40 Cute Things to Text Your Boyfriend

By on January 8, 2014

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Absolutely love texting your boyfriend, but running out of cute texts that will make him smile? You’re not alone. After texting the same person for several months, finding things to make them smile can be a little difficult. But with these 40 cute things to text your boyfriend will surely make him laugh and smile.


1. Hey there handsome.

So much better than simply reading ‘Hi’ or ‘Hey’. Make him smile with the very first text you send. It can only get better!

2. I miss your cute smile.

Who doesn’t love a compliment on their appearance? Men love compliments, and this one will definitely make him smile with that cute little grin you know and love.

3. I love you.

This one should obviously be reserved for more serious relationships, but once he reads this he will definitely get butterflies in his belly.

4. You are so handsome.


Again, every man loves to be complimented. You can use other words like hot or sexy, but hearing he’s handsome will definitely up his ego in a more meaningful way.

5. I love your ____.

Really you can say just about anything with this text. Maybe you love his gorgeous green eyes, maybe you love his hilarious personality, or maybe are head over heels for his long blonde hair. Whatever it is that drives you crazy, let him know with this text. It’ll boost his ego and keep him happy for days on end.

6. I love it when you ____.

Tell your boyfriend some things you love that he does, like picking you up and hugging you or bringing you flowers before your date. This will not only make him feel good about himself, but will also let him know that he should continue doing it- and more often, too! It’s a win for the both of you.

7. I love you like a fat kid loves cake.

Such a classic line, but it gets a smile every time. I mean, the image is priceless yet it has a lot more meaning than you’d think. It’s really just an adorable text that will make him laugh the second he reads it, while still making his heart melt. Who knew you had such amazing powers?

8. So, there’s this really amazing guy. I like him a lot. His name is (insert boyfriend’s name here).

At first he’ll think, ‘Who is she talking about?’ Then he’ll be greatly surprised (and happy!) when he sees his name. Such a cute way to shower your man with compliments!


9. I was having a bad day, but then I thought of you and suddenly my world lit up.

It might be corny, but it’s definitely one to use on bad days when the only thing that makes you smile is him.

10. <3 

Ah, the heart symbol. So tiny, yet has such an impact. It’s a way of telling him you love him without words.



11. Guess what? (What?) I love you!

Yeah, you didn’t really have a surprise. You just wanted a clever way to tell him you love him! Who wouldn’t smile at that?

12. I wish you were here right now.

Everybody wants to feel wanted, and your man will love knowing that you wish he was next to you.


13. I can’t imagine life without you.

Another great text idea to really show him how much you care about him and want to be with him.


14. Words can’t describe how much I love you.

Another cute text idea for those in serious relationships. It must be pretty deep if words can’t even describe it!

15. I’d do anything to make you smile.

This is a great text to show your man how much you care about him and just want him to be happy!

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16. You know I really want you to come over. But you’re so hot my air condition bill would sky-rocket the second you stepped foot in the door!

Oh, it’s so unbelievably cheesy. But yet, at the same time it’s so funny and adorable! He will love this text- guaranteed.

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17. You’re my drug and I’m addicted to you!

There’s really no question why this text would run over well with your guy.

18. You make my heart race. 

He must be pretty great to make your heart race. Why not tell him?

19. You’re sweet like candy.

This is such a better option then just saying, ‘Oh you’re so sweet’, which he’s probably heard 100 times already.Cute things to text your boyfriend-06

20. I hope you know CPR, ‘cause you just took my breath away!

Here’s another corny text, but boy does it bring out the biggest smiles.


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  1. Ayu

    October 21, 2016 at 3:25 am

    i met a guy, he somehow caught my attention even during our first meeting.. Since we’re both working in a medical field, time is our biggest enemy (sigh). Let me get to the point, he asked me out 1st.. and things started to get better.. It’s just we couldn’t meet at all (no joke).. His emergency cases, my crazy schedules… I like him a lot.. We just clicked.. There are days he went all the way just to send some food to me at the clinic (we have a thing about food and dessert, hehehe), but that’s it.. That’s how far we go.. exchanging food.. (sigh….).. I really like this guy. Should I make the move or just let thing go with the flow?

    i’m really helpless when it comes to relationship thingy..

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 21, 2016 at 6:18 pm

      It is certain that the two of you have strong feelings for each other. It is also almost certain that he knows the limitations of time and how it influences your relationship. If the two of you have a food sharing form of communication, then hope yet remains. Next time you send him food, you should also send him a letter. In this letter share your feelings and your desire to meet up with him. While you may not be able to see each other for some time, it will certainly let him know that you are thinking of him. When he knows that you are thinking of him, he will almost certainly think about you more. This may force him to make additional time for you. Remain positive and mindful as you move forward, Ayu!

  2. Nina

    October 20, 2016 at 12:11 pm

    Hey! Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, we are both 18 years old, he gets mad and jealous easily even tho he cheated on me before with my close friend, but now that we’re back together he said that i made him feel the real love again but i still can’t get over the fact that he cheated on me, it’s like i can’t trust him anymore, but at the same time i’m so addicted to him. We broke up for a couple times and at the end we get back together. Now that everything is going good between us, lately he been texting me slow and always making excuses like “my mom needed to talk to me” but he takes hours to reply back to me everytime, then when i started replying slow and giving him dry replies he gets mad at me.. What can i do??

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 21, 2016 at 5:56 pm

      It seems as though your reasonable issues with trust and his actions are causing your relationship to have problems. It is possible that he is being honest, though since he has a history of cheating, he may be cheating on you. Be sure to demand respect when you speak to him next time. If he continues to ignore you and give reasons why he is not texting you, then perhaps you have good reason to end your relationship. That said, it would be best for you to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Remain positive in your feelings and mindful of his actions as you move into the future, Nina!

      • Nina

        October 24, 2016 at 2:53 am

        I was being nice to him but today he texted me saying that we need to talk & then he said that he has done something wrong and just realised it. I asked him whats wrong? And he said he can’t tell me now because i was at school and he doesn’t want me to cry. So i asked him if he cheated on me and he said he can’t answer me now. So i was like “I’m a good enough person to forgive you, but I’m not stupid enough to trust you again. FOH.” Then i blocked him before i even see what is he going reply. & i started crying at school and couldn’t focus in class. He’s only in my mind. Did i do or reply something wrong to him? What should i do now? :,(

  3. lara

    October 19, 2016 at 4:11 pm

    Hello !
    I would love to tell you my story because i need your advice.
    So there’s this guy that goes to the same school(med school ) . We never really talked . I sent him a fb message to ask for help (studies ) he replied so we exchanged several messages.this was 2 years ago . In july i sent him a fb message this time to offer him some books.i told him that i would love to give him some books because i have so many and because he helped me in the past . I got his message 3 weeks later ( he was very thankful and he told me that i’m so kind …) so i told him that he can come to my house to get the books and that it was apleasure for me to help him.i never got a reply … waht should i do ? I realy like him a lot , i haven’t seen him in a long time but i still think of him a lot . I am convinced that we would make a great couple .
    Ps :we both are 22
    Thank you !!

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 20, 2016 at 11:40 am

      Perhaps it would be wise of you to invite him out somewhere neutral to exchange the books. It is possible that he is currently in a relationship and may not be able to go to your house without arousing concern. It is also possible, since he is in school, that he is busy and unable to take this time to see you. However, after you see him and share your books with him you can determine if he is able to begin a relationship with you. Remain positive and mindful as you move forward, Lara!

      • lara

        October 21, 2016 at 1:49 am

        Hello ! Thank you for your kind message .
        I have a question : do you think that he takes me for a “freak ” because basically i’m inviting a stranger to my house to give him some free books.why is it taking him so long to answer? Is it a polite way to say no? (In the only message that i got from him in august, he said that he was very interested because these books are very expensive and that he was really “shocked” because people aren’t veey kind these days… do you think that he knows that i’m doing this only to see him and to be able to talk to him ? If he only knew … thank you so so much ,i really apreciate your effort. Have a good day :) .

        • web admin

          web admin

          October 21, 2016 at 6:16 pm

          While he may assume that you want to share these books because you are interested in him, it is not unreasonable to believe that he is simply very busy at this time. As I said earlier, he may be in a relationship and his partner may not feel comfortable with him coming to your house. If you want to share the books with him and create a stronger relationship with him, then perhaps it would be wise to message him and ask to meet with him somewhere else to give him the books. This action will certainly make him feel closer to you. If you determine that he is not in a relationship with anyone else, then it would be wise at that time to ask him to see you again. What is important for the establishment of a successful relationship is proximity in the early stages. Remain positive when you meet up with him, Lara!

          • lara

            October 22, 2016 at 12:41 pm

            Hello again !
            You were right ! I saw a picture of him with a girl ..when he sent me the message ,they were already together. I thibk that he just forgot about me ..it breaks my heart :( any advice ?
            Thank you , i really appreciate your help :)

            • web admin

              web admin

              October 23, 2016 at 5:08 pm

              Hello, Lara! It is certain that the experience that you just had has happened countless times throughout the history of humans and our relationships. What is the most important thing to do at this point is to allow this person to drift into the past. In time, you may find that he is single and looking to establish a relationship with you. However, at this time, you would be most wise to not interfere in their relationship. Instead, take this as a reminder to live your own life to the fullest without concern about people that you desire. Perhaps you will find someone better, or perhaps you will find someone who places you first. Either way, live in the moment and share your wonderful attitude and happiness with those around you. Live positive and mindful, Lara!

              • lara

                October 23, 2016 at 9:51 pm

                Thank you for your kind words. As you said ,i’m not the only one , afterall we’re all in this together ,aren’t we ?!
                I think that i will have to learn to accept the fact that not every peson that i choose , is going to choose me in return
                I’ll be focusing on myself instead by making good decisions and trying to be someone better.
                I am grateful to you for your support !you are a true blessing for doing what you do !
                Wish you all the best

  4. Katherine

    October 16, 2016 at 7:30 pm

    I know I posted earlier but I have more to say. My boyfriend is 26 and he is still married but he will work on getting a divorce soon but he doesn’t have enough money because he have a kid with his baby mama. I didn’t know if he was married at all until I fall deeply in love with him. When I found out he told me it was because he wanted me to give him a chance , I was hurt but I still love him. He said he got married too early and because his baby mama was pushing him to marry her. He wasn’t really thinking and he said he really love me and he always take me out On dates. I feel his love but I think it’s wrong that he’s still married and I get jealous sometimes. I know for a fact he won’t go back with his baby mama because she got him arrested for domestic violence and he said he didn’t really hit her or anything, I’m not sure if it’s a good idea if I stay with him. Maybe he’s different now. Help?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 17, 2016 at 10:51 am

      The domestic violence charge is a worry, but that is an entirely different issue than what you are asking about right now. If he is getting a divorce, then it looks like he is available to date. You know he is not going back to her, and the divorce will take some time–in some states, it can take months to complete even when both parties are in agreement. It looks like you do not have to worry about the past relationship after all; now, you just have tohope that the divorce is a simple one and he can be totally free again for you.

      • Katherine

        October 19, 2016 at 10:13 am

        What if my boyfriend baby mama find out I’m dating him while they are still legally married? If she take that to court can my boyfriend get in trouble?? My boyfriend doesn’t like her anymore and he said he’s never going back to her , they don’t live together , they have a son but he barely get to see him and the only reason they don’t get a divorce now is because of money problem . But they don’t want each other. She hate him and she just want to fuck up his life. Make him pay her a lot of money and he’s already paying her more than $700 for child support . I think it’s terrible. Any advice please?

        • web admin

          web admin

          October 19, 2016 at 2:40 pm

          If the two of them are separated and emotionally divorced, then it is morally acceptable for you to begin dating him. Continue to support him emotionally and determine what course of action you want to take to help him financially. However, there is no reason for you to feel required or forced to help him with his finances. There can be no legal ramifications for dating someone while married, however I would not announce it publicly too often as people may look down on him and you for your relationship. Remain positive and continue to be good to him during this difficult time.

    • Kaysha

      October 18, 2016 at 12:19 am

      This sounds exactly like what me and my finance Christian went though. We got together when he was still married to his baby mama but they broke up I helped him pay for his divorce and we ended up having a son together. He really didn’t ever go back to her and everything ended up fine. Point being someone can be an entirely different person with you than with someone else. They could have just been toxic together that doesn’t mean you guys will be.

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 18, 2016 at 9:52 am

        Awesome–I am glad to hear that it worked well with you. There are many people who date who drive each other crazy and have terrible relationships. A good relationship is all about finding the right chemistry together. You may not be perfect people, but you can be perfect together like puzzle pieces. Thanks for commenting, Kaysha!

      • Katherine

        October 19, 2016 at 10:05 am

        Wow kaysha 😁 I really love your answer! I was actually thinking about the same thing, help my boyfriend pay for his divorce. We haven’t start anything yet but I would want to help him out. Then we could have our own place, your answer give me lots of hope!! At first I couldn’t stop thinking about him still being married to someone and else and have a kid with them , I thought it was wrong but I guess I’m not the only one, thank you😊💘

        • web admin

          web admin

          October 19, 2016 at 2:43 pm

          It would be most wise of you to prepare yourself emotionally for the problems that may come during divorce proceedings and those problems. If you are making a determination to date this person while he is going through a divorce, then it would be wise for you to understand that you may run into problems due to high emotions. Stand by him and care for him during this time, yet make sure to require the respect that you deserve. Remain mindful as you move forward, Katherine!

    • ora

      October 18, 2016 at 6:49 am

      Am facing something related to that too. My boyfriend is 29 , when we first met he told me everything thing about his baby momma and his son, but he convinced me that they are not together . recently a text came to his phone and I got curious to read it.the text was from his baby’s momma and it read ” dear rick . can you come home right now , your sister is here and I have prepared good food for you, come over” I got jealous so I decided to have a word with him . so he happens to tell me that he pays child support, rent for his baby’s momma takes her to hospital when she’s sick and the kid too, and it happens whenever he leaves his house early each morning he always told me he goes to work but it turned out he has to go pick and drop his son each day . am jealous .. And I feel a fool in this..
      I need advice because he told me they are not together

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 18, 2016 at 9:59 am

        It sounds like they are not together. Instead, it sounds like he is trying to be a supportive, involved father for his son. He has to pay child support, and he takes his son to work because he loves his son. Hospital visits are probably because he is helping out and because the mother needs to be healthy to take care of his son. As for rent, he is probably just going above and beyond what fathers normally do. It sounds like you found a keeper. If he is that good of a father for his son after a break up, imagine what a great husband he would be some day. It is understandable if you want to end the relationship because you cannot handle having his son or ex in his life for the next 18 years, but I would be cautious. If you try to make him spend less time with his son, he may turn into a protective papa bear and end things with you instead. Be careful!

  5. Katie

    October 16, 2016 at 7:17 pm

    My boyfriend and I been together for 7 months and he’s a smoker. I can tell when he smoke and when he doesn’t becaus I can smell it or taste it and I hate that. I really love him and want our relationship to last but I don’t know what to do about his smoking habit. Nicotine gum doesn’t work for him and I told him to try sunflower seeds. He’s such a nice guy and he listen to me but he tell me that it’s hard for him to quit even tho he try. Any advice?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 17, 2016 at 10:44 am

      Quitting nicotine can be extremely, extremely difficult. He may not ever want to do it, no matter how much he loves you. One thing that may work is to travel somewhere else and put him in a different environment. If he is constantly busy and in a different environment, it will be easier for him to stop smoking. Whether he does this or not depends on if he is ready to actually quit. You can try to make him, but forcing him to quit could end up driving a wedge between you two. You just have to decide what you are willing to do. If he continues to smoke, get him some gum, some hand sanitizer and make sure that he showers often enough to remove some of the smell.

      • Katie

        October 19, 2016 at 9:42 am

        Thank you I feel so much better now 😁

        • web admin

          web admin

          October 19, 2016 at 2:37 pm

          We always hope to make our readers and community members feel better. Thank you, Katie!

  6. Anonymous

    October 13, 2016 at 12:40 pm

    Hi. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months now going on 7. Everything is great. I like to go to parties and clubs, with my friends. No other boys since I’m not a cheat. But he doesn’t let me go clubbing. Is that bad or good?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 14, 2016 at 10:17 am

      Every relationship is different, so it is only up to you guys to determine if this is the right decision for your relationship. Perhaps you could try asking him to go to the parties and clubs with you–it would make him less nervous, and then he would know for sure that nothing is going on. He may just be a little insecure about you going out to a club since most guys go to clubs to pick up girls. Bring him along, and it should be less of a problem. Good luck, Anonymous!

  7. Naveen

    October 9, 2016 at 7:56 pm

    great post! i was really looking for some cute texts. Thankfully, i found your post and it was able to satisfy my needs.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 10, 2016 at 11:32 am

      I am happy to hear that this article could help. If you liked this topic, we have many more like it on Her Interest. Make sure to check them out if you have the time. Thanks for commenting, Naveen!

  8. keira

    October 9, 2016 at 12:22 pm

    My boyfriend is crying and he won’t tell me what’s wrong and he’s texting me whilst on facetime but I want to make him happy or cheer up but he said I can’t do anything to help him :( any ideas?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 10, 2016 at 11:27 am

      We have multiple articles on Her Interest with texting ideas for your boyfriend, funny quotes and romantic messages. Until he tells you what is wrong, it may be difficult to help him. You could always try making him his favorite meal or cookies to help bring a smile to his face. Good luck, Keira!

    • de

      October 11, 2016 at 2:23 pm

      the best thing u can do is tell him how much you love him and how special he is to you and just say really cute things or just walk over to his house and and when he opens the door kiss him.
      well that’s what i would do.

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 11, 2016 at 3:48 pm

        That sounds like excellent advice, De. I am sure that Keira will appreciate getting the extra input. :) Thanks for commenting!

  9. pour

    October 8, 2016 at 8:26 pm

    Been with my boyfriend only for couple of months now. Im only 18 and he is 20,we both agreed that we will not have sex yet he respect my decision he will wait for me.He always includes me in his future telling me i’m the first girl he ever loved this much.He said he wanna introduce me to his mom but when the time is right.Then on dis other day we were together he just moved so fast that we ended up having sex,i regret myself for loosing my virginity so early.But what scares me is that what if he leaves me.I love him a lot i dont wanna loose him

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 9, 2016 at 9:23 am

      Relax and don’t worry so much about it. Many people do not stay with their first love, but you cannot let your fear of what could or could not happen harm your relationship. He may be just your first love, or you could stay together forever. There is no way for you to know for sure, so there is no point in worrying about it yet. Relax and enjoy your relationship. Good luck, Pour!

  10. CC

    October 8, 2016 at 2:35 am

    Hi there, I’m 23 and dating a guy that’s twice my age and is married. We’ve been together for four months now and so far everything is going well, i forgot to mention that his wife lives lives 500km away from where he lives so they only get to see each other twice a year and the kids visit him sometimes during their school holidays.him and i basically stay together because I’m at his place 90% of my life, we go out a lot and if not he’s always cooking for me, he buys me nice expensive gifts and seems to be loving a lot, he’s even paid for my tuition fees and got me a nice job and always speaks about his future with me and my opinions really matters to him like the other day, i jokingly said the lounge walls would look better if they were pink and when i got back from a road trip with my friend the walls were painted pink…I know i said i feel he loves me and could he really be loving me or just passing time since the wife is not around???what I’d like to know is that, can a married man honestly be in love with a 23 year old?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 8, 2016 at 12:25 pm

      He can be in love with you, but it is wrong if he is married. Perhaps you should ask him a few questions about his wife. Are they basically separated and just staying married for taxes, children or financial reasons? If he plans on staying married to his wife and it is for another reason than I just listed, you may want to leave him. It’s nice having someone who treats you well, but you are going to get a lot of bad karma by being the “other woman” and he will probably never leave her. Unless he is just staying married in name only for a financial reason, it is not a good idea to continue seeing him. Talk to him and have a serious conversation about what he expects and where he sees this going. You should also ask him more about his relationship with his wife. If he loves her and is in a typical marriage, you should run the other way. Good luck, CC!

    • jasmine

      October 13, 2016 at 8:51 pm

      tbh he can but its kinda wrong but go for it if hes comitted cause it wont be your fault because his the one whose in love with you:)

  11. Star

    October 1, 2016 at 6:20 pm

    Me and my boyfriend were together for almost three years, minus one month. I ended up breaking up with him because my feelings were being mixed, I still do not know why they were. We lived each other still but I felt that it would not work. Soon, we both ended up dating someone else, in which we both got hurt in the end. We broke up with who we got with and decided to talk about how things used to be and thought about starting over. It has been a month for us so far and we both love each other dearly. The past often hurts us every now and then but we get through it. I’m wondering, is it a good idea for the both of us to be back together? We both hope that things work out for a long time.

    • web admin

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      October 2, 2016 at 9:26 am

      It looks like you commented twice on this one. I have to approve each comment manually, so it may take me a little while to get around to all of them. If you do not see a response right away, do not worry because you will. Look through my initial response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

  12. Star

    October 1, 2016 at 6:16 pm

    Me and my boyfriend were together for almost three years, minus one month. I ended up breaking up with him because my feelings were being mixed, I still do not know why they were. We lived each other still but I felt that it would not work. Soon, we both ended up dating someone else, in which we both got hurt in the end. We broke up with who we got with and decided to talk about how things used to be and thought about starting over. It has been a month for us so far and we both love each other dearly. The past often hurts us every now and then but we get through it. I’m wondering, is it a good idea for the both of us to be back together?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 2, 2016 at 9:25 am

      It all depends on your relationship and what you can handle. Often, couples find it very difficult to come back from what you have been through and to trust each other again. You said that part of the reason you wanted the break up is because your feelings were mixed. Personally, I would wait a bit longer to sort these feelings out completely. Right after a break up, it is hard to see clearly because you miss the person so much. Once you heal a little, you will be able to think through if your reasons and feelings behind breaking up were valid and then decide. I would wait until you fully understand why you broke up so that you can actually start on a fresh slate. Good luck, Star!

  13. jerk

    September 30, 2016 at 4:48 am

    hey there! Me and my boyfriend met few days ago for the first time and now most of the time he says that I’m not interested in him and began disliking him but that’s not true, I really love him. I’ve made clear several times but maybe he’s not pretty clear about me. what to do? I really really love him :( Need your help.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 30, 2016 at 10:26 am

      His statements toward you may simply be reflections of his emotional uncertainty. Be clear with him about your feelings and explain that he should respect your words. As you are not lying to him, if he continues to questions your emotions toward him, then explain that you need him to understand and appreciate your words. Remain positive and be clear and honest with your feelings with him!

  14. sueyartsy

    September 27, 2016 at 11:16 pm

    Hi. Am just perplexed. He doesn’t notice all that

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 28, 2016 at 4:20 pm

      If he is completely unresponsive, then he likely has a reason to not give you attention. He may be in a relationship or may be uninterested in one at this time. If you want to have a conversation with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Remain positive as you move forward and enjoy life with or without him, Sueyartsy.

  15. Idk

    September 23, 2016 at 12:09 am

    Hey there today my bf send me a mesg but I can’t read it cause my mom was there so he got so much angry now.so what can I do now to make him happy?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 25, 2016 at 9:49 am

      If you are unable to have a relationship with someone because your parents will not allow it, then it would be wise to speak with your parents about your situation. If the message was too personal for your mother to see, then speak with your boyfriend about sending more appropriate messages. Whatever the situation, your boyfriend has no right to be upset at you. Speak with him directly about your needs to be treated with respect. There is no reason for you to walk around on eggshells because of someone’s actions.

  16. Ashley Smith

    September 20, 2016 at 4:00 pm

    Hey, so my boyfriend and I got together yesterday morning. Today he told me to prove that I love him more…. What do I do? Can anybody help me out? Please.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 20, 2016 at 4:14 pm

      While he may have meant his statement is a positive and friendly way, it is important to be mindful when people say things like ‘prove your love’. It is possible that he is being friendly, but it is also possible that he is secretly asking you to physically interact with him in a way that you are not interested in doing. If you feel forced or coerced at anytime, then be clear about your feelings. If he says that you are not proving your love, then it is important for you to get out of this relationship. That said, there is no reason for you to not spend more time with him and go out on dates with him. Be sure to demand respect for yourself and remain positive, Ashley!

    • Idk

      September 23, 2016 at 12:10 am

      You can say him that u love him more than he loves u

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 25, 2016 at 9:50 am

        It is always wise to be clear and honest about your feelings. If you feel strongly for someone and want to tease them, then it is fun to say that you love them more. Enjoy life.

  17. Harley

    September 19, 2016 at 9:53 pm

    I am in a nice relationship with my boyfriend. Next week will be our 4 month anniversary. I may be only 13 but he is my knight in shining armor he wouldnt start calling me baby girl until last week. We want to make sure we are together for as long as we can so we are taking it nice and slow. Our relationship is not based of sex the only sexual thing we talk about is cuddling and even then that isn’t sexual. He tells me he loves me and I believe him. He always asks if I’m feeling ok cause of reason I want to be remained unknown, he helps me with my homework, we talk about school a lot unlike a lot of couples. They say a relationship is bad when you are in school, with me and him that is wrong me and him are in pre academic classes and a college prep class. He is in athleteics and I am not I was supposed to be but I move 15 minutes away so I couldn’t be in the school district plus he is in a grade above me. I can’t wait till our first kiss <3

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 20, 2016 at 4:00 pm

      It is great that you are having such a positive relationship experience at such an early age. Continue to spend time with him and share your thoughts and feelings. It is great that the two of you are thinking about college and you should continue to do so. Also, be sure to be athletic with him as the two of you grow. This will support your relationship as the two of you age. Enjoy life as you move forward, Harley!

  18. Robyn

    September 17, 2016 at 6:54 pm

    Me and my ex were together for almost ten years and we have to children together.in the beginning of our relationship when I wasn’t sure where it was heading I cheated on him 2 different times.but with time we because better.so just this past Feb he says he needs space which I fond out is his was of saying I have someone else now.I’m crushed.my family is destroyed.so after I’m done crying for a month,I pick myself back up n go out to enjoy myself with one or two hookups.well then the girl he left me for leaves him.he’s crushed by that cause he honestly thought he loved her n she loved him(lol).so over the past few months we have become closer again and are considering giving it another try.on all for it.I love him and want our family together again.but he has his dpubts still about weither he can get past my past cheatings.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 18, 2016 at 12:47 pm

      It seems as though you have cheated on him first, but he cheated on you as well. That said, since the both of you have been unfaithful, you have equal concerns about the other. If he is willing to give your relationship a second try, then I would support your decision to do so. It may be the best decision for your children. Speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings and take some time together on a vacation to become closer. See if a family member can take your children for a weekend or entire week while you have some close time.

  19. michelle

    September 17, 2016 at 1:42 am

    hi hope you can help im been talking to this on line for seven wks , every thing was ok in the begining , now im not so sure he keeps talking dirty senting sexy voice messages, he lives a long way, he keeps telling me he likes me but i dont believe him, i know he wants one thing, he never texts me goodnight and he treats me like im not here when im on line im not silly, when i said maybe your not interested in me he said lol u joking i dont what to believe anymore.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 17, 2016 at 12:36 pm

      He may just want someone to talk to and be sexual with. Considering the distance between you, he may not expect a real relationship to actually be possible right now. Whatever the case, it does not seem like he places the same emphasis on your relationship as you do. If you want someone who values the relationship as much as you do, you may have to move on. :( Good luck, Michelle!

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