are.


Question #32.) What was your first kiss like?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Because who doesn’t adore the story of a first kiss? 


Question #33.) What do you want to do for a career?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Watch the guy you like as he opens up about his dreams for the future. Get to know him on a more personal level and find out what he strives to be.


Question #34.) Can you dance?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This may seem like a silly question, but if you are a lady who loves to dance, it may be a must that your guy can dance with you. If you’re not a huge dancer, then it’ll be good to know if he will expect you to have moves or not.


Question #35.) What is your biggest pet peeve?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This may decide whether you want to continue to see this guy or not by telling you if you both are turned off by the same things. Maybe you both hate cigarette smoke or neither of you can stand broccoli! It’ll also help you avoid doing things that may really get under his skin and vice versa. 


Question #36.) Who is your celebrity crush?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: As strange or pointless as this question may seem, the answer will give you an idea of what kind of women he finds attractive.


Question #37.) Do you like to read?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The two of you can get cozy discussing which books you like or dislike.


Question #38.) Favorite job you’ve had or would like to have?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The way he talks about work can help you map out his work ethic and what motivates him. 


Question #39.) Are you an introvert or an extrovert?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Ask him this question to see if he matches you in your lifestyle. It may get him to open up about how he likes to spend his time. Hopefully you both love spending time the same way!


Question #40.) What qualities do you want in a girlfriend?


Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Find out what drives him crazy! It’s a good idea to feel out what he is really searching for in a potential partner. His answer will give you the clues you need to discover if you are the right woman for him! 



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  1. Trina

    April 18, 2017 at 2:43 pm

    Hie, so I met Tony in September last year, he was crushing on me and his buddies at work told me about it. I reciprocated and he then changed his mind and said that he was confused and not ready for anything. So why was he leading me on anyway? I got over it but two months later I met his friend Rody at a football club at work, he was very nice and we got to get along well, chat a lot, he has been nice,  protective, caring, listening and most of all I felt he understood me well.  However, Tony got to know of this and decide to come back apologising and asking me out and all sorts. Rody became distant because Tony was now confiding in him about me. However I denied all his trials, and finally I told Rody that I was I interested I  him.  He surprisingly replied my text. And asked to meet up in person.  But before ending the chat he asked me how would a friend feel if he got to know that th girl he likes is interested in his best friend and what would the best friend do. I just said it would hurt but there are underlying factors over why I don’t want him.  More confusion on me. How would you advise? Is this date to tell me off, or is it to move things forward with Rody?! Wouldn’t he just have said that I’m not interested coz of Tony instead of setting up a date? Funny thing he’s still chatting me up and name calling me as usual.  Do guys tend to break off ties with their secret crush in person?  We’ve never had a time set aside for the two of us only, this is the first, I don’t know how to react! Please advise.

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 19, 2017 at 7:45 pm

      You do not have any loyalty to anyone at this time. The only thing that matters is the viability of your relationship. If the person that you are interested in believes that a relationship with you would harm his friendship and cause your relationship to fall apart, then you may not want to begin in the first place. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck, Trina!

  2. Ashton

    April 11, 2017 at 7:03 pm

    I am attracted to someone who lives across the world from me. How do I know if he’s attracted to me as well if the only way we communicate is through text? We talk every day when we can, and it seems that he really cares about me, but I can’t tell if it’s in a platonic way or something more. Physical gestures don’t do anything if he can’t see them. Being cute in texts seems to make him nervous, but he’s been loosening up a bit here lately… Is there hope for me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 12, 2017 at 8:37 am

      The fact that he talks to you every day and seems to genuinely care about you seem to be a good sign. How many friends do you actually message every day? While you may talk that often with your closest friends, it is more likely that he messages you so often because he likes you. Keep up the conversation and get to know him better–it sounds likely that he could be interested in being more than just friends. I would imagine that the only thing that could possibly hold him back is the distance between you two.

  3. Maddie

    April 4, 2017 at 5:39 pm

    How do I get my boyfriend to be more attracted to me

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 5, 2017 at 8:44 am

      He presumably already is quite attracted to you since he is dating you; he may just be bad at showing it. Find out what he finds attractive like clothes, styles or haircuts and do it. I would not change too much though because he must have been attracted to how you originally looked when he started dating you, so you don’t want to mix it up too much. Good luck, Maddie!

  4. Tv Channelz

    March 27, 2017 at 8:02 am


    • web admin

      web admin

      March 27, 2017 at 9:39 am

      You are welcome! Thanks for commenting!

  5. Bella

    March 22, 2017 at 6:56 pm

    My crush is one of my close friends, but I don’t want to scare him off by being super forward. Any tips on what to say to him?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 23, 2017 at 7:43 am

      Just try talking to him and flirting with him. Touch him gently on the shoulder or arm, lean in when he speaks and do similar things to show that you are interested. If he responds positively and you think that he could be interested, then ask him if he wants to go on a date. If that is too extreme of a move, you could also ask him if he just wants to hang out with you. Good luck, Bella!

    • Monaé

      April 11, 2017 at 9:20 pm

      There’s nothing wrong with being forward, telling him you like him might actually be good you should do that. If he’s a close friend he should respect your feelings for him regardless if he likes you back or not.

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 12, 2017 at 8:37 am

        I am sure that Bella will appreciate the insight! Thanks for commenting, Monae!

  6. Yaya

    March 18, 2017 at 11:07 am

    How to make your crush text you first because it seem like it’s always me who text him first? I just dont know how to get close to him because I’m too afraid that he know my feeling on him. And one more thing is we were studying in the same university.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 19, 2017 at 6:26 pm

      Try to spend more time with him in person. This will change the dynamic of your relationship over time. It may cause him to text you first. He may be more likely to reach out to you in person. Make small changes in your relationship to see what influences his actions. Have a great day, Yaya!

    • Jellybean

      April 10, 2017 at 2:55 pm

      I was in the same situation so I decided I wouldn’t text him first for a couple of days until he texted me first. Don’t text him first and see if he texts you.

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 11, 2017 at 8:30 am

        Hopefully, your advice ends up working out. Thanks for commenting, Jellybean!

    • jada

      April 25, 2017 at 4:57 pm

      just talk to him like u talk to anybody else tht your friend and tht should even more better cuz yall studying together

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 26, 2017 at 12:43 pm

        Thank you for sharing your advice. You are right, it is always best to be confident and friendly when speaking with someone that you are interested in. Have a great day, Jada!

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