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    10 Signs He’s falling in Love with You

    By on October 2, 2013

    It’s very hard to tell if your man is falling in love with you or not because the puppy dog love in the beginning very much imitates true love. The further into the relationship, the clearer it becomes that the nice stuff he does is not just infatuation but true love. Here are some sure-fire signs that he is falling in love with you;

     

    1. You’ve Met Everyone

    If you have met his grandma, parents, best friend, and all of his third and fourth cousins, he is probably falling in love with you. A man in love will find events to introduce you to everyone he knows. He will gladly go to his dreaded high school reunion just so everyone can know that you are his.

     

    2. He Says “We”

    When a man stops saying “I” and starts saying “We”, this is a good indication that he is in love. If he talks about the future in this tone, he wants to be with you long-term. “We should go on vacation there someday.” A man who isn’t in love will say, “I want to go there someday.” When he says “we”, he is really saying that the two of you are becoming one.

     

    3. He Says, “I Love You”

     

    Some men do jump the gun on this one and say it right away, but most men will hold it in until they mean it…and sometimes longer. A man will only say that when he means it because #1, he wants to be sure you feel it too and #2, he doesn’t want to risk having some girl cling to him that he doesn’t feel the same about. Be forewarned though ladies, “Love ya” is not the same. As silly as the small difference sounds, it makes a big difference. Love ya is for friends. I love you is for real.

     

    4. He Remembers

    If he remembers the little things that you’ve mentioned, he might be falling in love. If you mentioned once that you like lilies and he surprised you with them, it’s a good sign for you. If he makes dinner and remembers to leave out the onions that you mentioned make your stomach hurt, he might be falling. Extra points for him if you said these details a long time ago and he remembered all this time. A man in love will pay attention to even the smallest details because he knows that they matter.

     

    5. He Does Things Just Because

    He cleaned the entire house or made you breakfast in bed or bought you a present just because? Yes. He’s falling for you. Doing little things just because means that you are on his mind and he is trying to make you happy. If he wasn’t in love, he wouldn’t care and he wouldn’t think about it. He’s in love.

     

    6. He proposes

    Duh. Unless he’s trying to get citizenship, this is a no-brainer. If he wasn’t in love, he wouldn’t want to marry you. If he wants to marry you, he’s in love. Again, unless he’s trying to become a citizen. Then, this might not be the best sign. But he might still be in love.

     

    7. You’re Automatically Invited

    When he makes it clear that you are automatically invited to wherever he is invited, he is falling in love. If he’s going to a wedding, Christmas Party, or whatever and implies that you will be his date to everything, you’re good. He’s in love.

     

    8. He Holds Your Hand Everywhere

    If he isn’t afraid to hold your hand everywhere you go, he is falling in love. This gesture speaks to everyone that the two of you are together. An arm around the shoulder can be for friends, but holding hands is pretty universal. If he does this around friends, family, and strangers than he isn’t holding anything back. He wants the world to know. He isn’t hiding that he is taken.

     

    9. You’re Always the Main Event

    Whether you are at a fundraiser or a New Year’s Eve Party, he only has eyes for you. His eyes are not wandering around the room, they are locked on you. This is a very good sign of his feelings. Sure all people look around from time to time no matter how much in love, but if you are the main event in his eyes, he is in love.

     

    10. He Has Your Stuff at His House

    This little sign speaks volumes for two reasons. First of all, it shows that he doesn’t have other women at his house. If he did have other women around, he wouldn’t want your stuff there. Second of all, it shows that he is moving towards being completely committed. He is saying that he knows you two are moving towards a serious future together.

    6 Comments

    1. Lani

      July 15, 2017 at 6:21 pm

      So I met this guy a couple of months ago and I’m starting to wonder something. I’ve commented on here before about having a dream when I did something completely embarrassing in front of him and since then I’ve been careful about what I do in front of him. It’s been recently that I’ve been listening to romantic music about positive love and I been thinking about this guy a lot for a while, like he is on my mind a lot. I honestly think I am falling head over heels for him, but I wanted a second opinion on my situation. Here’s the thing, I’ve spent quite a bit of time with him, talked to him, found out a lot about him and we have more than a few things in common. The more I find out about him, the more I find myself yearning for something that I never really wanted before. I find myself wanting something to be there between us. When he sees me sometimes, he smiles big and lights up, but that depends on how good of a day he’s had. I can never catch him looking at me because I have a gut feeling that he’s sneaky like I am and he’s just as shy as I am. Should I keep waiting until my gut says it’s time to make a move? Or make a move soon and possibly end up getting hurt again? I’ve been in two not so good relationships in the past that I’ve gotten myself out of so I’m really hesitating because of that and I don’t want to lose the friendship I have with this current guy.

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 15, 2017 at 8:38 pm

        It sounds like the two of you are close and it is certainly possible that he wants to develop a relationship with you. You can reach out to him at any time that makes you feel comfortable. When you do, speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will help him feel more comfortable with sharing himself with you as well. Have a great day, Lani!

    2. Matilda

      September 24, 2016 at 5:06 am

      My boyfriend stole all my panties, does this mean he loves me because he has my stuff in his house? And I’m concerned.

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 25, 2016 at 10:41 am

        It is acceptable to be concerned with his actions. It would be wise to speak with him about his thefts. Also, there is no reason for him to have stolen your panties. Speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings to rectify the situation. Sit him down and be clear with him about your boundaries and needs. Remain mindful as you move forward, Matilda!

    3. beth

      August 24, 2016 at 10:56 pm

      Does that mean he luvz me -/ likes me / is into me?

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 25, 2016 at 10:48 pm

        If you want to know his feelings, then there is nothing better than speaking with him directly and honestly about your questions and your feelings. There is nothing wrong with attempting to further develop any relationship that you have. And new relationships are always something to strive for. Remain positive as you move forward.

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