40 Cute Things to Text Your Boyfriend

By on January 8, 2014
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Absolutely love texting your boyfriend, but running out of cute texts that will make him smile? You’re not alone. After texting the same person for several months, finding things to make them smile can be a little difficult. But with these 40 cute things to text your boyfriend will surely make him laugh and smile.


1. Hey there handsome.

So much better than simply reading ‘Hi’ or ‘Hey’. Make him smile with the very first text you send. It can only get better!

2. I miss your cute smile.

Who doesn’t love a compliment on their appearance? Men love compliments, and this one will definitely make him smile with that cute little grin you know and love.

3. I love you.

This one should obviously be reserved for more serious relationships, but once he reads this he will definitely get butterflies in his belly.

4. You are so handsome.


Again, every man loves to be complimented. You can use other words like hot or sexy, but hearing he’s handsome will definitely up his ego in a more meaningful way.

5. I love your ____.

Really you can say just about anything with this text. Maybe you love his gorgeous green eyes, maybe you love his hilarious personality, or maybe are head over heels for his long blonde hair. Whatever it is that drives you crazy, let him know with this text. It’ll boost his ego and keep him happy for days on end.

6. I love it when you ____.

Tell your boyfriend some things you love that he does, like picking you up and hugging you or bringing you flowers before your date. This will not only make him feel good about himself, but will also let him know that he should continue doing it- and more often, too! It’s a win for the both of you.

7. I love you like a fat kid loves cake.

Such a classic line, but it gets a smile every time. I mean, the image is priceless yet it has a lot more meaning than you’d think. It’s really just an adorable text that will make him laugh the second he reads it, while still making his heart melt. Who knew you had such amazing powers?

8. So, there’s this really amazing guy. I like him a lot. His name is (insert boyfriend’s name here).

At first he’ll think, ‘Who is she talking about?’ Then he’ll be greatly surprised (and happy!) when he sees his name. Such a cute way to shower your man with compliments!


9. I was having a bad day, but then I thought of you and suddenly my world lit up.

It might be corny, but it’s definitely one to use on bad days when the only thing that makes you smile is him.

10. <3 

Ah, the heart symbol. So tiny, yet has such an impact. It’s a way of telling him you love him without words.

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  1. Confused

    April 17, 2015 at 8:06 pm

    Hi there, me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and we love each other dearly. I’m starting to think our chats/convos are playing like a broken record now, we repeat the same convo each day “hi, how are you. How was your day” etc.
    Please could you give me tips on how to freshen the convo up again. I’m a shy person and not really a person who knows how to start or continue a convo well.I don’t want to bore him.


    • web admin

      April 17, 2015 at 8:51 pm

      There are several articles on HerInterest about what to ask your crush, would you rather questions and other question ideas. You can start by trying out some of these questions on your boyfriend. To have more things to talk about, perhaps you should plan a trip or a date together. Pottery painting, hiking, rock climbing, a movie, a gym session or a similar date idea could give you something new to talk about. In addition, you would get to be around other people, so the conversation would naturally change. If you do not have money for a night out, try planning a night in. Instead of just watching a movie, try playing a game together like cards, Twister or a similar game. You could also try at-home projects like painting or gardening. By doing things together, you make it much easier to find something to talk about. Good luck, Confused!

  2. Fee

    April 17, 2015 at 1:54 pm

    I was dating this guy for a year and a half and in January I asked for A commitment he gave me a commitment which is fine I’m actually falling in love with him he’s 34 I’m 28 out of the whole time we’ve been talking he finally told me he missed me a little bit a couple nights ago but I wonder if he actually cares about me he’s around my kids and I’m around his son the son stay the night at my House before I just want to know how he’s feeling but how when I Ask and I want us to go away for a trip but I’m a lil concert because around on vday he never got me anything

    • web admin

      April 17, 2015 at 3:09 pm

      Let me see if I understand: You have been dating a guy for a year and a half. He gave you a commitment when you asked for it, and he hangs around your children. He doesn’t share his feelings a lot, but he did tell you that he missed you a few nights ago when you were not there. Does this sound like an accurate summary?

      If the previous summary is right, then it certainly sounds like things are heating up. You should not necessarily read into the fact that he did not get you anything for Valentine’s Day. He could have forgotten, or he could be broke. Either way, it may not mean anything. What you should consider is if he is actually committed to the relationship. Did it take him most of the year and a half to commit? Is he fully committed now? Where does he see the relationship going? All of these questions should be answered before you start to worry about forgotten Valentine’s Day presents.

  3. S_9955

    April 17, 2015 at 3:26 am

    Im currently dating a guy, I met him online and there’s a distance between where we live. Theres also a 5 year age gap, but I love him more than I thought possible. He said he’s gonna come see me in a couple of months and we talk like all day everyday. Its just a little hard not being able to see him. And we haven’t met in person. How do I know he’s not playing me? How do I know he’s not dating some other girl?

    • web admin

      April 17, 2015 at 4:18 am

      There is really no way for you to know if he is dating another girl. This is not really different than normal, though. In real life, you can never really know for sure if your boyfriend is faithful. It basically comes down to a question of trust. Do you trust him? Can you learn to trust him? If you need to have him around you in person to trust him, then you may not be able to proceed with this relationship.

  4. Samantha

    April 16, 2015 at 12:36 am

    So… I really like this guy and we’ve only been talking for about a month, but I think that I could be falling for him, like… seriously falling. And I’m scared because there is a little bit of an age gap but nothing that we can’t figure out. He’s 24 and I’m 17. Everyone in my life is telling me that I’m wasting my time… but it doesn’t feel like I’m wasting my time, you know? It just feels like we’re waiting for the right time to actually get together. He works nights and I’m finishing school. I want to fall in love with him and have a good relationship, but he has a past relationship that he is still broken about that happened a couple of years ago. I’m falling in love with this guy and I don’t want to be the only one who is in our relationship. Please help…

    • web admin

      April 16, 2015 at 1:41 am

      Most people do not meet their soul mate while they are still in high school, but that does not mean that it cannot happen. It sounds like you are really connecting emotionally with him, but he is unable to provide the same emotional connection for you. If I were you, I would spend more time focusing on school, preparing for college, applying to scholarships or saving money for right now. Before you could be together, both of you must be emotionally available. Check back in six months and see how he is doing. Waiting may be frustrating, but it is far better than getting involved in a relationship where you are the only one really in it.

  5. shyann

    April 12, 2015 at 1:46 am

    My boyfriend lives far away from me but if we last as long as i hope we will i have it planned in 10 months to go see him i want it to be a suprise but how would i do that and what would i even say to him when i got there And met him for the first time without him knowing im scared i,dont,want to ruin it

    • web admin

      April 14, 2015 at 8:37 pm

      From your comment, it sounds like you have been dating your boyfriend from a distance, but never actually met him. Is that correct? If so, you will have an interesting experience surprising him. Although that sounds very romantic, perhaps you should ask him if he has a weekend free to meet up. You would not want to fly all the way to his home just to realize that he would be working that weekend. Once you know that he is free, you could always try to surprise him by being a day early or by pre-arranging a romantic picnic or dinner date.

      Speaking him will come naturally and you can always use the typical ice breaker questions. The main thing you should remember is that a surprise for your first meeting may not be the best idea. It sounds romantic, but there are way too many ways that it could go wrong.

  6. Anynomous

    April 8, 2015 at 1:51 am

    Me and this guy met online and we started chatting and stuff and we instantly made a connection and we decided to start dating, I love his personality but he’s not the type of guy that I would usually go for and I’m not sure if I’m physically attracted to him. I want to move past that cause no matter what I really feel for him but we still haven’t met in person and I’m starting to feel like hes drifting away. I don’t know what to do or say to make things interesting. I always thouht that things would be easier if we were closer to each other but at the moment there are some complications and we can’ . So I’m torn do I keep on talking to him or do I let him go? He’s an amazing person and we talked about being in each others lives in the future. I’m really tor . Please help!!!!!!!

    • A3_92414

      April 9, 2015 at 1:11 am

      That’s pretty hard. Age is a big thing in a relationship, if you’re 13 and under, its hard to what will happen in your future, but if you’re close to 15, or older, it is easier. I’m 15, and I plan on marrying him. What helps grow a relationship is talking in person and how you feel, and what you want to do with your life. When you don’t text them you feel lost, but in this case you feel like he is drifting away. What you do is text him, maybe Skype each other, and talk about what will work. Long distance is no fun, so you need to talk to him about it, don’t be scared to talk to him. IF you want it to work, than tell him, you don’t think it will work, than tell him that.

      Hope this helped.

    • web admin

      April 14, 2015 at 8:43 pm

      In your situation, there are only a few ways to heat things up. Since you do not have an in-person relationship to base things off of, you are limited in how well you can really heat things up while talking to him online. If you want this relationship to last, you may want to try meeting him in person. There is another option that you have not thought of yet. If you do not feel attracted to him and the relationship is starting to die, then you should consider if you even want to keep the relationship going. There are other guys who live closer, and you can find someone that you are attracted to. Do you really want to spend a lot of time on a dying, long-distance relationship?

  7. kendra

    April 7, 2015 at 12:26 am

    I love my boyfriend so much

    • web admin

      April 14, 2015 at 8:45 pm

      Congratulations! If you ever need help building your relationship, we have plenty of articles on our website about it!

  8. Nicole

    April 4, 2015 at 1:55 am

    I don’t know exactly what to say?

  9. Nicole

    April 4, 2015 at 1:51 am

    I love my boyfriend a lot. We don’t have any classes together this year, so we don’t see each other that often, but we text and email and sometimes I see him in the halls and I go to his games and he comes to mine, we’ve only hugged twice, but anyways, I really love him but I don’t know excctly how he feels, he’s told me he cares about me and how beautiful I am. Although, I don’t know what to say when I see him or text him all the time. Also, my heart beats really fast when he comes and talks to me in the halls and everything around him becomes blurry and the only thing I can see is him, but I don’t know what he thinks

    • A3_92414

      April 9, 2015 at 1:03 am

      That’s like me, I text him pretty much every day but during the school year I only see him twice a week ( I go to a private school that’s only two days a week). What about hanging out with him on the weekends? If you can go on like a coffee date, and talk about your relationship, it’s best to talk about it in person than over text, I learned that the hard way, trust me. I hope this kind of helped, if you have any other questions I do NOT mind answering.

    • web admin

      April 14, 2015 at 8:49 pm

      A3_92414 had some good advice. If you like spending time together right now, why not hang out on the weekends? The best way to find out how he feels is to hang out with him and talk to him about it. Since your issue is finding something to say, you should make sure that you hang out at something that is more like an event. If you go to a movie, you do not have to talk during the film and you can talk about the parts you liked together. The pottery painting shops, a hike, a trip to the pool or a similar location are great places to go on a date. It takes some of the pressure off of you to think of a conversation topic and ensures that you have a shared memory to talk about later.

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