40 Cute Things to Text Your Boyfriend

By on January 8, 2014
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Absolutely love texting your boyfriend, but running out of cute texts that will make him smile? You’re not alone. After texting the same person for several months, finding things to make them smile can be a little difficult. But with these 40 cute things to text your boyfriend will surely make him laugh and smile.


1. Hey there handsome.

So much better than simply reading ‘Hi’ or ‘Hey’. Make him smile with the very first text you send. It can only get better!

2. I miss your cute smile.

Who doesn’t love a compliment on their appearance? Men love compliments, and this one will definitely make him smile with that cute little grin you know and love.

3. I love you.

This one should obviously be reserved for more serious relationships, but once he reads this he will definitely get butterflies in his belly.

4. You are so handsome.


Again, every man loves to be complimented. You can use other words like hot or sexy, but hearing he’s handsome will definitely up his ego in a more meaningful way.

5. I love your ____.

Really you can say just about anything with this text. Maybe you love his gorgeous green eyes, maybe you love his hilarious personality, or maybe are head over heels for his long blonde hair. Whatever it is that drives you crazy, let him know with this text. It’ll boost his ego and keep him happy for days on end.

6. I love it when you ____.

Tell your boyfriend some things you love that he does, like picking you up and hugging you or bringing you flowers before your date. This will not only make him feel good about himself, but will also let him know that he should continue doing it- and more often, too! It’s a win for the both of you.

7. I love you like a fat kid loves cake.

Such a classic line, but it gets a smile every time. I mean, the image is priceless yet it has a lot more meaning than you’d think. It’s really just an adorable text that will make him laugh the second he reads it, while still making his heart melt. Who knew you had such amazing powers?

8. So, there’s this really amazing guy. I like him a lot. His name is (insert boyfriend’s name here).

At first he’ll think, ‘Who is she talking about?’ Then he’ll be greatly surprised (and happy!) when he sees his name. Such a cute way to shower your man with compliments!


9. I was having a bad day, but then I thought of you and suddenly my world lit up.

It might be corny, but it’s definitely one to use on bad days when the only thing that makes you smile is him.

10. <3 

Ah, the heart symbol. So tiny, yet has such an impact. It’s a way of telling him you love him without words.

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  1. asiacooper

    May 22, 2015 at 4:56 pm

    Can u help me plzzz

    • web admin

      May 23, 2015 at 2:15 am

      If you read your first comment, you will be able to see my answer. Good luck, Asia. I hope that everything works out the way that you want it to. If you have any more questions, you can always just leave a message on any of the Her Interest articles. We also have a number of blog posts about relationships that may help. Best of luck!

  2. asiacooper

    May 22, 2015 at 4:53 pm

    Well theirs this boy that been with me six months and I feel different and I feel like he don’t want me but say he do and he says if we eager breakup he still going to f*** around with me and he going to still love me and when I try to talk to him he always listen to his music and it seems like he don’t care about he’s relationship or anything I mean olive him but it’s not the same as it was before I don’t want to breakup with him I just need to know what doo I need to do

    • web admin

      May 23, 2015 at 2:14 am

      So let me see if I understand what you just said. You have been with your boyfriend for six months, and you used to have a good relationship with him. For the last few weeks (months? days?), you have felt like he no longer likes you as much. When you suggested breaking up, he said that he would still love you and be your friend with benefits. Does this sound like what you said?

      If I understand what you said, then I am not sure what you should do. Honestly, it sounds like he may have actually lost interest slightly in you. He may still be affectionate, but he might not be in love with you anymore. It sounds like he might be trying to secure you as a friends with benefits before a break up.

      What did he say when you suggested a break up? Did he tell you that he is just as interested and in love with you as ever? Or did he avoid saying those things?

      To deal with this, you have several options. If you think he is still in love, you can salvage the relationship. Spend more time going out on dates, talking together and just rekindling the relationship. If you think that he truly has lost interested, then just give up. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you forever. If he has already checked out, there is no reason for you to hang around in the relationship. If you have any more questions, let me know.

  3. Divya

    May 22, 2015 at 1:07 pm

    Hi am frm india nd I am loving a guy for past 3 years. He oly proposed me.. He so naughty nd very much attractive person.. I love him madly.. After a long war between both the family we got green signal for my marriage.. It will happen soon.. but now the problem is.. We often fight each other.. not talkin and he is not spending tym with me.. In the mean while he became close with another girl who is working in his ofc.. I caught him by seeing theirs chatting… Some how I fought nd made him stop talking with her but still I am feeling insecure nd fight with him.. y did he do that to me? I care for him nd love him alot he is my old world. Even last night he said tat I ll marry two girls lyk tat nd all.. His words hurts me.. what should I do for making him happy and keep him with me? I want him till my last breath.. please advice.. how should I trust him again?

    • web admin

      May 22, 2015 at 11:52 pm

      It can be hard to trust someone after a betrayal. He may be talking to other girls just to stir up trouble or to prove to himself how much you like him. Your fiance could also be doing it because he likes the other girl or is a player. It is understandable if you cannot trust him again. Judging by your arguments and his recent behavior, do you think that you want to spend the rest of your life with him? You only have so much time before the wedding to decide if he is the right person for you. Before you try to trust him again, you need to decide if you can trust him again. As for keeping him happy, he should be happy with you. If he proposed to you, he presumably likes you and is happy around you. If he is not happy being with you, he made a mistake in asking for your hand in marriage–it is not your fault.

  4. Divya

    May 22, 2015 at 12:57 pm


    • web admin

      May 22, 2015 at 11:47 pm

      Hello :) Welcome to Her Interest, Divya!

  5. Annika

    May 22, 2015 at 2:06 am

    I am in america as an exchange student for a semester. But I will already leave in a few days. I had a crush the while time as I am here. And I found out he likes me back so he asked me out and says that he is my boyfriend. I think he doesn’t want to keep the relationship when I am back home. He told me he just wants was best for me. I like him so much and I does not want it to be over in a few days. Could it still work when we are so far apart?

    • web admin

      May 22, 2015 at 11:26 pm

      There is always some potential for a relationship to work when you are in other countries. For it to work, both people have to be committed and dedicated to making it last. You will also need to be able to fly to his country once a year or more–or he will have to fly to you. This can be difficult, but it is possible.

      If you do not think that you or he will be able to make it work in different countries, it would be best for you to just stay friends. You guys can keep talking to each other from a distance and grow your relationship as friends. In the future, one or the other of you may even be able to move to the other country. Of course, that date could be a long ways off, but you will still get to enjoy a long-distance friendship until then.

  6. Lizbeth

    May 21, 2015 at 11:35 pm

    I just met a boy in the bus I like him and he likes me. How do I know If we’re going out.

    • web admin

      May 22, 2015 at 11:23 pm

      You know that he likes you and you like him, but it sounds like you have never been on a date with each other or talked about having a relationship. Since you just met, it could take a while for you to progress to the “going out” stage. Relax! Get to know him a bit better and let everything unfold naturally. Later on, you can always just ask him if you are going out–or he will ask you. From the sound of it, you are definitely not going out together now. Good luck, Lizbeth!

  7. kiki

    May 21, 2015 at 1:18 am

    So I’m only young (turning 14) and me and this guy r dating and our convos get kind of awkward after a while, how do I carry on the convo

    • web admin

      May 21, 2015 at 5:11 pm

      There are several articles on this site with questions to ask your boyfriend or crush. You can use these to help get the conversation going. Talk about your ideas, dreams or childhood experiences. Once you start an interesting conversation, it will be much easier to keep talking to him without things becoming awkward. Good luck, Kiki!

  8. mac

    May 21, 2015 at 1:11 am

    How do I hold my boyfriends hand and tell him i want to kiss

    • web admin

      May 21, 2015 at 5:10 pm

      For holding his hand, you should just do it. When his hand is close to your hand, grab it gently and just hold it as you walk. If you want him to make a move and kiss you, you may have to wait a bit. Fortunately, it will make it easier for him to kiss you if you take the step of holding his hand.

  9. kate

    May 20, 2015 at 10:02 pm

    It been a long day without my friend and i tell you all about it when i see u again weve come a long way frome where we began oh i tell u all about when i see u again when i see u again dam who knew all the planes we flew good things we been thourght that i been standing right he talking to u about another path i know we love to hit the road and laugh

    • web admin

      May 21, 2015 at 5:08 pm

      This sounds like a poem. Did you write it for your boyfriend?

  10. kate

    May 20, 2015 at 9:58 pm

    Me and my boyfriend been dating for 3 months and it is going well and he tells me i luv u ❤. Then i tell hime u too then he hugs me and kisses me then i hug hime back does this mean it is going well he is so so cute

    • web admin

      May 21, 2015 at 5:07 pm

      It certainly sounds like it it is going well with him. At three months, you should be starting to get comfortable around him and know him better. This is the infatuation stage of the relationship, so you may still feel butterflies in your stomach at times. At any rate, it seems like your relationship is going well. Congrats, Kate!

  11. Miki

    May 20, 2015 at 6:27 am

    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now and we’re in a good relationship.we hang out a lot and yeah but sometimes we can’t since his father is very strict about his studies. But he doesn’t really tell me “I love you” often. What does it mean?

    • web admin

      May 20, 2015 at 2:49 pm

      Everyone’s parents have different rules and expectations for their children. It is perfectly natural for a parent to decide the age that someone can date at or how much they need to study. The fact that your boyfriend was told to focus on school is not unusual in any way–this happens to many people in a relationship, especially when they get closer to the end of high school.

      As for “I love you” talks and comments, he might not be comfortable with saying it. This could be how he was raised. In some families, the words “I love you” are never used, so people from the family are just not as comfortable with saying it in person. The only reason you have to worry about it at all is if he suddenly stopped saying “I love you”. If your boyfriend tells you that he loves you constantly and suddenly stops, then you might have a problem. As it is, I think that everything is probably fine. If you are really worried about it, just talk to him! The best relationships are based on open communication, so getting some insight from him will help your relationship and soothe your concerns.

      • T.T

        May 22, 2015 at 12:34 am

        My boyfriend is upset with me how do I get him to reply to my text messages

        • web admin

          May 22, 2015 at 11:21 pm

          Why is your boyfriend upset with you? Is it because you asked him about saying “I love you” or another reason? If he is not responding to your first text message, you need to just stop texting him for a day or two at least. A stream of continuous texts will only end up annoying him if he is still angry at you. Don’t panic just yet. Give him space, and listen to anything that he has to say. If you need more help, message back and let me know why he is angry at you right now–we may be able to figure out more tailored advice for your situation.

  12. Micaela

    May 20, 2015 at 3:05 am

    Ok so I’ve been dating this boy for bout 4 months and he sends me <3 and love things but at school he makes it seem like he don't know me it so difficult cause I want to talk to him but I can't it's like im a stranger to him at school but on the phone when we r texting we are inseparable what do I do ?

    • web admin

      May 20, 2015 at 2:45 pm

      That seems rather odd. Tell me more about this. When you are at school, does he completely ignore you and talk to other people? Or is he just calmer and more standoff-ish than he normally is? If he is just a bit more reserved with his attitude, he may just have problems talking to you in person. Many people are better at communicating via text than they are in real life. It is a lot easier to send a heart emoticon than to tell someone how you feel in person.

      If, on the other hand, he ignores you completely, then you have an interesting dilemma. The reason could still be the same, but there is also another option: he is or plans on using you in some way. Currently, his messages make it seem unlikely that he is just trying to use you, but it is a possibility. You can comment in a reply to tell me more about what is going on.

  13. marissa

    May 18, 2015 at 1:07 am

    So I have known this guy for quite some time like 2 years now? And we like really like each other, I tell him I love him and we do kissy faves and stuff but the thing is, I’m in 7th grade and I can’t date until I’m 16.. Parents rule, and I’m only 12. He is allowed to date thou and he knows I can’t. We really want to be together but I can’t have my parents be all over it because I will get in trouble and grounded. He uses his mom’s phone to text me and isn’t on all the time because his mom or my bff, his sister could be on. I don’t know what to do!! Some advice please???!!!

    • web admin

      May 18, 2015 at 2:04 pm

      If your parents will not let you date until you are 16, then you may just have to deal with it. You can always try talking to him online, though. It would be a bit easier to message him online, and you would not have to worry about his mother or sister seeing it. Do you have access to a computer at home?

  14. Cas

    May 18, 2015 at 1:00 am

    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. And he is always saying cute things to me but I never have anything to say back. This really helped me.

    • web admin

      May 18, 2015 at 1:59 pm

      I am glad to hear that this helped you, Cas. Good luck and thanks for commenting!

  15. Paula A.

    May 18, 2015 at 12:22 am

    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly 3 months and he still hasnt kissed me.. not even in the cheek. my friends tell me that i should dump him because he isnt a good boyfriend, but just because he hasnt kissed me it doesnt mean hes a bad boyfriend right? hes very clueless and oblivious to most everything. i dont know im so confused because i like him a lot and i know he likes me too but sometimes it just doesnt seem like it. any advice?

    • web admin

      May 18, 2015 at 1:58 pm

      Not kissing you on the cheek yet does not mean that he is a bad boyfriend! Making a move, flirting and asking girls out are very stressful things. He may be worried that if he kisses you, you will not kiss him back. I would stay with him if you like him. Maybe you should get him in a place alone so that he can have an actual chance of making a move. When you are both close to each other, it will be hard for him to avoid the thought (and hopefully the action) of kissing you. Even if he does not kiss you now, I would not worry about it too much. There is nothing wrong with taking things slowly. As long as you are happy and you both communicate how you feel, then stay in the relationship.

  16. Amber

    May 17, 2015 at 7:57 pm

    I’ve been dating a guy that I’ve known since elementary school. I moved and our long distance relationship is going out pretty good. He’s been sending me long messages about how he feels about me and I want to write him one back but I don’t know how. Do you have any advice?

    • web admin

      May 18, 2015 at 1:54 pm

      I would just do it. Since you talk online, you have the time to revise and edit everything that you send him. You already know that he is interested in you, so there aren’t any real risks in just letting him know how you feel. He is probably worried that he is pouring out his heart and you may not feel the same. Let him know that you like him, and let him stop wondering how you feel. Guys are terrible mind readers, so you have to let him know what is on your mind.

  17. sarah

    May 17, 2015 at 6:02 pm

    Hi. so i used to be with tht guy fr abt 3 nd hlf years lovd hm so much…
    bt we broke up
    after hm i knew a guy who blow up my trust in men. I promsd my self to nt trust anyguy aftr
    in those few weeks am tallking to this guy “simon” who is so adorbl makes me smil feel special tlln me tht am the most wndrfull girl wish he could hv me …
    bt we r frnds just frnds
    dnt knw if i should tell him hw i feel dnt wnt lose hm as friend
    cuz really dnt knw hs feellling wt to do !!
    Ps :” i think he acts with me the way same he do with othr girls “

    • web admin

      May 20, 2015 at 6:08 pm

      It can be really difficult to tell if someone likes you or not. Since you were in a relationship for three years, you are probably a bit out of the dating and flirting game. No worries! If you just spend more time talking to him and getting to know him, you may be able to figure out if he is interested. You said that you do not want to lose him as a friend, so you may not want to just ask him out. If you ask him out, it could make things feel awkward between you. Instead, just keep being his friend. If you are feeling adventurous, try flirting with him. You could also ask one of your friends to help. They could ask him who he is interested in and see if he answers with your name. Your friends could also watch how he acts around you to see if they notice anything that you did not. Often, it is really hard for the people involved to see if the other person likes them. With the help of a friend, you could get an outside perspective. Good luck, Sarah! Let me know how it works out!

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